Okay... I am flattered, that she thinks highly of me, I was sweet and
romantic what she did.

OK, let me be the oddball out on this. Giving women flowers and cady has
always been an old fashioned gesture, and a good gesture. It seems
today, women feel comfortable giving men flowers as well. Me, I am not
comfortable recieving flowers. I would prefer something else as I have
always found flowers to be a feminine gesture and not masculine. Does
this mean that I am not in touch with my feminine side? I doubt it as I
write poetry that is sweet and sincere, I am not afraid to use the word
"cute" and I will have sex on the beach (the drink as well) which sweet
drinks are looked upon by many men as being feminine. However, just
because I, or anyone else, is not comfortable receiving flowers, it does
not mean that the person I am dating would know that. If it makes you
uncomfortable, tell her and explain why. She will understand just don't
belittle her. Also, for those men that are comfortable receiving
flowers, it does not mean you should take their man cards from them
either. It is an expression of the woman's heart and she knows how she
feels when she gets flowers, and it may make her feel the same to give
them. Be true to yourself, be true to the lady, and most of all, keep
the communication lines open. Try telling her the things you would
rather get from her... such as a kiss, or a hug, or a box of chocolates
(you don't have to take care of those chocolates now) ;-).

huh?

I am just saying be yourself man. Don't make a huge deal out if it. If
you aren't comfortable with the idea of receiving flowers, let her know
and let her know why. She will respect your honesty and who knows, may
even be able to change your thoughts on the concept but whatever you do,
be real about it and don't pretend. It will only come back to haunt you
later if you do.

Maybe... but I decided to take her to Karaoke Tuesdays, where we,ll dine
on fish tacos, and margaritas... then I will sing to her the song of
songs.
The song that has turned many women into sex crazed predators.
Yes... Yes, I am talking... Billy Ocean... Get out of my Dreams and into
my Car. Top That?

i hope u aren't just looking for a sexual encounter i hate men who just
want sex and it turns out being a one night stand. sorry but it's just
my opinion!! if you wanna play a women go buy urself a barbie

Ouch!

Would that be the blowup Barbie?

if ur talking to me the answer is NO!!!

No!... Whats that?

sorry i don't wanna be the blowup barbie thanks anyway though

Ontario
I think you have the right idea
go for it.



morena

Thanks!

Okay... I have reconsidered, and decided that Billy Ocean song is not
going to work.
I can actually sing, so tonight at karaoke, I would like to sing
something melodic, yet intense... any Ideas!

How sweet!! Awww!

Just out of curiousity though. Why would you ask if it was a sign for
help? What kind of help? Just wondering.

I gave a guy flowers one time. It wasn't our first date and it wasn't a
bouque of flowers. It was this piece of glass that had one yellow rose
inside. He liked it.

Romance is a lot. Once you have it, you definately don't wanna let it go
and want more. For both.

I once sang "You've got that loving feeling" by the Righteous Brothers.

I was still be-dazzled, by the gesture... it was clearly me that needed
help!

Ontario, she sounds classy to me, don't read too much into it, very
classy though, sounds like someone worth the time to take the time to
know.

Yeah... she won,t let me spend any money on her, all she wants to do is
sing karaoke and eat fish tacos... this will be is our 3rd date and I
bet I have,nt spent Fifty Bucks.

cool, lmao
lucky