I know a sledgehammer that could sort that for you.

BECAUSE I HAVEN'T MEET THE OWNER OF MY HEART.

because I need a job that pays in money

not broken promises and broken hearts,,,

because i hav/nt found my sweetheart yet where we become one

looking for the right girl

cuz im crazy

I'm sure that would help, thanks

Because I'm abstinent!

Pretty much the deal, every girl who actually wants an emotional and loving relationship is married.

Seriously every girl I've ever asked out was dating, except for back in grade 5 and 7. Those two girls didn't wanna go out with me because I had acne lol.

I have no shortage of girls wanting me as a best friend.

But all of them don't want me, well they do their just idiots and I finally got rid of them.

Seriously when you call me multiple times a week to talk for up to 10 hours about your feelings. When you come over every second day to visit. When you want to go out for dinner constantly. When your sad you come to.my house to cry on my shoulder. When you wanna see a romantic movie you go out with me.

But do you want a relationship nope.

The girl then gets dumped and is back crying on my shoulder about another jerk.

Look I asked the girls out a few times.

The most common response is "Joel your too perfect I need someone with flaws". But then they always say when their dumped "Where is my prince charming the perfect guy doesn't exist where is he Joel"!!!

Its really stupid and finally a few months ago I severed ties with the last of them.
I still have some former friends on Facebook.

Another one bitching about the horrible guy that knocked her up. I asked her out 7 years ago and multiple times since but she blew me off. Now apparently she wants me!

Ya right you ignore me 7 years and then after getting knocked up your interested. Screw you!

Now people say I have too high standards. My friends say I have the lowest physical standards they know, I won't date a girl I find unattractive but I've asked out girls that my buddies thought was horrific. A girl covered in acne a girl who was slightly over weight.

I'm not as picky physically though I still have standards.

My only real standard is the women has to respect my choice to abstain and being Christian is almost essential it would take a lot to convince me to go out with a non-Christian!

Those are my two standards, plus the has to be slightly attractive. I've even asked out an alcoholic!

So if those standards are too high then seriously girls don't deserve a relationship with me.
sorry have to be blunt but is it so much to ask that you respect my beliefs? Is that so hard?

Besides every girl that wants a good Christian guy, is married.
yes I know theirs a ton online and even offline who say they do, their freaking liars. They wouldn't be getting dumped and putting up with all kinds of **** if they wanted a real man!

Their are good guys everywhere who are single, so if you say you want a real caring loving gentleman and don't have one, your either flat out lying or the guys think your in a relationship!

I did just locate one girl at my church I'm hoping to ask out. Thought she was in a serious relationship. Turns out she isn't, so trying to decide how to ask her out!

But other then her I don't know of any girls actually wanting good guys, when I say that I mean really do.

Turns out the girl I'm thinking of asking out isn't exactly a dater. So she must be shy and most guys must just assume she's taken, I did!

I just haven't met the man of my dreams yet. You know, the one who knocks your socks off!?!

Besides, I refuse to lower my standards and being single is not such a terrible thing in my mind.

I'd rather be alone and happy than to be in an un-happy or in an un-healthy relationship.

Excellent attitude. I'm in much the same place.

because the law won't let me get within 100 ft of the one i should be with

for sure lady...pls suggest me a solution

still waiting for a nice guy with right feeling.

Because I got dumped again, wait this is the 3rd time lol.

Errr, I want a man to knock my socks off. For now I'll settle for one that makes my toes curl.

Because I havent found the right guy yet

I'm single because my last relationship was horrible. And I earned quite a few wounds from it.
So I'm biding my time and letting them heal. :)

Thats a lie Jeff its because your azz wont get on the plane

Same here girly, but its all just a process. With every relationship ended we grow stronger. So when you find that one special guy, every bad relationship you've ever had to deal with will simply become practice for the amazing one soon to come :)

i have a commitment phobia