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Topic: What is Romance?
Ontario's photo
Sun 10/15/06 12:56 PM
Last night my date gave me flowers.
I felt like I was losing my mind... no woman have ever did this.
I would rather have had a bottle of Turkey, or a Steak Sandwich.
Is this a romantic gesture, or a sign she needs help?

hosstin18's photo
Sun 10/15/06 01:03 PM
it is a sign that this women wants to be urs and she is expressing true
feelings for you dont mess it up its hardly rare for a women to give a
gave a rose it normal for a guy to give a women roses so maybe ur
feelings for her is making uncomfortable cuz it sounds that she is madly
in love with you so go on another date and see what happens

sxyhtbtch's photo
Sun 10/15/06 01:15 PM
I think that was a sweet gesture.

Morena350's photo
Sun 10/15/06 01:18 PM
Ontario, the only time a gave flowers to a man
was because I wanted him to feel how I felt when I got flowers
loved.

chismah's photo
Sun 10/15/06 01:22 PM
woah...flowers....damm...YOU DA MAN 0_o

thundermark's photo
Sun 10/15/06 01:32 PM
I gotta agree with Morena on this one. We all usually treat others the
way we would like to be treated. If you are a wise man there should be
some flowers in your hands the next time you see her Ontario

Ontario's photo
Sun 10/15/06 05:18 PM
Okay... now I feel like a Dope!
What would be a nice gift, not flowers, she may think I,m just giving
her back the ones she gave me.

TxsGal3333's photo
Sun 10/15/06 05:28 PM
Ontario, myself I would say not take anything but yourself for if you
give something back just because you feel like you should because they
gave you something first. WRONG She did that because she wanted to show
you that you meant something to her not because she expects you to give
her something in return. If and when you give her something it should be
from the heart and you will know when that time comes. For when you are
out looking at something and she crosses your mind thinking it would be
something she would like or its her. Then you will know what to buy and
she will know its from the heart not because you felt like you owed her
the same jester in return. Until then treat her like a lady should be
treated with your highest respect and it will open doors that maybe have
never been opened before.


Only my thoughts!

And yes I have given a guy flowers before.

Ontario's photo
Sun 10/15/06 06:15 PM
Well, I have to get her somthing... I don,t want to look like an
insensitive jerk.

gterry05's photo
Sun 10/15/06 06:30 PM
Ontario,

Man I have never got flowers unless i was in the hospital,"Does that
count"??Lol!!

Dude that is so cool you should be thankful.Do you like this lady? If
so, than yes, it would be good to repay the gesture.Maybe a look into
the eyes over a candle lite dinner some nice soft music on with a
sincere heart felt "thanks for the flowers, baby"!! ;)

Ontario's photo
Sun 10/15/06 09:00 PM
Yeah... you,re right... and I am just surprised I guess, and yes I like
her very much.

Scorpius_Wiccan's photo
Sun 10/15/06 09:09 PM
If i were you amybe a necklace or something with a charm of hers and
your favoite things to symbolize the "union" of the both of you but hey
i am still single so what the hell do I know lol

Ontario's photo
Sun 10/15/06 09:13 PM
well, its something to consider.

Morena350's photo
Sun 10/15/06 09:16 PM
a nice romantic diner will be a nice thing to do

Scorpius_Wiccan's photo
Sun 10/15/06 09:17 PM
im not talking pricy you can get a fairly inexpensive necklace with a
couple of charms for like 50 bucks or so and still be gold or silver if
that is her prefered metal. That part is very important to women some
like siver some gold dont confuse the two or you will never hear the end
of it.

Ontario's photo
Sun 10/15/06 09:19 PM
Yeah, the Dinner and the necklace are good ideas.

KoolDude79's photo
Sun 10/15/06 10:40 PM
Dude, sing to her if you can or write her poem. Those are two things, I
know women like. It doesn't cost anything, and it does win you some
booty call points. J\k

no photo
Mon 10/16/06 07:14 AM
Are you serious ONTARIO??

You know MEN ARENT THE ONLY ONE WHO CAN GIVE GIFTS ON THE FIRST
DATE!!!
You should of been blushing, and smiling big time, let alone ur
heart should of been skipping a beat big time...
MY MY MY!! it makes one wonder whats wrong with YOU!!!!!

Women, good women, have feelings too and are very giving..
Men dont hold the record for giving flowers.....I have given a dozen red
roses to men in my time.....and let me tell u... they
blushed........even cryed ( and that to me is SEXY!) and then called me
up....said WOMAN COME HERE NOWWWWWWWWWWWW!!! and when they saw
me......took me in their arms......hugged me tightly and kissed
me...........and let me tell yah.......I almost fell on the
floor.............MAN OH MAN!! WHAT A FEELING THAT WAS.
I looked at them & said.....MY GOD UR GETTING FLOWERS MORE
OFTEN..........NOW........KISSS ME AGAIN!! ill tell u when to
STOP........and they just laughed........
NOW DONT U FEEL ASHAMED OF WHAT U SAID?? Id seriously have second
thoughts of ever dating you.........THAT WAS REALLY UNKIND OF YOU TO
SAY........

shame on youuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu!!!!


dakotas55

Ontario's photo
Mon 10/16/06 05:30 PM
Wow, Dakota... I,m just a guy that was took by surprise, stop beating
up on the stupid.

LaceyElizabeth's photo
Mon 10/16/06 05:34 PM
u should be grateful that she gave u flowers it's the little things in
life like that that mean so much.....or they shoud anyway. Could it be
anymore obvious that she wants u lol!!!

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