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Last night my date gave me flowers.
I felt like I was losing my mind... no woman have ever did this. I would rather have had a bottle of Turkey, or a Steak Sandwich. Is this a romantic gesture, or a sign she needs help? |
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it is a sign that this women wants to be urs and she is expressing true
feelings for you dont mess it up its hardly rare for a women to give a gave a rose it normal for a guy to give a women roses so maybe ur feelings for her is making uncomfortable cuz it sounds that she is madly in love with you so go on another date and see what happens |
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I think that was a sweet gesture.
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Ontario, the only time a gave flowers to a man
was because I wanted him to feel how I felt when I got flowers loved. |
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woah...flowers....damm...YOU DA MAN 0_o
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I gotta agree with Morena on this one. We all usually treat others the
way we would like to be treated. If you are a wise man there should be some flowers in your hands the next time you see her Ontario |
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Okay... now I feel like a Dope!
What would be a nice gift, not flowers, she may think I,m just giving her back the ones she gave me. |
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Ontario, myself I would say not take anything but yourself for if you
give something back just because you feel like you should because they gave you something first. WRONG She did that because she wanted to show you that you meant something to her not because she expects you to give her something in return. If and when you give her something it should be from the heart and you will know when that time comes. For when you are out looking at something and she crosses your mind thinking it would be something she would like or its her. Then you will know what to buy and she will know its from the heart not because you felt like you owed her the same jester in return. Until then treat her like a lady should be treated with your highest respect and it will open doors that maybe have never been opened before. Only my thoughts! And yes I have given a guy flowers before. |
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Well, I have to get her somthing... I don,t want to look like an
insensitive jerk. |
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Ontario,
Man I have never got flowers unless i was in the hospital,"Does that count"??Lol!! Dude that is so cool you should be thankful.Do you like this lady? If so, than yes, it would be good to repay the gesture.Maybe a look into the eyes over a candle lite dinner some nice soft music on with a sincere heart felt "thanks for the flowers, baby"!! ;) |
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Yeah... you,re right... and I am just surprised I guess, and yes I like
her very much. |
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If i were you amybe a necklace or something with a charm of hers and
your favoite things to symbolize the "union" of the both of you but hey i am still single so what the hell do I know lol |
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well, its something to consider.
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a nice romantic diner will be a nice thing to do
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im not talking pricy you can get a fairly inexpensive necklace with a
couple of charms for like 50 bucks or so and still be gold or silver if that is her prefered metal. That part is very important to women some like siver some gold dont confuse the two or you will never hear the end of it. |
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Yeah, the Dinner and the necklace are good ideas.
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Dude, sing to her if you can or write her poem. Those are two things, I
know women like. It doesn't cost anything, and it does win you some booty call points. J\k |
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Are you serious ONTARIO??
You know MEN ARENT THE ONLY ONE WHO CAN GIVE GIFTS ON THE FIRST DATE!!! You should of been blushing, and smiling big time, let alone ur heart should of been skipping a beat big time... MY MY MY!! it makes one wonder whats wrong with YOU!!!!! Women, good women, have feelings too and are very giving.. Men dont hold the record for giving flowers.....I have given a dozen red roses to men in my time.....and let me tell u... they blushed........even cryed ( and that to me is SEXY!) and then called me up....said WOMAN COME HERE NOWWWWWWWWWWWW!!! and when they saw me......took me in their arms......hugged me tightly and kissed me...........and let me tell yah.......I almost fell on the floor.............MAN OH MAN!! WHAT A FEELING THAT WAS. I looked at them & said.....MY GOD UR GETTING FLOWERS MORE OFTEN..........NOW........KISSS ME AGAIN!! ill tell u when to STOP........and they just laughed........ NOW DONT U FEEL ASHAMED OF WHAT U SAID?? Id seriously have second thoughts of ever dating you.........THAT WAS REALLY UNKIND OF YOU TO SAY........ shame on youuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu!!!! dakotas55 |
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Wow, Dakota... I,m just a guy that was took by surprise, stop beating
up on the stupid. |
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u should be grateful that she gave u flowers it's the little things in
life like that that mean so much.....or they shoud anyway. Could it be anymore obvious that she wants u lol!!! |
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