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lolllllll yes cause you wouldn't want to take peoples type or say without question right ? oops oh no it was already but thats ok its explained now  :) I'm not sure what you mean. Care to explain? |
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I am rarely ever on here anymore. Found my mate and I am Too busy most of the time. Peccy still comes on some. I spend more time on Facebook. Facebook is a much, much different site for me. I can't compare the two. This is interesting to me. I haven't been on facebook a long time. I didn't make the distinction until I started having family involved. Lord if something stupid I said got back to my mama she would whoop my azz........ 
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Thanks to Newark for explaining your post! Don't even mention it. I happen to be professionally trained as a Canadian interpreter............
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I am rarely ever on here anymore. Found my mate and I am Too busy most of the time. Peccy still comes on some. I spend more time on Facebook. Facebook is a much, much different site for me. I can't compare the two. This is interesting to me. I haven't been on facebook a long time. I didn't make the distinction until I started having family involved. Lord if something stupid I said got back to my mama she would whoop my azz........ For the most part, I use facebook to keep in touch with those I already know. I don't use it to meet/get to know new people. This site is used to meet new people. |
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lolllllll yes cause you wouldn't want to take peoples type or say without question right ? oops oh no it was already but thats ok its explained now :) I'm not sure what you mean. Care to explain? Let's keep it on topic here. Do you have a response to the first post? so was taking without question right? lolll then after the fact..........> Thanks to Newark for explaining your post! <   
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For the most part, I use facebook to keep in touch with those I already know. I don't use it to meet/get to know new people. This site is used to meet new people. I have discovered that people use it for different things. I have sent out very few friend request but I can't not except one that is sent to me. I have a hard time remembering alot of them........
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lolllllll yes cause you wouldn't want to take peoples type or say without question right ? oops oh no it was already but thats ok its explained now :) I'm not sure what you mean. Care to explain? Let's keep it on topic here. Do you have a response to the first post? so was taking without question right? lolll then after the fact..........> Thanks to Newark for explaining your post! < Was there an explanation in there, or did you just copy and paste what I wrote? I'm not going to argue with you. If you don't want to explain, no problem. |
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For the most part, I use facebook to keep in touch with those I already know. I don't use it to meet/get to know new people. This site is used to meet new people. I have discovered that people use it for different things. I have sent out very few friend request but I can't not except one that is sent to me. I have a hard time remembering alot of them........ I used to have some people on there that I didn't know well, but I ended up removing them. So, I try to keep it to people I know in person or a few from here I've gotten to know much better. I've received several friend requests from people here, and while it may seem rude, if I don't know them, I just don't add them. |
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lolllllll yes cause you wouldn't want to take peoples type or say without question right ? oops oh no it was already but thats ok its explained now :) I'm not sure what you mean. Care to explain? Let's keep it on topic here. Do you have a response to the first post? so was taking without question right? lolll then after the fact..........> Thanks to Newark for explaining your post! < Was there an explanation in there, or did you just copy and paste what I wrote? I'm not going to argue with you. If you don't want to explain, no problem.
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Do you try to understand what people are saying, or take what they say without question?  As a Melmacian, I often have trouble understanding you humans. 
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"Do you try to understand what people are saying, or take what they say without question?"
Many times I think people are making an opinion and there is really no need to take it further. By taking it further it is inviting an argument/debate environment that doesn't need to happen. In an open public forum there is a time to say stop because of the site's rules. The questions may fit a lot better if all were gathered in the same room talking but not in a forum atmosphere. I've noticed that when someone doesn't understand someone else in threads here many times it turns into a pointing of figures as if someone was right and someone was wrong. The problem with this is most times it is only a difference of opinion and should have never gotten to the point of blame. When people get their figure of blame out they start to paint a picture for everyone to see knowing that the mods are going to step in and penalize someone for taking it too far. In those cases it is not the person making their opinion with the most reasonable answer that wins, it's the one that has manipulated things enough to make the other person noticeably mad. Social sites are cool but I have noticed there are lines and boundaries that need to be followed as common courtesy in regard to the rules of forums. Some people on forums ask questions and others seem to come on forums to provoke responses that lead to an argument. Being aware of this it helps to discern if a question is more of a probe to bait and not really a question at all or is it a legitimate question. It's an open forum so it is easy to say I'm innocent in this, but in reality there is a dig just below the surface. It takes a while for a forum member to see this and when they do they need to make a decision whether or not to answer the question. Their thinking if I answer it I will be probed to the point of defending myself, if I don't answer it I will be accused of being something I'm not for all to see. So for myself I'm learning to make an opinion and not so much a question that may lead to a thread being derailed into the realm of heated debate and blame casting. |
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"Do you try to understand what people are saying, or take what they say without question?" Many times I think people are making an opinion and there is really no need to take it further. By taking it further it is inviting an argument/debate environment that doesn't need to happen. In an open public forum there is a time to say stop because of the site's rules. The questions may fit a lot better if all were gathered in the same room talking but not in a forum atmosphere. I've noticed that when someone doesn't understand someone else in threads here many times it turns into a pointing of figures as if someone was right and someone was wrong. The problem with this is most times it is only a difference of opinion and should have never gotten to the point of blame. When people get their figure of blame out they start to paint a picture for everyone to see knowing that the mods are going to step in and penalize someone for taking it too far. In those cases it is not the person making their opinion with the most reasonable answer that wins, it's the one that has manipulated things enough to make the other person noticeably mad. Social sites are cool but I have noticed there are lines and boundaries that need to be followed as common courtesy in regard to the rules of forums. Some people on forums ask questions and others seem to come on forums to provoke responses that lead to an argument. Being aware of this it helps to discern if a question is more of a probe to bait and not really a question at all or is it a legitimate question. It's an open forum so it is easy to say I'm innocent in this, but in reality there is a dig just below the surface. It takes a while for a forum member to see this and when they do they need to make a decision whether or not to answer the question. Their thinking if I answer it I will be probed to the point of defending myself, if I don't answer it I will be accused of being something I'm not for all to see. So for myself I'm learning to make an opinion and not so much a question that may lead to a thread being derailed into the realm of heated debate and blame casting. Well I have to say you shore don't mince words.......
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"Do you try to understand what people are saying, or take what they say without question?" Many times I think people are making an opinion and there is really no need to take it further. By taking it further it is inviting an argument/debate environment that doesn't need to happen. In an open public forum there is a time to say stop because of the site's rules. The questions may fit a lot better if all were gathered in the same room talking but not in a forum atmosphere. I've noticed that when someone doesn't understand someone else in threads here many times it turns into a pointing of figures as if someone was right and someone was wrong. The problem with this is most times it is only a difference of opinion and should have never gotten to the point of blame. When people get their figure of blame out they start to paint a picture for everyone to see knowing that the mods are going to step in and penalize someone for taking it too far. In those cases it is not the person making their opinion with the most reasonable answer that wins, it's the one that has manipulated things enough to make the other person noticeably mad. Social sites are cool but I have noticed there are lines and boundaries that need to be followed as common courtesy in regard to the rules of forums. Some people on forums ask questions and others seem to come on forums to provoke responses that lead to an argument. Being aware of this it helps to discern if a question is more of a probe to bait and not really a question at all or is it a legitimate question. It's an open forum so it is easy to say I'm innocent in this, but in reality there is a dig just below the surface. It takes a while for a forum member to see this and when they do they need to make a decision whether or not to answer the question. Their thinking if I answer it I will be probed to the point of defending myself, if I don't answer it I will be accused of being something I'm not for all to see. So for myself I'm learning to make an opinion and not so much a question that may lead to a thread being derailed into the realm of heated debate and blame casting. Well I have to say you shore don't mince words....... Sometimes I do if I'm cooking them with mushrooms. |
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I used to be more involved in all different topics but after being attacked by someone I thought was a good friend I decided to stick to most of the silly or just chit chatty ones.
Also, since I am now taking painkillers sometimes, my brain might not pick up on what someone is trying to say and then I sound like a moron until I read it the next day and say "Oh crap!!! Now I see what they meant!" There is a lot of serious things going on in my life right now so I don't need to join in the threads that turn in to big discussions, that would be just one more thing trying to scramble my brain.  
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I mostly prefer more lighthearted threads as people do tend to get argumentative in proving their side in the serious ones. I'm all for different opinions as long as people don't try to make their opinion right and anyone who disagrees with them, wrong.
I try to understand people but often times what they write isn't exactly what they mean and I'm no mind reader. That's another point FOR the silly threads, not much explanation is needed. |
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I'm all for different opinions as long as people don't try to make their opinion right. Yeah what's up with that.......
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I'm all for different opinions as long as people don't try to make their opinion right. Yeah what's up with that....... LOL it's super annoying. An opinion is a personal feeling, ya know? |
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And sometimes with the mushrooms I like to add unsalted butter. I'll then add my own choice of salt and other seasonings. Unsalted butter on it's own though I fine to be dreadful.
Of course this is only my own personal opinion and you might find that something works altogether better for you in your own kitchen. |
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Unsalted butter......
 And that is my opinion too!! |
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I've been gone so long, I forgotten how
 <<waves HI Sis!  ^^
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