100% FREE ONLINE DATING
sponsored links
| Topic: Love or not? | |
|---|---|
|
Edited by
Pekausis_35
on
Mon 05/14/12 05:10 AM
|
|
I do have a girlfriend and we are together already 4 month. At the beginning it started as game, because we both didn´t wanted relationship. Everything was perfect and we started to spend more days and nights together. I felt more and more in love with her and all the signs showed that she as well (looks, touches, taking care, flirting etc.)
But last week she started to take a break. When I asked for reason - answer was: I don´t want at the moment serious relationship (because don´t know what I want or what targets in life I have). And it´s just at the moment too much for me! But I need you in my life and I don´t want to finish everything. But don´t want also to use or hurt you... Does she love me? Should I end up everything or just give more freedome and continue everything? |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Freedom is a must period, regardless where this goes. At the same time don't feel weird or bad, most relationships hit those points of check along the way.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
I do have a girlfriend and we are together already 4 month. At the beginning it started as game, because we both didn´t wanted relationship. Everything was perfect and we started to spend more days and nights together. I felt more and more in love with her and all the signs showed that she as well (looks, touches, taking care, flirting etc.) But last week she started to take a break. When I asked for reason - answer was: I don´t want at the moment serious relationship (because don´t know what I want or what targets in life I have). And it´s just at the moment too much for me! But I need you in my life and I don´t want to finish everything. But don´t want also to use or hurt you... Does she love me? Should I end up everything or just give more freedome and continue everything? |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
I`m not sure myself. One side says - great you both need it, other is scared to loose her.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
My ex got back in touch with me yesterday. I didn't know what to do. Yes, some decisions are very difficult. If you're more scared that you will lose her, then make sure you hold onto her. Tightly. If you really don't want her, then you'll be okay with the thought of her dating someone else :)
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
please remain freinds, poor girl doesn't know what she wants, but you will find out eventually anyway.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
It's the chits dude.
But as the saying goes, "if you love her, let her go." If she comes back, she comes back. If she don't, hey, at least you had four months. That's more than some folks ever get. |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
You can't force anyone to do what you want..so, you really do not have much of a choice.
Sounds like you are a bit hurt and for that I am sorry to hear. 
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Thanks to everyone! Your opinion is really important to me! We do talk every day also now - will see what future will bring!
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Edited by
Jeanniebean
on
Wed 05/16/12 08:39 PM
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
