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Topic: Online klutz
oldhippie1952 Joined Mon 03/14/11 Posts: 22693	Sat 05/12/12 03:04 PM
I don't know about the rest of you, but I need to meet people in person to see how they act and their mannerisms. What about you? I mean, online is okay and all, but we are meeting people's online persona's (sp) and not necessarily who they are. My online persona outta be a klutz... Do you find yourself more assertive, talkative, shy, outgoing, etc when online as compared to real live in-your-face meetings?

Tizar Joined Sat 04/28/12 Posts: 493	Sat 05/12/12 03:13 PM
the people in real life, don't want to listen to me, don't want to get to know me, don't want to have a conversation with me, don't want to spend time with me, don't have time for me. but the people online, well, well, well :)

oldhippie1952 Joined Mon 03/14/11 Posts: 22693	Sat 05/12/12 03:17 PM
So "online" is the great equalizer?

Tizar Joined Sat 04/28/12 Posts: 493	Sat 05/12/12 03:22 PM
So "online" is the great equalizer? without online communitys, and even just the internet itself. I would have passed away long ago. and nobody would have noticed, or cared.

Ice38 Joined Wed 10/15/08 Posts: 25272	Sat 05/12/12 03:24 PM
In person I am very shy..online I have no clue..I guess my shyness come out somewhat

oldhippie1952 Joined Mon 03/14/11 Posts: 22693	Sat 05/12/12 03:29 PM
The fact you come on and post shows you are getting over the shyness a bit, I would think. Tizar, don't brood on death, live life as best you can!

Ghostrider2u Joined Thu 05/17/07 Posts: 6953	Sat 05/12/12 03:30 PM
Dudeeeeeeeeee............ This is me........... I'm just as big an azz in person as I am online. No pretence......so chit...... I'm just a smartazz!!!!!

oldhippie1952 Joined Mon 03/14/11 Posts: 22693	Sat 05/12/12 03:33 PM


Tizar Joined Sat 04/28/12 Posts: 493	Sat 05/12/12 03:42 PM
The fact you come on and post shows you are getting over the shyness a bit, I would think. Tizar, don't brood on death, live life as best you can! It's hard be both alone, and unloved. I'm tough, but I'm not made of stone. Thanks, I don't think of death as an escape, not anymore anyway. But, sometimes the thought just makes me appriciate that I live on this planet, and I can just love the beauty of it, if nothing else :)

josie68 Joined Mon 11/22/10 Posts: 6270	Sat 05/12/12 03:44 PM
Pretty much the same except I would laugh in person more.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Sat 05/12/12 03:47 PM
As far as I know, I'm the same in person as I am here. Why be any different?

Tizar Joined Sat 04/28/12 Posts: 493	Sat 05/12/12 03:53 PM
I'm very quiet in real life, I suffer from high levels of stress. My stress levels are much lower online, as I'm in a much calmer state of mind :)

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Sat 05/12/12 03:54 PM
I'm very quiet in real life, I suffer from high levels of stress. My stress levels are much lower online, as I'm in a much calmer state of mind :) Do you just chat with people online, or do you eventually meet in person?

Tizar Joined Sat 04/28/12 Posts: 493	Sat 05/12/12 03:58 PM
I'm very quiet in real life, I suffer from high levels of stress. My stress levels are much lower online, as I'm in a much calmer state of mind :) Do you just chat with people online, or do you eventually meet in person? I met with a lady that I knew online once, her final verdict was that I'm creepy

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Sat 05/12/12 03:58 PM
Ah. Well, good luck for next time.

Tizar Joined Sat 04/28/12 Posts: 493	Sat 05/12/12 04:05 PM
Ah. Well, good luck for next time. Thanks she did buy me a whole pack of mars bars, before she even knew anything about me, know that's what I call creepy

eileena9 Joined Fri 04/13/07 Posts: 28211	Sat 05/12/12 04:12 PM
I am quiet when I first meet people in person because I tend to be loud and rowdy as you get to know me. I think I was the same way when I joined on here

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Sat 05/12/12 04:29 PM
Ah. Well, good luck for next time. Thanks she did buy me a whole pack of mars bars, before she even knew anything about me, know that's what I call creepy Why was that creepy?

Tizar Joined Sat 04/28/12 Posts: 493	Sat 05/12/12 04:34 PM
Ah. Well, good luck for next time. Thanks she did buy me a whole pack of mars bars, before she even knew anything about me, know that's what I call creepy Why was that creepy? would you buy food for people that you know nothing about? It's just a creepy thing to do. At least by my own standards anyway.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Sat 05/12/12 04:48 PM
You didn't get to know anything about her before meeting? I would think that if you were meeting, there was some sort of interest there, whether it was friends or more. So no, I don't think giving you some candy would have been weird.