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Topic: Sugar Daddy's
Seakolony Joined Fri 11/07/08 Posts: 11968	Wed 04/18/12 07:21 PM
I would ask for a contract, 1) it makes it a fair playing field, 2) said contract both original draft and final draft get placed in a safety deposit box which both must be prsent to open said deposit box to be destroyed upon completion of said contract, 3)would have said fantasies written out in full detail to have a line of initialed aggreement or marked through if not willing to complete a said fantasies, 4) upon completion of the written agreed upon fanatsies amount of fantasies fullfilled a month, 5) contractor and contractee may wish to review and decide other fantasies written into contract as seen fit........should said contractor and contractee decide to part ways all copies of fantasies contract shall be destroyed........sounds like mistress situation to me, not uncommon amognst wealthier men that wish companionship when they are too busy to have a family or to start a family..........if I were to do something lik that, that's how I would do it!!!

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Wed 04/18/12 07:22 PM
Alright, so i have been seriously offered five grand a month from a man just to fulfill his "fantasies." I almost considered it, but i have some morals, do you think this is basically the same as being a prostitute? Except it's one man. Yes, it's prostitution. Morals aside, this sounds like a very dangerous situation. I can think of a hundred reasons not to do this even if it's morally acceptable to you.

JamieRawxx Joined Sun 08/08/10 Posts: 2710	Wed 04/18/12 08:24 PM
I know all of the bad reasons, i know him in person and know that he does have the money it would like a weekend thing, but i don't think i will, i know all of the risks as well. One more year of college for me and i might be able to make enough to start living, haha.

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Wed 04/18/12 08:29 PM
Money isn't everything, it's just a tool. I think it's best for you to focus on school instead as well. Seems much more promising and fulfilling in the long run.

JamieRawxx Joined Sun 08/08/10 Posts: 2710	Wed 04/18/12 08:33 PM
Money isn't everything, it's just a tool. I think it's best for you to focus on school instead as well. Seems much more promising and fulfilling in the long run. but i have real time bills now! haha :p I know.

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Wed 04/18/12 08:53 PM
Money isn't everything, it's just a tool. I think it's best for you to focus on school instead as well. Seems much more promising and fulfilling in the long run. but i have real time bills now! haha :p I know. But paying them isn't worth sacrificing love and self respect. :)

emurakn Joined Mon 05/16/11 Posts: 5	Thu 04/19/12 05:15 PM
Its n0t aBouT the m0ney,we d0nt ned ur m0ney..:-D m0ney is a temptati0n..

krupa Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 18651	Thu 04/19/12 06:18 PM
Money isn't everything, it's just a tool. I think it's best for you to focus on school instead as well. Seems much more promising and fulfilling in the long run. but i have real time bills now! haha :p I know. Whatever you decide girl...I don't blame ya. Just be carefull.

krupa Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 18651	Thu 04/19/12 06:21 PM
I would ask for a contract, 1) it makes it a fair playing field, 2) said contract both original draft and final draft get placed in a safety deposit box which both must be prsent to open said deposit box to be destroyed upon completion of said contract, 3)would have said fantasies written out in full detail to have a line of initialed aggreement or marked through if not willing to complete a said fantasies, 4) upon completion of the written agreed upon fanatsies amount of fantasies fullfilled a month, 5) contractor and contractee may wish to review and decide other fantasies written into contract as seen fit........should said contractor and contractee decide to part ways all copies of fantasies contract shall be destroyed........sounds like mistress situation to me, not uncommon amognst wealthier men that wish companionship when they are too busy to have a family or to start a family..........if I were to do something lik that, that's how I would do it!!! That would be great if my fantasy was to power hump a lawyer. hehehehehehehe

Seakolony Joined Fri 11/07/08 Posts: 11968	Thu 04/19/12 06:42 PM
I would ask for a contract, 1) it makes it a fair playing field, 2) said contract both original draft and final draft get placed in a safety deposit box which both must be prsent to open said deposit box to be destroyed upon completion of said contract, 3)would have said fantasies written out in full detail to have a line of initialed aggreement or marked through if not willing to complete a said fantasies, 4) upon completion of the written agreed upon fanatsies amount of fantasies fullfilled a month, 5) contractor and contractee may wish to review and decide other fantasies written into contract as seen fit........should said contractor and contractee decide to part ways all copies of fantasies contract shall be destroyed........sounds like mistress situation to me, not uncommon amognst wealthier men that wish companionship when they are too busy to have a family or to start a family..........if I were to do something lik that, that's how I would do it!!! That would be great if my fantasy was to power hump a lawyer. hehehehehehehe might as well draft a prenup LMAO

mthom086 Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 76	Thu 04/19/12 08:26 PM
it's called prostitution and no you shouldn't do it. People are sick in todays world. I'm glad you moved on. Pick better guys to be around. That guys a tool.

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Fri 04/20/12 09:58 PM
I know all of the bad reasons, i know him in person and know that he does have the money it would like a weekend thing, but i don't think i will, i know all of the risks as well. One more year of college for me and i might be able to make enough to start living, haha. Tell him to contact me. I wouldn't turn down $5,000.00 a month.

khiwarrior Joined Sun 04/01/12 Posts: 434	Fri 04/20/12 10:00 PM
Alright, so i have been seriously offered five grand a month from a man just to fulfill his "fantasies." I almost considered it, but i have some morals, do you think this is basically the same as being a prostitute? Except it's one man. HAHAH wish i was girl now

newg78 Joined Thu 03/01/07 Posts: 3672	Sat 04/21/12 12:57 AM
Alright, so i have been seriously offered five grand a month from a man just to fulfill his "fantasies." I almost considered it, but i have some morals, do you think this is basically the same as being a prostitute? Except it's one man. Here is a secret between you and me - I will tell you that it's legal but let's share 50-50.

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Sat 04/21/12 01:54 AM
Alright, so i have been seriously offered five grand a month from a man just to fulfill his "fantasies." I almost considered it, but i have some morals, do you think this is basically the same as being a prostitute? Except it's one man. Here is a secret between you and me - I will tell you that it's legal but let's share 50-50. lol, good point isnt it something that people can 'give' it away for about any reason and be justified unless they receive money? it will legally be prostitution if it is strictly sex for money but morally, its not much different than any other situation people give it away with no intention or desire for a commitment,,,,

inTyme Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 47	Sat 04/21/12 05:32 AM
If you take the money you will become meat for sale. To everyone for any reason.

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Sat 04/21/12 06:49 AM
Hell....marry him and then see how it goes. He will give you all the material possessions and pay your bills. And then if you don't like it, divorce his sorry butt (don't sign a prenup) and take more than half. You'll be set for life. Haha!

newg78 Joined Thu 03/01/07 Posts: 3672	Sat 04/21/12 07:31 AM
Hell....marry him and then see how it goes. He will give you all the material possessions and pay your bills. And then if you don't like it, divorce his sorry butt (don't sign a prenup) and take more than half. You'll be set for life. Haha! Best advice ever! haha three thumbs up baby!

Queene123 Joined Tue 06/26/07 Posts: 17056	Sat 04/21/12 07:45 AM Edited by Queene123 on Sat 04/21/12 07:49 AM
i would consider to not lower your standards but yet the money sounds good but you may not feel good about yourself so i would say no i would ask to see the money up front... not the dang contract but still just having one man offer you that money i would still think it would be considered prostotuton so NO

galendgirl Joined Sun 07/06/08 Posts: 24728	Sat 04/21/12 11:06 AM
Alright, so i have been seriously offered five grand a month from a man just to fulfill his "fantasies." I almost considered it, but i have some morals, do you think this is basically the same as being a prostitute? Except it's one man. Historically it was being a "mistress."