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Topic: Excellent Question
singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Sun 04/15/12 01:49 PM
I'm all for being responsible for myself. However, I hear a lot of guys wanting to have more say in what's going on and who are against things like abortion. So if that's the case, I would think more guys would step up and take birth control if it were to become available for men as well.

bhernandez Joined Sun 03/21/10 Posts: 14901	Sun 04/15/12 01:50 PM
they can't get preggo. they don't care.

krupa Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 18651	Sun 04/15/12 01:52 PM
Just gonna say it out loud... "The money shot" is a legitimate form of birth control. :) (you know, I ain't wrong)

Cheer_up Joined Tue 11/02/10 Posts: 3269	Sun 04/15/12 02:03 PM
1) You are having sex too, so you are equally responsible. 2) It's you who will be pregnant, not the guy. 3) Not to nit pick, but it's about a seven day window during which you can get pregnant. And its you the 1 getting her pregnant duh lollllllll Right so don't put your pecker in the gal with out condom sense simple dude and respect the lady's you are nit picking its sad be a man and face it the lady's are right i would never make a lady take a pill if she didn't want too and what do you think the lady going to know each time she can get pregnant? lolllllllllll

yellowrose10 Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 52804	Sun 04/15/12 02:10 PM
My answer: Women are responsible because it's their bodies. Who is fertile when doesn't matter to me....the woman is the one that gets pregnant, so she has a bigger responsibility IMO. If men don't want to worry about a woman having their child, then they are responsible, as well Basically, we are responsible for our own bodies. It takes 2 to tango, so if you don't want to risk getting pregnant then protect yourself or don't dance I mean, if I decide to have sex and I don't want to get pregnant or STDs, then I should be responsible for my decision. Both are equal in deciding to have sex so both are equal to be responsible JMO So, if a woman should be solely responsible for birth control, do you also believe she should be the one responsible for deciding what to do with the baby? Whether she keeps it, puts it up for adoption, or gets an abortion? Did I say she was solely responsible? I said each is responsible for themselves....men and women. Don't read more into what I said. I am saying both are responsible equally. Some decide not to be responsible though

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Sun 04/15/12 02:15 PM
My answer: Women are responsible because it's their bodies. Who is fertile when doesn't matter to me....the woman is the one that gets pregnant, so she has a bigger responsibility IMO. If men don't want to worry about a woman having their child, then they are responsible, as well Basically, we are responsible for our own bodies. It takes 2 to tango, so if you don't want to risk getting pregnant then protect yourself or don't dance I mean, if I decide to have sex and I don't want to get pregnant or STDs, then I should be responsible for my decision. Both are equal in deciding to have sex so both are equal to be responsible JMO So, if a woman should be solely responsible for birth control, do you also believe she should be the one responsible for deciding what to do with the baby? Whether she keeps it, puts it up for adoption, or gets an abortion? Did I say she was solely responsible? I said each is responsible for themselves....men and women. Don't read more into what I said. I am saying both are responsible equally. Some decide not to be responsible though Sorry, bigger responsibility. The rest of the response still stands, though.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Sun 04/15/12 02:16 PM
1) You are having sex too, so you are equally responsible. 2) It's you who will be pregnant, not the guy. 3) Not to nit pick, but it's about a seven day window during which you can get pregnant. And its you the 1 getting her pregnant duh lollllllll Right so don't put your pecker in the gal with out condom sense simple dude and respect the lady's you are nit picking its sad be a man and face it the lady's are right i would never make a lady take a pill if she didn't want too and what do you think the lady going to know each time she can get pregnant? lolllllllllll That was tough to understand.

Cheer_up Joined Tue 11/02/10 Posts: 3269	Sun 04/15/12 02:19 PM
a younger relative posted to me this question,,,which I have no reasonable answer to If I am only capable of conceiving three or four days a month, and the male is capable of fertlization EVERY DAY,,, why am I the one responsible for taking contraception? why havent males created and been responsible for 'taking' contraception? Guys do have its called condom sense lollllll i would never make a lady take a birth control pill ,imagine if a gal stopped them too and never told the guy lolllllll i heard that happen to some cause the gal wanted a baby and she never told the guy till later was sad :) and it does not stop diseases what people should be more worried about in 2012 sad but true :) best thing going is good condom sense even thou i broke some the past i was lucky thou gal was not pregnant :) but still condom sense best and less disease too:) i glad i am 100% clean but i don't just jump into bed with anyone too like some do lolll i get to know a person in and out first for a while:)

yellowrose10 Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 52804	Sun 04/15/12 02:20 PM
My answer: Women are responsible because it's their bodies. Who is fertile when doesn't matter to me....the woman is the one that gets pregnant, so she has a bigger responsibility IMO. If men don't want to worry about a woman having their child, then they are responsible, as well Basically, we are responsible for our own bodies. It takes 2 to tango, so if you don't want to risk getting pregnant then protect yourself or don't dance I mean, if I decide to have sex and I don't want to get pregnant or STDs, then I should be responsible for my decision. Both are equal in deciding to have sex so both are equal to be responsible JMO So, if a woman should be solely responsible for birth control, do you also believe she should be the one responsible for deciding what to do with the baby? Whether she keeps it, puts it up for adoption, or gets an abortion? Did I say she was solely responsible? I said each is responsible for themselves....men and women. Don't read more into what I said. I am saying both are responsible equally. Some decide not to be responsible though Sorry, bigger responsibility. The rest of the response still stands, though. I disagree....which is why I stated in my first post that it is JMO (just my opinion) I see it as equal responsibility and I stand by my own opinion as it is my opinion. I never said it was a women's sole responsibility. If you think one has more responsibility, then give your reasons as I have done, but that would be your opinion. Again...I didn't say it was one person's responsibility male or female

krupa Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 18651	Sun 04/15/12 02:20 PM
If a woman don't wanna drop a spawn the size of a water mellon out of her stuff...I suggest that the womb bearer may consider different sexual options....oral, anal, boobies, phalangeal, or using her feet. (there is more than one way to skin a cat) if you birds think I am just whistling "dixie"... remember that when you are screaming for an epidural.

JamieRawxx Joined Sun 08/08/10 Posts: 2710	Sun 04/15/12 02:24 PM
a younger relative posted to me this question,,,which I have no reasonable answer to If I am only capable of conceiving three or four days a month, and the male is capable of fertlization EVERY DAY,,, why am I the one responsible for taking contraception? why havent males created and been responsible for 'taking' contraception? Because a hard penis just don't care..... Next question.......

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Sun 04/15/12 02:25 PM
My answer: Women are responsible because it's their bodies. Who is fertile when doesn't matter to me....the woman is the one that gets pregnant, so she has a bigger responsibility IMO. If men don't want to worry about a woman having their child, then they are responsible, as well Basically, we are responsible for our own bodies. It takes 2 to tango, so if you don't want to risk getting pregnant then protect yourself or don't dance I mean, if I decide to have sex and I don't want to get pregnant or STDs, then I should be responsible for my decision. Both are equal in deciding to have sex so both are equal to be responsible JMO So, if a woman should be solely responsible for birth control, do you also believe she should be the one responsible for deciding what to do with the baby? Whether she keeps it, puts it up for adoption, or gets an abortion? Did I say she was solely responsible? I said each is responsible for themselves....men and women. Don't read more into what I said. I am saying both are responsible equally. Some decide not to be responsible though Sorry, bigger responsibility. The rest of the response still stands, though. I disagree....which is why I stated in my first post that it is JMO (just my opinion) I see it as equal responsibility and I stand by my own opinion as it is my opinion. I never said it was a women's sole responsibility. If you think one has more responsibility, then give your reasons as I have done, but that would be your opinion. Again...I didn't say it was one person's responsibility male or female You said a woman has a bigger responsibility. That's different than equal.

Cheer_up Joined Tue 11/02/10 Posts: 3269	Sun 04/15/12 02:28 PM
I did my part...... snip, snip...... years ago!!!!!! now, if only more men who dont care to have children would follow suit,,,lol Even if i didn't want kids but i think i would like that maybe 1 day:) depends but theres NO WAY i would let a doctor snip anything near there you can forget that i was born with it all in tack and keeping it that way lolllllllllll to God made it there for a reason not to mess with like that

yellowrose10 Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 52804	Sun 04/15/12 02:28 PM
You said a woman has a bigger responsibility. That's different than equal. read the entire post...not just the first sentence. Let me break it down Women are responsible because it's their bodies. Who is fertile when doesn't matter to me....the woman is the one that gets pregnant, so she has a bigger responsibility IMO. The women's POV If men don't want to worry about a woman having their child, then they are responsible, as well The men's POV and then... Basically, we are responsible for our own bodies. It takes 2 to tango, so if you don't want to risk getting pregnant then protect yourself or don't dance Applies to both sexes I mean, if I decide to have sex and I don't want to get pregnant or STDs, then I should be responsible for my decision. Both are equal in deciding to have sex so both are equal to be responsible JMO my opinion. You just took the first sentence of the entire post out of context

yellowrose10 Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 52804	Sun 04/15/12 02:35 PM
and don't forget my 2nd post I agree about tradition. But you can't force someone to use birth control. You can only control yourself. If the guy doesn't want to use it, then don't have sex with him or you (generally speaking) protect yourself. Now if we want to weigh it out: Men are capable of fertlization EVERY DAY Women are the ones that get pregnant and carries the child Both decide to have sex so it's even IMO Any way...that would be my argument if I was asked that question These posts are saying that IMO people should be responsible for themselves....men and women

krupa Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 18651	Sun 04/15/12 02:37 PM
You kids stop fighting or I am gonna turn this car around RIGHT NOW. :)

yellowrose10 Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 52804	Sun 04/15/12 02:38 PM
You kids stop fighting or I am gonna turn this car around RIGHT NOW. :) please do...I think I left the water running

Cheer_up Joined Tue 11/02/10 Posts: 3269	Sun 04/15/12 02:42 PM
1) You are having sex too, so you are equally responsible. 2) It's you who will be pregnant, not the guy. 3) Not to nit pick, but it's about a seven day window during which you can get pregnant. And its you the 1 getting her pregnant duh lollllllll Right so don't put your pecker in the gal with out condom sense simple dude and respect the lady's you are nit picking its sad be a man and face it the lady's are right i would never make a lady take a pill if she didn't want too and what do you think the lady going to know each time she can get pregnant? lolllllllllll That was tough to understand. ok i will help you sorry if you a bit slow to it :) i was saying condom sense is like using a condom right? and i was telling him don't put his pecker in a girl without a condom ,if he don't want her pregnant right? and he was saying not to nit pick cause seven day cycle ...so i was telling him you think a gal is going to know each time she is fertile ?you follow now? LOLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL

Cheer_up Joined Tue 11/02/10 Posts: 3269	Sun 04/15/12 02:48 PM
If a woman don't wanna drop a spawn the size of a water mellon out of her stuff...I suggest that the womb bearer may consider different sexual options....oral, anal, boobies, phalangeal, or using her feet. (there is more than one way to skin a cat) if you birds think I am just whistling "dixie"... remember that when you are screaming for an epidural. There is the option she just refuse you too lollllll and then theres condom sense too also theres toys LOLLLLLLLL

krupa Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 18651	Sun 04/15/12 02:51 PM
A woman could just refuse me? Cheer...are you smoking crack? No man...I can hit everyone of them gals I want bro.