Thank you, Jaded. I have spent a lot of time as a wallflower.

You're welcome!!! wow you were in the band?? sorry my humor's dry when I'm half asleep and half awake

what's your answer to my question??

dur never mind wrong thread *smacks self*

No, I wasn't in the band. I just had one headlight. I am half awake and half asleep, too. Maybe we are both just dreaming we are awake or both awake in a dream. I have dry humor, too.

only 1 headlight?? aww that's so sad I love that song though and it's only song I can think of by them right now Hmm mebbe it's the latter of the 2..I'm gonna go w/that one

Wallflowers
Bringing Down the Horse (1996)
One Headlight

So long ago, I don't remember when
That's when they say I lost my only friend
Well they said she died easy of a broken heart disease
As I listened through the cemetery trees

I seen the sun comin' up at the funeral at dawn
The long broken arm of human law
Now it always seemed such a waste
She always had a pretty face
So I wondered how she hung around this place

Chorus:
Hey, come on try a little
Nothing is forever
There's got to be something better than
In the middle
But me & Cinderella
We put it all together
We can drive it home
With one headlight

She said it's cold
It feels like Independence Day
And I can't break away from this parade
But there's got to be an opening
Somewhere here in front of me
Through this maze of ugliness and greed
And I seen the sun up ahead
At the county line bridge
Sayin' all there's good and nothingness is dead
We'll run until she's out of breath
She ran until there's nothin' left
She hit the end-it's just her window ledge

(chorus)

Well this place is old
It feels just like a beat up truck
I turn the engine, but the engine doesn't turn
Well it smells of cheap wine & cigarettes
This place is always such a mess
Sometimes I think I'd like to watch it burn
I'm so alone, and I feel just like somebody else
Man, I ain't changed, but I know I ain't the same
But somewhere here in between the city walls of dyin' dreams
I think her death it must be killin' me

aww yay!!! *dances around to the song*

Awesome song.

wow I feel old realizing how old that song is sheesh I remember when it 1st came out!!

You feel old then how do you think I feel.

you feel ancient!!! *gives you a scooter to run ppl over w/*

Thanks, I will be the rime of the ancient mariner.

lol that sounds like fun though being the topic of so many songs

if you had been around when 76 trombones came out, or when rosemary clooney took you to mocking bird hill, then you could say you feel old. (*_*)

I think my ship is sinking. Time for the old fool to hit the hay.

lol sweet dreams hillfolk and widower just let him bask in his glory of his own definition of old age and morning to you too

My thoughts on the original topic is that I find it healthy to talk about past relationships with the one you pursue a relationship with. The way I see it, it's our roadblocks and hardships that make us who we are today and it's important for our S.O. to understand what we've gone through to understand who WE are. However, I do know that I am guilty of talking about my ex's too much and I've hurt people's feelings in the past by doing it. But I've learned my lesson that there is such a thing as going too far when discussing the past. I don't think you shouldn't give him a chance just because he's not over her 100%, but just to give him some time and help him discover that you can give him better than he had before. For instance, I know that my boyfriend had walked in on his now ex-girlfriend in his own apartment, in his own room, in his own bed... cheating on him with another guy. He just told them that he was going for a walk and when he came back, her stuff had better be gone. He knows that I would never do anything like that to him because of my similar experiences, so it helps us build that bond of loyalty and honesty. Just my opinion.

i had one to do the same with me.. always talking about his ex even when i was tired of hearing it and sometimes he repeated himself as if it was the first time i heard it.. gees. needless to say he's an ex now cause i told him he was on the rebound and i didnt want to get in his way of maybe going back to her...

I have no clue. I left mine nine years ago, he is married and still obsessed. WHO KNOWS!!!