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Topic: you cant fix your mistakes.
Cheer_up Joined Tue 11/02/10 Posts: 3269	Thu 03/22/12 05:20 PM
sorry my friend you can fix mistakes but depends on the mistake and how far its gone and what topic of mistake too:)

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Thu 03/22/12 05:22 PM
sorry my friend you can fix mistakes but depends on the mistake and how far its gone and what topic of mistake too:)

krupa Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 18651	Thu 03/22/12 05:24 PM
You may not be able to fix mistakes....but, you can try. That is what makes a good person. Doing something dirty to anyone is intentional and is never a mistake. Making up for doing someone wrong is way different than trying to make up for a mistake. Mistakes are forgivable.

Cheer_up Joined Tue 11/02/10 Posts: 3269	Thu 03/22/12 05:34 PM
sorry my friend you can fix mistakes but depends on the mistake and how far its gone and what topic of mistake too:) people make mistakes in daily life every day they see their mistake and fix it another example say someone was writing a speech and for got to put a important message and was just going to give the speech but them remembered and went to washroom and fixed their mistake and no 1 new except that person who made the mistake but fixed it before it was to late lolllllllllllll

josie68 Joined Mon 11/22/10 Posts: 6270	Fri 03/23/12 01:24 AM
Hmmmmm, not sure why I would need to forgive myself for my mistakes. They have made me who I am. I learn and move on. No worries. No offense but I think your statement is the very reason why people cheat so much. They have no conscious. NO ACCOUNTABILITY! What if you were dating a guy and he cheated with several women and had kids with them. He says,"no worries honey; this happened for a reason and I live with no regrets! This will make you into the person you are supposed to be". I think your statement is utter nonsense. With your quote you are perfect, live a perfect life, and if you hurt people it's all good. People that live this way are selfish arrogant and narcissistic. I have regrets. I kick myself in the butt for making a mistake and learn from it so I won't do it again. I dont want to hurt me or anyone else. WOW, Fair Dinkum Mate, you should probably know somebody a little better, before you decide to kick them up the rear end. I am a Mum of 6 my fisrt hubby left me when I was pregnant with mty second child, my next abused me and my children. through it all I supported them both and my children. My mistakes do not hurt others, I care for my friends family and anyone who needs me. My mistakes have been learning lessons, Leaving school to early, getting married to young. Trusting where I shouldn't have. through it all I have learnt to love, to be patient, to give and to never look back on things I cannot change. I have had a lot of painful things happen to me, but it has helped me to become a better person not a judgemental selfish one. Yes my life has no worries, simply because I choose to look at this very moment, not yesterday, not tomorrow, I love every second of it, I dont have regrets', simply because there is no part of my life that I regret. You think I am selfish arrogant and narcissistic. I know that I am loved, by my children, my husband, my friends and my family, simply because I am me. Josie. A simple Aussie bush women, I dont have enemys, and I live for my family and friends, its simple but its me. Judge a little less harshly next time please.

josie68 Joined Mon 11/22/10 Posts: 6270	Fri 03/23/12 05:10 AM
Josie, it really sucks that terrible things happened to you. Im sure you have learned hard lessons. Your mistakes have hurt yourself or others by your own admission. You learn and move on as a stronger person. You are surely not the first person to make the mistake and not the last either. Nah not really, if I hadn't had sucky things happen to me, then I would probably have ended up a spoilt brat.

Revenge13 Joined Wed 03/14/12 Posts: 106	Fri 03/23/12 08:00 AM
I agree. Cheating is NOT a mistake. "Oooops! I just dropped my glass of water on the floor. damn!" That is a mistake. Thrusting into a girl 100 times is on purpose. Sorry if that seems .. ummm.. indelicate. True nonetheless. I can't stand cheaters. lol I agree fully. Too many times has cheating been viewed as a mistake or excused with drugs and alcohok.

Revenge13 Joined Wed 03/14/12 Posts: 106	Fri 03/23/12 08:04 AM
Whats with all these cheating threads?They're getting as bad as the nice guy threads. Its probablu because cheating has always been huge issue in relationships all kinds, but now with social networking sites and the internet I guess cheating come out in the open.

Cheer_up Joined Tue 11/02/10 Posts: 3269	Fri 03/23/12 08:09 AM
Josie, it really sucks that terrible things happened to you. Im sure you have learned hard lessons. Your mistakes have hurt yourself or others by your own admission. You learn and move on as a stronger person. You are surely not the first person to make the mistake and not the last either. Nah not really, if I hadn't had sucky things happen to me, then I would probably have ended up a spoilt brat. josie josie josie lolllllll you to much of a sweet person to ever be a spoiled brat lollll

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32401	Fri 03/23/12 08:49 AM
I am surprised that a thread about regretting mistakes immediately turned into a thread about cheating. People don't make any other mistakes besides cheating? I don't spend too much time anymore dissecting my past. I used to. And, to a certain extent, it is healthy to do so. Looking at your mistakes, wrongdoings and bad behavior can help you overcome them and become a better person. I mean, you can't change something until you acknowledge and accept what it is you need to change. But, once you have done that, it's not healthy to keep dwelling on the past. Move forward and do better.

Optomistic69 Joined Mon 10/10/11 Posts: 5173	Fri 03/23/12 09:06 AM
You may not be able to fix mistakes....but, you can try. That is what makes a good person. Doing something dirty to anyone is intentional and is never a mistake. Making up for doing someone wrong is way different than trying to make up for a mistake. Mistakes are forgivable. I was going to Edit but this statement is so True and has Honesty running through it..

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32401	Fri 03/23/12 09:08 AM
You may not be able to fix mistakes....but, you can try. That is what makes a good person. Doing something dirty to anyone is intentional and is never a mistake. Making up for doing someone wrong is way different than trying to make up for a mistake. Mistakes are forgivable. Almost anything is forgiveable in my books as long as the person truly is sorry. And, if they are truly sorry, they will not do it again. That is the real test of how sorry someone actually is.

Leigh2154 Joined Sun 10/02/11 Posts: 16479	Fri 03/23/12 01:26 PM
Who amoung us can say we DON'T make mistakes?..Who amoung us can say they NEVER made a mistake?...Who amoung us can honestly say they NEVER made an intentional mistake?....I say not one single person can honestly make this claim...Not one.... Mistakes don't have to be fatal....The biggest mistake anyone can make is to do nothing...Take responsibility, take action, take your mistakes seriously.....Learn from them and try your best not to repeat them... As for what Ruth said, I ALMOST agree... I think EVERYTHING is forgivible....Its just that EVERYONE is not always capable of forgiveness at any given time... Remember, to err is human...

krupa Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 18651	Fri 03/23/12 05:18 PM
I donno girls... I just ain't the forgiving sort. Just as I don't expect to be forgiven. But, making mistakes is a natural part of everything.... I you ain't screwing up....then you aren't trying something new. Exactly like my art...I make mistakes constantly but, I learn to work with them and keep trying...... in the end, I burn up more erasers than pencils ....but, I keep going and do my best to fix my mistakes.... It seems to work out. Someone who wrecks into me on accident surely didn't mean to...but, that don't make them less off an idiot.

LookinRound Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 7894	Fri 03/23/12 07:52 PM
I don't spend too much time anymore dissecting my past. I used to. And, to a certain extent, it is healthy to do so. Looking at your mistakes, wrongdoings and bad behavior can help you overcome them and become a better person. I mean, you can't change something until you acknowledge and accept what it is you need to change. But, once you have done that, it's not healthy to keep dwelling on the past. Move forward and do better. Yep, that!

josie68 Joined Mon 11/22/10 Posts: 6270	Fri 03/23/12 09:02 PM
Josie, it really sucks that terrible things happened to you. Im sure you have learned hard lessons. Your mistakes have hurt yourself or others by your own admission. You learn and move on as a stronger person. You are surely not the first person to make the mistake and not the last either. Nah not really, if I hadn't had sucky things happen to me, then I would probably have ended up a spoilt brat. josie josie josie lolllllll you to much of a sweet person to ever be a spoiled brat lollll Your looking at the typical Aussie teenage tomboy horror.. The world only revolved around ME. Mistakes where plentiful, but helped me learn heaps.

prashant01 Joined Wed 05/06/09 Posts: 14148	Wed 03/28/12 07:55 AM
Sure you can fix mistakes ....... Actually,bataki is saying that " you can not travel back into time to fix mistakes" He didn't said that 'you can't fix mistakes'

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Wed 03/28/12 08:01 AM
Who amoung us can say we DON'T make mistakes?..Who amoung us can say they NEVER made a mistake?...Who amoung us can honestly say they NEVER made an intentional mistake?....I say not one single person can honestly make this claim...Not one.... Mistakes don't have to be fatal....The biggest mistake anyone can make is to do nothing...Take responsibility, take action, take your mistakes seriously.....Learn from them and try your best not to repeat them... As for what Ruth said, I ALMOST agree... I think EVERYTHING is forgivible....Its just that EVERYONE is not always capable of forgiveness at any given time... Remember, to err is human... Sure, everyone makes mistakes. I know I do. I just don't regret the mistakes I make. I learn from them and move on.

DTHRomeo Joined Wed 06/20/07 Posts: 43387	Wed 03/28/12 08:03 AM
We all make mistakes But if you try NOT to make the same mistakes I think it's cool :)

Shy_Emo_chick Joined Fri 04/01/11 Posts: 4393	Wed 03/28/12 08:05 AM
Almost anything is forgiveable in my books as long as the person truly is sorry. And, if they are truly sorry, they will not do it again. That is the real test of how sorry someone actually is. Yes i absolutely agree with that.