Topic: Love at first sight.
mightymoe's photo
Sun 03/18/12 10:22 AM
i see women that i know that could love by looks alone, basically the same way you would want a beautiful painting or anything else that attracts you by beauty. but to say love at first sight i think would be wrong.

burgundybry's photo
Sun 03/18/12 10:23 AM

Some people mistake physical attraction for love, when in fact, that is lust. Someone can think they are in love with someone at first sight, then when they get to know that person, they aren't so loveable. And the opposite is also true. You may not think a person is all that attractive, but once you get to know them, you begin to fall in love with who that person is on the inside.


...and here is, imo, the crux of the issue in relationships going bad. That most people are so motivated by their own selfish wants, needs, desires..looking for that immediate gratification. Love is a growing process, not a falling process.

TammyA's photo
Sun 03/18/12 10:28 AM

i see women that i know that could love by looks alone, basically the same way you would want a beautiful painting or anything else that attracts you by beauty. but to say love at first sight i think would be wrong.


Perfectly said!!!!

Goofball73's photo
Sun 03/18/12 11:16 AM
One simple answer.....Yes! It can happen. That is all.

Ruth34611's photo
Sun 03/18/12 11:20 AM

i see women that i know that could love by looks alone, basically the same way you would want a beautiful painting or anything else that attracts you by beauty. but to say love at first sight i think would be wrong.


That's why you fell in love with me. Until I opened my mouth and started talking. laugh

mightymoe's photo
Sun 03/18/12 11:22 AM


i see women that i know that could love by looks alone, basically the same way you would want a beautiful painting or anything else that attracts you by beauty. but to say love at first sight i think would be wrong.


That's why you fell in love with me. Until I opened my mouth and started talking. laugh


thats ok, i have a gag for ya...:wink:

Ruth34611's photo
Sun 03/18/12 11:26 AM



i see women that i know that could love by looks alone, basically the same way you would want a beautiful painting or anything else that attracts you by beauty. but to say love at first sight i think would be wrong.


That's why you fell in love with me. Until I opened my mouth and started talking. laugh


thats ok, i have a gag for ya...:wink:


laugh I'll just nag you using sign language. :wink:

PacificStar48's photo
Sun 03/18/12 11:45 AM
While I think that real love mature love is probably impossible if all it is just that lusty feeling you sometimes get when you see someone that appeals to you . It is fine to be attracted to your partner on a physical level as I do think it helps but it is not 100% reguired

But I also think real love needs that little ping, that small leap your heart makes , when you first see the one that is going to be a great love in your life. And it is really hard to define but it is not lust, or admiration, or even compatibility but it is like you just know; the dots connect and can completely turn around your thinking.

It is a delicious feeling that I would hope every person seeking love finds.

mightymoe's photo
Sun 03/18/12 12:53 PM




i see women that i know that could love by looks alone, basically the same way you would want a beautiful painting or anything else that attracts you by beauty. but to say love at first sight i think would be wrong.


That's why you fell in love with me. Until I opened my mouth and started talking. laugh


thats ok, i have a gag for ya...:wink:


laugh I'll just nag you using sign language. :wink:


lol, that i can deal with...

Dragoness's photo
Sun 03/18/12 01:23 PM

Do u believe in love at first sight? Does it really work? Some sample opinion says it work and some says it does not. What is your view everybody.


Love at first sight is a myth.

You can be strongly attracted to someone on sight. Filled with lust for them on sight.

But we do not have enough information to even consider loving them on sight.

no photo
Sun 03/18/12 03:58 PM
Love at first sight! What would our hearts be without it?

Sin_and_Sorrow's photo
Sun 03/18/12 04:00 PM

Do u believe in love at first sight? Does it really work? Some sample opinion says it work and some says it does not. What is your view everybody.


Me and Jennifer..

Love at first sight..

Distance and my bad choice of words..

..might have ruined us..
..maybe not..

..but I still love her.

And she'll always be my one true love..

Ruth34611's photo
Sun 03/18/12 04:32 PM

Me and Jennifer..

Love at first sight..

Distance and my bad choice of words..

..might have ruined us..
..maybe not..

..but I still love her.

And she'll always be my one true love..


flowerforyou

no photo
Sun 03/18/12 04:49 PM

Do u believe in love at first sight? Does it really work? Some sample opinion says it work and some says it does not. What is your view everybody.


Lust at first sight? Yes.

Love at first sight? No.

PacificStar48's photo
Mon 03/19/12 05:39 AM
Awe the disbelievers. When, if, it happens to you then you will know what I am talking about. It is hard to put into words. But it is a deep down connection that people who really love each other feel .It is like you just know this is the one you are suppose to be with. Wven if it doesn't make sense to anyone else or even if it make a list of 110 reasons why it should. I really feel if it isn't there you are spinning your wheels.

Jenni30's photo
Mon 03/19/12 06:56 AM

Awe the disbelievers. When, if, it happens to you then you will know what I am talking about. It is hard to put into words. But it is a deep down connection that people who really love each other feel .It is like you just know this is the one you are suppose to be with. Wven if it doesn't make sense to anyone else or even if it make a list of 110 reasons why it should. I really feel if it isn't there you are spinning your wheels.


PEFECTLY SAID!!....I love you Mike

Sin_and_Sorrow's photo
Mon 03/19/12 10:41 PM


Awe the disbelievers. When, if, it happens to you then you will know what I am talking about. It is hard to put into words. But it is a deep down connection that people who really love each other feel .It is like you just know this is the one you are suppose to be with. When if it doesn't make sense to anyone else or even if it make a list of 110 reasons why it should. I really feel if it isn't there you are spinning your wheels.


PEFECTLY SAID!!....I love you Mike


I love you more Jen. <3

Fire2Burn's photo
Wed 03/21/12 11:20 AM

Awe the disbelievers. When, if, it happens to you then you will know what I am talking about. It is hard to put into words. But it is a deep down connection that people who really love each other feel .It is like you just know this is the one you are suppose to be with. Wven if it doesn't make sense to anyone else or even if it make a list of 110 reasons why it should. I really feel if it isn't there you are spinning your wheels.

Well Said..

MariahsFantasy's photo
Wed 03/21/12 09:03 PM
Edited by MariahsFantasy on Wed 03/21/12 09:26 PM
A word of no. Some say its possible I say no, because love, for some strange reason is really phucking complicated. Variables are always involved and the such. This is the truth of it. Swallow it or keep living in a fantasy land.

Shy_Emo_chick's photo
Thu 03/22/12 03:28 AM
How can you even FEEL love at first sight? Let alone recognize it. You can definitely feel LUST at first sight though. Hence, why you thinnk someone is pretty/handsome when you both never seen each other before. Lust can make it feel like love i'm sure. More like mere infatuation. Like having a crush on a celebrity. I know the difference.
Lust=Wow, he/she looks hot!
Love=Knowing that person well. Seeing beyond their image.