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Ah, you start off as friends first? Once a friend, always a friend. a good relationship that lasts can't start any other way Yes, but if you're not clear about your intentions and where you want the relationship to go, you won't get what you're looking for. my last relashionship was clear or so i thought it was we where sappose to be getting married june 22 2012 already had the dress the tux it all was planed out we where also trying for a kid so yea it was all in the open she just left and walked away just like we where never together. That's not something that would be easy to get over. Are you sure you're ready to start dating again? im not looking to start dateing im looking for friends and if something sparks fom that then it does you cant stop feelings. Just be sure you're ready to move on before jumping into anything. yea thats why i say i am looking for a friend so i have time to get over it all im going to stay single for a fue months and then start looking to date that way i have time to gather myself and pick my pices up and put my world back together to be able to move on and continue with my life. life keeps going and as long as you are down the father you will be left behind and i know that i have to take time to gather myself so i dont take out what she did on my next relationship. Taking time to heal is important. Just as you can't run with a broken leg, you can't love with a broken heart. |
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Wow! a 'nice guy' thread... Haven't seen one of these in like... a year or so. Nice guy is a label men apply to opening doors and such. Personally I think that when a man quites trying to be a Nice Guy... They become one. Because they stop whining about opening doors and getting walked on. and Start opening doors and showing respect. (for themselves as well as their partner) I don't think that's true at all. It's a label applied to those guys who whine about how nice they are and complain about why it isn't working. |
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Ah, you start off as friends first? Once a friend, always a friend. a good relationship that lasts can't start any other way Yes, but if you're not clear about your intentions and where you want the relationship to go, you won't get what you're looking for. my last relashionship was clear or so i thought it was we where sappose to be getting married june 22 2012 already had the dress the tux it all was planed out we where also trying for a kid so yea it was all in the open she just left and walked away just like we where never together. That's not something that would be easy to get over. Are you sure you're ready to start dating again? im not looking to start dateing im looking for friends and if something sparks fom that then it does you cant stop feelings. Just be sure you're ready to move on before jumping into anything. yea thats why i say i am looking for a friend so i have time to get over it all im going to stay single for a fue months and then start looking to date that way i have time to gather myself and pick my pices up and put my world back together to be able to move on and continue with my life. life keeps going and as long as you are down the father you will be left behind and i know that i have to take time to gather myself so i dont take out what she did on my next relationship. Taking time to heal is important. Just as you can't run with a broken leg, you can't love with a broken heart. that is true. and you have to leave the problems that others have caused you in the past where they belong. in the past thats why im going to go slower than what i did last time lol |
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You are picking the wrong women. Simple. I agree completley you are picking the wrong women!!!! All the girls who have walked all over you isnt because you were too nice its just that you werent mean to be together maybe they werent the right girl for you |
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Ah, you start off as friends first? Once a friend, always a friend. a good relationship that lasts can't start any other way Yes, but if you're not clear about your intentions and where you want the relationship to go, you won't get what you're looking for. my last relashionship was clear or so i thought it was we where sappose to be getting married june 22 2012 already had the dress the tux it all was planed out we where also trying for a kid so yea it was all in the open she just left and walked away just like we where never together. That's not something that would be easy to get over. Are you sure you're ready to start dating again? im not looking to start dateing im looking for friends and if something sparks fom that then it does you cant stop feelings. Just be sure you're ready to move on before jumping into anything. yea thats why i say i am looking for a friend so i have time to get over it all im going to stay single for a fue months and then start looking to date that way i have time to gather myself and pick my pices up and put my world back together to be able to move on and continue with my life. life keeps going and as long as you are down the father you will be left behind and i know that i have to take time to gather myself so i dont take out what she did on my next relationship. Taking time to heal is important. Just as you can't run with a broken leg, you can't love with a broken heart. that is true. and you have to leave the problems that others have caused you in the past where they belong. in the past thats why im going to go slower than what i did last time lol You don't want to go too slow though. I've made that mistake before, moving too slow. You don't want to rush things, but you don't want to slow things down either. Though we're not getting any younger, we are still young. You seem like a good person, you just need to let yourself heal and not keep yourself down. If things don't work out, maybe it's just because things were not meant to be. You still have time to find what you're looking for. |
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You are picking the wrong women. Simple. I agree completley you are picking the wrong women!!!! All the girls who have walked all over you isnt because you were too nice its just that you werent mean to be together maybe they werent the right girl for you ok so how do you go about finding the right one other than what i have tryed.. obviosly being friends is not working to well. lol |
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You are picking the wrong women. Simple. I agree completley you are picking the wrong women!!!! All the girls who have walked all over you isnt because you were too nice its just that you werent mean to be together maybe they werent the right girl for you ok so how do you go about finding the right one other than what i have tryed.. obviosly being friends is not working to well. lol That's something you'll have to figure out for yourself. Only you know what you're looking for in life. |
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You are picking the wrong women. Simple. I agree completley you are picking the wrong women!!!! All the girls who have walked all over you isnt because you were too nice its just that you werent mean to be together maybe they werent the right girl for you ok so how do you go about finding the right one other than what i have tryed.. obviosly being friends is not working to well. lol Im not sure on that one either!!! Maybe when you find the right friend and it develops into something further if the feelings are the same as before she probably wont be right because when the right person comes along you will have feelings like you have never had before!!! |
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Why is it that when a man treats a girl right (opening there car doors, pay for everything, loves with all there is to love) they walk all over them but when the guy abuses the woman they stay true to them? i have been told that i was to good to be true and had my heart broke to many times because i am to nice. can you please tell me what i do wrong and why yall do that? Cause chicks like a$$holes. Sad but true. Plus if your to nice they don't like it and will take advantage of it. |
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Why is it that when a man treats a girl right (opening there car doors, pay for everything, loves with all there is to love) they walk all over them but when the guy abuses the woman they stay true to them? i have been told that i was to good to be true and had my heart broke to many times because i am to nice. can you please tell me what i do wrong and why yall do that? Cause chicks like a$$holes. Sad but true. Plus if your to nice they don't like it and will take advantage of it. So not true women dont take advantage of a nice guy cuz they are rare to come across!!!! Women have a type they want its either the a$$holes or the nice guys its all about finding the right person for your self!!! |
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I don't know what the problem is, but you should.
Most of my lady friends that are 22, well, they are not really out, looking for a gentleman 
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Ah, you start off as friends first? Once a friend, always a friend. a good relationship that lasts can't start any other way Yes, but if you're not clear about your intentions and where you want the relationship to go, you won't get what you're looking for. well I think a lot of people are not completely clear about what they want and I almost never define where I want the relationship to go from the beginning. It takes getting to know each other. I have had several relationships, mostly good. But if someone tried to define where the relationship was headed right away I think that would scare me off - I prefer to let things evolve |
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You are picking the wrong women. Simple. I agree completley you are picking the wrong women!!!! All the girls who have walked all over you isnt because you were too nice its just that you werent mean to be together maybe they werent the right girl for you ok so how do you go about finding the right one other than what i have tryed.. obviosly being friends is not working to well. lol back up and push back the start gate, first... learn how to be a friend to a woman most men have no clue but if you can learn that with sincere intentions, you will be better off than most (than most men I've known anyway) |
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Manners are wonderful! Personally I love people with them. I'm wondering if the problem lies in choosing beautiful people to date, who are accustomed to acting like jerks because they have good looks? I have dated some very attractive men who eventually behaved badly because they were good looking and thought they could "get away with" bad behavior? I think it's really hot to find an attractive man who has manners, is respectful, and decent person. Where are they all hiding themselves.......? really ... it shosuldn't have to be one or the other, but it seems it is often enough. I dated a guy briefly in college like that - he was the best looking guy in the school but also the nicest. How did I let him get away?
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Why is it that when a man treats a girl right (opening there car doors, pay for everything, loves with all there is to love) they walk all over them but when the guy abuses the woman they stay true to them? i have been told that i was to good to be true and had my heart broke to many times because i am to nice. can you please tell me what i do wrong and why yall do that? disclaimer:i'm not a chivalry representative. |
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Manners are wonderful! Personally I love people with them. I'm wondering if the problem lies in choosing beautiful people to date, who are accustomed to acting like jerks because they have good looks? I have dated some very attractive men who eventually behaved badly because they were good looking and thought they could "get away with" bad behavior? I think it's really hot to find an attractive man who has manners, is respectful, and decent person. Where are they all hiding themselves.......? really ... it shosuldn't have to be one or the other, but it seems it is often enough. I dated a guy briefly in college like that - he was the best looking guy in the school but also the nicest. How did I let him get away? Yes! Being a decent person isnt all that difficult, so its a shame. Ive dated UNattractive men who lure with manners, and then the hatred they learned for all women in high school kicks in. Its like it doesnt occur to them that women have the same rejection experiences if they dont have the right look. ...and a great many women were ugly ducklings in high school. true - like the old adage a book can't be judged by it's cover....a man who is great looking or NOT can be either nice or not - there really is no connection |
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I am a gentleman and treat woman with respect...I live modern with traditional values...My heart has only been broken once in my almost 44 yrs for a reason...I give my all to every relationship to a point but firmly stand my ground and keep my heart where it belongs,In my chest until that certain person deserves it...Im the nice guy/bad boi type that they dont understand that keeps them wanting more/keeps them guessing...The type that fills my bed with rose pedals in my room full of candles when they get home but Im not there...My struggles with women is finding the one who fits my future and doesnt smother/stalk me...I would say be the nice guy you are but add a twist to who you are without changing you...
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darn and I was sooo wanting to stalk him
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darn and I was sooo wanting to stalk him 
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...The type that fills my bed with rose pedals in my room full of candles when they get home but Im not there... Fire Marshall Bob would like a word with you.
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