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Perhaps it is because I am older and it is more noticeable to me but in your posts you refer to your ladies as "girls" and you refer to them as "my" and you say grandpa taught you they were the most import "things". You are young and I am sure the women you date are young also so this could explain that. But when you date a "woman", who has self respect, knows how to accept something that is given because the person cares and is not just doing it to impress them then I think you will find being the nice guy will have it's rewards. Sometimes people are so use to being mistreated they are a little fearful of a kindness being given. i was refering as "girls" because my fingers are tired and im to lazy right now to type it out as woman. and i refer to the "my" as in the relationships that i have had and i have had only 2 serious relationships in my life the first lasted 4 years but we where young and dumb and didnt know what we wanted and didnt know who we where so it ended the second lasted 2 years and then just ended with no exsplination on why and for the grandpa thing yea a woman should be the most important thing in a mans life exspecily if you are planning on getting married to that woman and haveing a family with her. she should be the #1 priority to him. 
good for you young man! |
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Ah, you start off as friends first? Once a friend, always a friend.
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Perhaps it is because I am older and it is more noticeable to me but in your posts you refer to your ladies as "girls" and you refer to them as "my" and you say grandpa taught you they were the most import "things". You are young and I am sure the women you date are young also so this could explain that. But when you date a "woman", who has self respect, knows how to accept something that is given because the person cares and is not just doing it to impress them then I think you will find being the nice guy will have it's rewards. Sometimes people are so use to being mistreated they are a little fearful of a kindness being given. i was refering as "girls" because my fingers are tired and im to lazy right now to type it out as woman. and i refer to the "my" as in the relationships that i have had and i have had only 2 serious relationships in my life the first lasted 4 years but we where young and dumb and didnt know what we wanted and didnt know who we where so it ended the second lasted 2 years and then just ended with no exsplination on why and for the grandpa thing yea a woman should be the most important thing in a mans life exspecily if you are planning on getting married to that woman and haveing a family with her. she should be the #1 priority to him. two relationships is not quite so many that you should think they represent all women,,,,,, but Id say 4 years and 2 years isnt that shabby when many people cant hold on to someone past six months dont beat yourself up so much, keep living and learning and , I think the most important factor is to start communicating both what you bring to the table and what you want your partner to be bringing to the table |
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Why is it that when a man treats a girl right (opening there car doors, pay for everything, loves with all there is to love) they walk all over them but when the guy abuses the woman they stay true to them? i have been told that i was to good to be true and had my heart broke to many times because i am to nice. can you please tell me what i do wrong and why yall do that? You are only 25 and haven't opened enough car doors yet.....your princess will come in due time....... |
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Why is it that when a man treats a girl right (opening there car doors, pay for everything, loves with all there is to love) they walk all over them but when the guy abuses the woman they stay true to them? i have been told that i was to good to be true and had my heart broke to many times because i am to nice. can you please tell me what i do wrong and why yall do that? You are only 25 and haven't opened enough car doors yet.....your princess will come in due time....... ha ha ha yea i think i have opend 100x more car doors than most guys my age i have opend car doors for girls sence i was 12 so from 12 to 25... well 26 come the 24th. not many guys my age even have that kind of morals in there life most are worried about who is the next"WOMAN"...lol... that they are going to get drunk and try and get laid from. thats not my style. i like to get to know who i am in a relationship with and me and my recent ex where friends for 3 months befor we started dateing. and as far as my "Princess will come in due time" yea that is starting to look like just a fanticie that people make up because it seems like the ones that want the "NICE GUY" are the ones that use us as doormats. |
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Well I never found my princess, but I did find my queen. :D
Trust me, if you really are a good man, you will find a woman worthy of your love. Just make sure you don't let things harden your heart or make you bitter, so that you are also worthy of her. |
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Why is it that when a man treats a girl right (opening there car doors, pay for everything, loves with all there is to love) they walk all over them but when the guy abuses the woman they stay true to them? i have been told that i was to good to be true and had my heart broke to many times because i am to nice. can you please tell me what i do wrong and why yall do that? Maybe you come off needy and constanly seeking approval. Or maybe I'm projecting. |
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Wow! a 'nice guy' thread...
Haven't seen one of these in like... a year or so. Nice guy is a label men apply to opening doors and such. Personally I think that when a man quites trying to be a Nice Guy... They become one. Because they stop whining about opening doors and getting walked on. and Start opening doors and showing respect. (for themselves as well as their partner) |
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Ah, you start off as friends first? Once a friend, always a friend. a good relationship that lasts can't start any other way |
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Wow! a 'nice guy' thread... Haven't seen one of these in like... a year or so. Nice guy is a label men apply to opening doors and such. Personally I think that when a man quites trying to be a Nice Guy... They become one. Because they stop whining about opening doors and getting walked on. and Start opening doors and showing respect. (for themselves as well as their partner) 
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Ah, you start off as friends first? Once a friend, always a friend. a good relationship that lasts can't start any other way Yes, but if you're not clear about your intentions and where you want the relationship to go, you won't get what you're looking for. |
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Women are crazy and Are stuck the **** up.. Thank you. ugly chicks even have the nerve to try and attempt me. But when some of my not so good looking buddies try the ugly chicks they dont give them a go! Smh! Eve crazy *** easily fell for a damn snake in the grass and Adam stupid *** followed her. Just look at the world the cycle continues. Women want money. Men are selling there souls for money= women
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Ah, you start off as friends first? Once a friend, always a friend. a good relationship that lasts can't start any other way Yes, but if you're not clear about your intentions and where you want the relationship to go, you won't get what you're looking for. my last relashionship was clear or so i thought it was we where sappose to be getting married june 22 2012 already had the dress the tux it all was planed out we where also trying for a kid so yea it was all in the open she just left and walked away just like we where never together. |
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Wow! a 'nice guy' thread... Haven't seen one of these in like... a year or so. Nice guy is a label men apply to opening doors and such. Personally I think that when a man quites trying to be a Nice Guy... They become one. Because they stop whining about opening doors and getting walked on. and Start opening doors and showing respect. (for themselves as well as their partner) i do have respect for myself. i am not winning about anything i am simply asking why do woman play so many mind games if they know what they want? i am a Vol. Firefighter and carry myself with high standerds for life if tha is not self respect please tell me what is. |
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Ah, you start off as friends first? Once a friend, always a friend. a good relationship that lasts can't start any other way Yes, but if you're not clear about your intentions and where you want the relationship to go, you won't get what you're looking for. my last relashionship was clear or so i thought it was we where sappose to be getting married june 22 2012 already had the dress the tux it all was planed out we where also trying for a kid so yea it was all in the open she just left and walked away just like we where never together. That's not something that would be easy to get over. Are you sure you're ready to start dating again? |
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Ah, you start off as friends first? Once a friend, always a friend. a good relationship that lasts can't start any other way Yes, but if you're not clear about your intentions and where you want the relationship to go, you won't get what you're looking for. my last relashionship was clear or so i thought it was we where sappose to be getting married june 22 2012 already had the dress the tux it all was planed out we where also trying for a kid so yea it was all in the open she just left and walked away just like we where never together. That's not something that would be easy to get over. Are you sure you're ready to start dating again? im not looking to start dateing im looking for friends and if something sparks fom that then it does you cant stop feelings. |
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Ah, you start off as friends first? Once a friend, always a friend. a good relationship that lasts can't start any other way Yes, but if you're not clear about your intentions and where you want the relationship to go, you won't get what you're looking for. my last relashionship was clear or so i thought it was we where sappose to be getting married june 22 2012 already had the dress the tux it all was planed out we where also trying for a kid so yea it was all in the open she just left and walked away just like we where never together. That's not something that would be easy to get over. Are you sure you're ready to start dating again? im not looking to start dateing im looking for friends and if something sparks fom that then it does you cant stop feelings. Just be sure you're ready to move on before jumping into anything. |
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Old Fashioned values and treating people well is great until you just beat it into the ground like you are God's gift tot her world and evry one else is just a merer mortal. Women, even young women, get tird of that dribble and figure it is not long until you find something you can laude over them so they get while the getting is good. It is not that anyone in their right mind wants to be abused but nobody want st to suffer a a self righteous bore for long either. Are you at such a young age really that bad? I doubt it but you have gotten your one freebie whine. So; enjoy the grace and be thankful that you have only had one or two dissappointments and the high school sweetheart is really not suppose to count because how can you know what you want in personality and future dreams when you are not eveh dry behind the ears? .
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Ah, you start off as friends first? Once a friend, always a friend. a good relationship that lasts can't start any other way Yes, but if you're not clear about your intentions and where you want the relationship to go, you won't get what you're looking for. my last relashionship was clear or so i thought it was we where sappose to be getting married june 22 2012 already had the dress the tux it all was planed out we where also trying for a kid so yea it was all in the open she just left and walked away just like we where never together. That's not something that would be easy to get over. Are you sure you're ready to start dating again? im not looking to start dateing im looking for friends and if something sparks fom that then it does you cant stop feelings. Just be sure you're ready to move on before jumping into anything. yea thats why i say i am looking for a friend so i have time to get over it all im going to stay single for a fue months and then start looking to date that way i have time to gather myself and pick my pices up and put my world back together to be able to move on and continue with my life. life keeps going and as long as you are down the father you will be left behind and i know that i have to take time to gather myself so i dont take out what she did on my next relationship. |
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Manners are wonderful! Personally I love people with them.
I'm wondering if the problem lies in choosing beautiful people to date, who are accustomed to acting like jerks because they have good looks? I have dated some very attractive men who eventually behaved badly because they were good looking and thought they could "get away with" bad behavior? I think it's really hot to find an attractive man who has manners, is respectful, and decent person. Where are they all hiding themselves.......? |
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