my foot!

Is it just me, or do you go back over your posts, and think,

"WOW! I cant believe I said that?!?!?",

or

"WHOAAAAAAAA! Thats wayyyyyyyyy over the top!".



Ive started to do this, lately...

...and im wondering.

Am I really that "outrageous?",

or does everyone else,

do this too?

All the time.

I post what I mean and mean what I post, but then again I could be a liar and if that's the case I'll keep lying...I promise!

I don't look back.

Not really....if I examine every little thing I say that'd wreck all the fun!

Frequently...but what's done is done

What's worse, is that if I could do a groundhog day, I would probably repeat those 'foot in mouth' moments

it's just you...

To the mods: I was sure I had this in the right place this time, and you guys had to move it for me.

I realize thats a major pain in the azz for you guys.

I thought Charles said "if its a straight ahead question being asked, and it doesnt belong anywhere else, then it goes in "General Discussion".

I personally dont care where it ends up. Im just happy to not have it deleted, but I guess I still dont understand where to put my threads.

Sorry, you had to move it, and thank you for not deleting it.



Now, back on topic,

its cool to see that im not the only one who does this. I was thinking that my insecurity was increasing about what others feel about me.

Of course, EVERYONE would prefere to be liked than not liked!

But ive always been wayyyyyyy more about, if I can look in the mirror afterwards, and smile, then what ive said or done was the right thing, and I didnt injure myself or anyone else.

In my profile I do say, "I will say, or do, whatever I want, as long as its not hurting me, or anybody else, or im not chitting in your Cheerios", I can only be myself.

Im trying harder to let people get to know me,

and how silly I am,

and me get to know them, before getting too "off the hook" with them.

But I honestly do care more how I feel about me, then how others do, because I like who I am, and think THAT is what is most important.

I not your average bear, call me what you will, but I only know how to be me.

Yeah, too much coffee today!

I wish the "edit" button was availalbe on my posts forever instead of just a few minutes.

Thats what im sayin!

Its good to know, im not the only one here, that does this.

No, gorgeous. You are not. We all do it.

* kitten scratches this off her list of "Things that only bi-polor people do".*

I actually cringe when I read some of the things I've posted on here.

What's worse is that most of the thread die a death after I've posted something but hey, it's not like I'm over thinking

SHE CALLED ME GORGEOUS!

Thank you Ruth!

I feel pretty
oh so pretty

I feel pretty
and happy
and gayyyyyyyyyyyyy!!

Kitten, I don't recall ever sticking my foot in your mouth. It's already crowded in there.

As for my "Oops!" moments, last year I created an entire "Oops!" thread. It left me looking like this:


When it happens to you, all that you can do is apologize and move on.

Ohhhhhhhhhh no babe.

I have to tell you, I AM THE WORST THREADKILLER HERE.

Just go to my "Threadkiller" post,

and look at how many times I have killed 25 threads all at once!

THats why I started the "Threadkiller" thread.

Mingle is a pretty forgiving place. It has to be or none of us would still be here.

You may have adopted the title of "thread killer" but you're definitely not the only one

Seriously ma honey, it's so just not you

OMG, Almost EVERY ONE of my posts is edited.

But its because, I edit, even if I missed a period, at the end of the sentence.

But I always hate having that "edited" stamp on my thread,

because for some reason,

I feel like the thread is not as pretty, with that on it!

Kitten, your sexiness makes up for any editing that you do.