Thanks Everyone i feel a little bit better now i know life has to go on i have to take care of my little girl. Thank You everyone

your very welcome don't be a stranger

You are only 24!!!

You'll get back on that horse....give it time!!

I married my high school sweetheart and was with him for 27 years. I left him almost one year ago and I have to tell you at my age I am scared to death. I have NEVER been with anyone but my family and him. It is getting better now and I am getting stronger. I am actually finding me and what I enjoy. I am starting to have fun. It will work. You are so young so just relax and enjoy life. I have also found a "Divorce Care" class at a Church that meets once a week and it has helped me understand all the feelings of loss.

I married my high school sweet heart. 8 years later we seperated and divorced. I am happier and more relaxed then I ever was married.

So maybe the best is yet to come for you!!

Aww babygirl - it gets better hun.

My 20 year relationship ended almost 2 years ago. I am on my own for the first time in my life and yes it can be scary at times. But guess what? You will find you! And that is so empowering.

I am pretty sure I will love again in a romantic way ... but if not, I am completely in love with so many friends that my life is full anyway.

You are so young ... you have life left that you haven't even dreamed yet. Just think ... you get to start over with all you know now ... how wonderful!

All the best to you!

Hun... I've been alone with my son for 11 years. I'm still alive and have alot to give a guy still...your only 24 you have plenty of time to find some else you'll be fine...keep your head held high love your daughter to the fullest and every thing will fall into place....wish you the best

You will grow and become much stronger,and find a better man then him.You both deserve that.

You can make it! Married 14 years, starting a new life. Its hard and really depressing at times. But, you can do it.

I think you need time to heal, you said that your divorce just came final about a month ago? I think you need to really concentrate on your relationship with your daughter. Take this time to spend with her and learn things about yourself, your likes and your dislikes.
I have been divorced for 10 wonderful years, the single life is very nice. I have spent this time with my 2 boys, I have enjoyed "our" time very much. I like being able to do what I want, when I want. I have became a very independent women with a very clear mind who now knows exactly what I want!!
I am now at that point in my life to where I don't NEED a man in my life but it would be very nice to have a man to spend time with. If it happens that would be great, but if it doesn't...I am very content with my life!!
I wish you luck and I hope you and your daughter find happiness. I have a saying...Never look back just look ahead!! Don't let your past hold you back, who knows what the future has in store for you!!

Just try to remember..you are you. He can't hurt you unless you allow him to. He may have started rumors, but you keep going and doing what you've always done, hold your head high and people will know differently. Who cares what he's done or what rumors he started..it just showed his mentality. Now you show them the woman you truly are! Your strong, courageous, beautiful and people will see what a lovely woman you are. Set a good example for your children and they will see women can make it through anything when we set our minds to it.:)

Trust me...Even though it doesn't seem like it now...Things will get better...I have been divorced for 13 years and although it took awhile..Once I reclaimed my life and started to live it the way I chose...It was like a breath of fresh air!!!!!!!!!!

You're still young

Love will find you again

say HELL YEAH!!

Im divorced for 20 plus yrs now..BEST YEARS OF MY LIFE!!!

Good Luck to you!

I've been divorced for awhile now, and I can't say that being divorced is all that much different from being married, except it's a lot quieter now and I don't have as much stuff thrown at me.

hMMMM yessssssss.....the quietness

You betcha there is!! Just be careful and always wait a while before introducing that potential man to your babygirl. Also try finding a good counselor to help you thru this tough time. Good luck!

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