So bored...anyone think of anything fun to do on week nights?

Im too depressed to do anything right now

ah why are you sad bearfan?

hate to hear it hope you get to feeling better soon.

LONG story but basically the guy i was currently seeing and dating (mind you we werent exclusive or bf/gf) decided to buy a plane ticket for another girl from JSH to come up and visit him because he still wanted to meet her and he was still unsure about us. She is from texas. Well 2 days after she left he gave me the 'no relationship just friends only' speech. He was nowhere near making that decision before she came up. I know that he is afraid of committment thats why I never pushed the issue on him but I blame her some though. She came up at a very bad time. I asked him if they did anything and he said no.

Well yesterday I found out everything. He bought her the ticket while we have been dating, they did have sex, and he lied to me about her staying the whole weekend. Instead of telling me the truth and me just crying, I got upset and pissed off because he lied to me. The one thing I asked him never to do. He said he lied was because he didnt want to hurt my feelings. Well I found out everything from the other girl. Also, he never mentioned me to her so of course she got pissed off because she felt used. He even had sex w/ me the day after she left and I didnt know this information at the time. So now not only do I feel used but I could have some STD that she could have given him w/o his knowledge.

I feel betrayed and hurt and I dont think I could ever see this guy again. Im having a problem just trying to talk to him and I really dont think he's worth my time now. The girl, on the other hand, really likes him and is gonna try and pursue a relationship with him and have him all to herself. I dont see this working because she is in Texas (we are in MO) and he's afraid of committment thats why he never committed to calling me his girlfriend.

So now Im just very depressed because this is the first guy that has treated me well and was going somewhere promising. We have been seeing each other for 6 weeks but not anymore. I guess what Im mostly upset about is that he lied to me about her and how he hid everything from both of us. I truely believe she didnt know about me and if she did, I dont think she would have accepted the plane ticket. My trust and honest in guys is gone because of what he did and I know its going to take awhile before I can trust someone again. I also know that Im going to be extremely depressed until I get over him as well.

Sorry its long but thats why I am pretty upset

Did you meet him on here?
Owww..all kick his ass for you!

Want to get a cup of joe and talk about it?
sounds like you need some candy to!

Well i still luvs ya!

Yeah I met him on JSH sweet... We've been seeing each other since early October until yesterday. I'm doing ok but I think Im gonna take him off my friends list b/c I cant bear to see his profile every time I log on. And I dont want to quit coming to the site just because I had a bad experience. Alot of people have said that I have had the right to be pissed and that since it has been a physical relationship since the beginning then we were committed some what. Im at the point where I dont care right now. Coffee and a talk sounds great though!

bear , I will teach him a leason for you, ,,, we women stick together and I don't let other Missouri men do this to MISSOURI women.
They know better. He is not worth talking to in my book. maybe kickin butt.

Thanks Lady. Ive had so many offers from guys and girls about wanting to kick this guy's ass but that wont be necessary. He's hurting (I got him to admit that he regretted what he has done) and Im hurting. He knows he messed up. Now lets see if he wants to make it right.

Hey Missourian!

Hi Niko. Where in MO are you?

St. Louieeee
Missourian in the house




u?

HAHAHAHA rock on.

Im from Kearney which is about 30 min from Kansas City

Yeah Kansas.... "Dorthy who's Dorothy?" - sorry that's the state.

I don't think I've been to Kansas City MO, I've been to Springfeild, Cape Girardeau, Sikston, Fetus/Crystal City, and one stop in mexico mo(-just to pay for my bro's car when it was in the shop).

Really sad that I've been across seas 2.5 times and haven't visited many city/towns in Missouri. Oh well

HI! I'm pretty new here, thought I'd see what was going on in MO! I'm near St Joseph... in NorthWest MO

Welcome my dear friend Miss Jeans......stay awhile and play

Hi jeans and nikio, hope you enjoy our MISSOURI thread. I am from Jefferson City.

hey what happened laci? who scared you to death? lol

Hey Miss not far from your area... Kearney here. ST Joe is about an hr away

Hey ladynluv2be lived in Jeff area for 20 years before moved south 3 years ago.....my daughter and G-babies still there so visit often.
Small world Huh?

Just checkin in from the big town of Green Ridge!