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Topic: A Query
motowndowntown's photo
Thu 02/23/12 03:47 PM





How DARE you say Leia was just a hot piece of azz....





Any woman who can choke a slug like she did gets an A+ in my book.

MariahsFantasy's photo
Thu 02/23/12 03:50 PM




"The one who cares least controls the relationship."

Gender unbiased question. Yay or nay?



The words 'controls' and 'relationship' don't belong in the same sentence to me - at least not like that.
A true healthy relationship doesn't have a controlling role on either side.


So...if I like a guy WAY more than he is interested in me, would he run or stick around? Is it also in this sense true if a woman pushes away (i.e. acts like she doesn't want it but still coy), a man will pull her back to him? Just throwing that out there.


Um, I dunno?
Not to be flip, but I dunno!
Depends on the two involved and their real intentions?
I am sure any of those scenarios have been played out and experienced by some.
I can't wrap my head around the acts/games?
None of that fits in a healthy relationship in my view. flowerforyou



Oh its cool. It does yeah. Probably depends on the mood of the relationship. Let's not make any confessions here. Its a weekday, I don't feel like learning anything.

LoweredExpectations's photo
Mon 02/27/12 10:19 AM
He MultipleDichotomies,
Thank you for the treatise. The example was very illustrative.

You may also enjoy the subject of Game Theory, and specifically zero-sum games, a study of which might be helpful to anyone involved in person-to-person negotiations like those which happen in intimate relationships.

This type of "game" is not the same subject in "Games People Play", which is also fantastic reading, but documents dysfunctional interactions between people due to a system of hidden payoffs.

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