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What i find hilarious, is people who come here and moan that Mingle2 apparentely "sucks". They then go to P.O.F or okCupid, and find those sites to be much worse. NOW which site SUCKS? I say either put in some effort getting to know people, if not then i'm not sure how people are expected to communicate. Some of these other dating site forums are a blood bath compared to this one. Quite honestly, the other dating sites hardly compare to the friendliness, and kindness of people on here. I'd not be too quick to jump ship :) What makes them a "blood bath" compared to here? There are sites (or there used to be -- I don't visit those anymore) where the forums are basically nothing more than war zones. Yeah some of the ones I see have a lot of hateful and vile posts and the good posts get buried. IMO people that love drama go to some of the other sites because that is all that seems to be in their forums. Craziness if you ask me |
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I like that pic....too..((((SexyLexy)))) Wait till you see the next one -- it's totally out of character. The things you have to do when you lose a bet....! I will be looking forward to it. |
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I used to have the whole Sesame Street collection......... used to?! what happened? |
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Yeah some of the ones I see have a lot of hateful and vile posts and the good posts get buried. IMO people that love drama go to some of the other sites because that is all that seems to be in their forums. Craziness if you ask me Yeah. It's madness. I deleted my profile from those other ones. I hate drama. |
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I don't use the other site because of forums. I use it for actual dating.
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I used to have the whole Sesame Street collection......... used to?! what happened? It's a sad story really. They were set on fire. Kinda personal..... |
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I used to have the whole Sesame Street collection......... used to?! what happened? It's a sad story really. They were set on fire. Kinda personal..... That's what usually happens when Oscar the grouch messes with GI Joe. Sorry for your loss Bro.. On topic: Mingle is just like any other place where people meet, make friends and sometimes find love. Perhaps they should take out the "dating site".... I see a constant flow of new peeps who are pushing and instead, should be pulling on here.... it's a dating site, so they figure people are all lined up waiting for them. Just Be yourself and enjoy! |
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It's a sad story really. They were set on fire. Kinda personal..... D': |
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I used to have the whole Sesame Street collection......... used to?! what happened? It's a sad story really. They were set on fire. Kinda personal..... That's what usually happens when Oscar the grouch messes with GI Joe. Sorry for your loss Bro.. On topic: Mingle is just like any other place where people meet, make friends and sometimes find love. Perhaps they should take out the "dating site".... I see a constant flow of new peeps who are pushing and instead, should be pulling on here.... it's a dating site, so they figure people are all lined up waiting for them. Just Be yourself and enjoy! I think the bottom line is simply that the term "dating site" is the draw. People search for "dating site," not "site that combines dating with forums and nudges and various degrees of social interaction and questions and answers and jokes and poetry and...." Yeah, this is a dating site -- and it's much more than that. But I think you need to use that specific term -- "dating site" -- to catch people's attention. And, in the end, all of the other stuff on the site is actually set up so that it can aid in the "getting-to-know-each-other" process -- and that may not necessarily lead to dating, but there's certainly no reason why it can't -- which has been proven over and over again here. All you have to do is take a look at the "Success Stories" thread in the New members forum to see some examples.... |
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^^^^^^
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I can break it down for you. This place is no different then going to the grocery store. You see some chick that interests you and you pull up to her cart. Then you say "Damn baby those are some nice looking strawberries in your cart. Where did you find them?" Then she says "In the strawberry section you f!cking loser". Something like that.......
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I think the bottom line is simply that the term "dating site" is the draw. People search for "dating site," not "site that combines dating with forums and nudges and various degrees of social interaction and questions and answers and jokes and poetry and...." Yeah, this is a dating site -- and it's much more than that. But I think you need to use that specific term -- "dating site" -- to catch people's attention. And, in the end, all of the other stuff on the site is actually set up so that it can aid in the "getting-to-know-each-other" process -- and that may not necessarily lead to dating, but there's certainly no reason why it can't -- which has been proven over and over again here. All you have to do is take a look at the "Success Stories" thread in the New members forum to see some examples.... I, also, think that some members expect an instant date (just add water ) Things take time Yeah. It's madness. I deleted my profile from those other ones. I hate drama. Some other sites actually thrive on the drama. Some places allow multiple profiles (or just don't do anything about it) where some members will create them to harass others or delete good topics but leave the drama topics. Pitiful if you ask me |
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well this is something to consider...some women (even men) prefer to chat with someone before they meet. This is a crazy world we live in and maybe they want to get to know someone before the person turns into a serial killer But seriously...I would rather get to know someone on here first. That way I know if there are things in common and a bit about them first We LAUGH JUST A LIKE,, and we both see things that arnt there. WE SHOULD DATE,,, |
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I used to have the whole Sesame Street collection......... used to?! what happened? It's a sad story really. They were set on fire. Kinda personal..... oh no!say it isn't so you didn't bbq Big Bird did ya? |
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What i find hilarious, is people who come here and moan that Mingle2 apparentely "sucks". They then go to P.O.F or okCupid, and find those sites to be much worse. NOW which site SUCKS? I say either put in some effort getting to know people, if not then i'm not sure how people are expected to communicate. Some of these other dating site forums are a blood bath compared to this one. Quite honestly, the other dating sites hardly compare to the friendliness, and kindness of people on here. I'd not be too quick to jump ship :) Agreed especially what you said about POF. Nasty site for arguing and big time game players on there. Never met one decent person on that site that I would give the time of day to. Here at least there are good people here that I could call friend. |
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well this is something to consider...some women (even men) prefer to chat with someone before they meet. This is a crazy world we live in and maybe they want to get to know someone before the person turns into a serial killer But seriously...I would rather get to know someone on here first. That way I know if there are things in common and a bit about them first We LAUGH JUST A LIKE,, and we both see things that arnt there. WE SHOULD DATE,,, go sit in the corner |
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It would be nice if this site actually had more people interested in dating but I think the friendliness makes up for it.
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So many people added to my block list. Its amazing the ignorance one finds in places like this and la k of maturity for another. Oh well and they wonder why they are single. Well. Welcome to reality people this shows you exactly why your ***** got dumped and why the only thing you find is online and not in reality its because you don't have the notion to understand facts even if they are kiosked to you. For the few good ones. Your best bet is elsewhere. This site should be renamed jokersparadox.com
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everyone is entitled to their opinions.
Sorry but (for myself) I prefer to get to know someone by chatting before I go to meet a guy. It's a crazy world, especially online Not everything in real life, or online, is instant. Some people might prefer to chat until they find someone they want to date. Plus these are the forums....so chatting is kinda the point. Do you realize that online...women usually get a higher number of emails than men? Try sorting through a ton of emails looking to hook up, etc to find a good email |
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everyone is entitled to their opinions. Sorry but (for myself) I prefer to get to know someone by chatting before I go to meet a guy. It's a crazy world, especially online Not everything in real life, or online, is instant. Some people might prefer to chat until they find someone they want to date. Plus these are the forums....so chatting is kinda the point. Do you realize that online...women usually get a higher number of emails than men? Try sorting through a ton of emails looking to hook up, etc to find a good email Gimme some sugar baby! |
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