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Topic: Do you need him, or do you just want him?
adj4u Joined Sun 04/08/07 Posts: 21254	Mon 02/27/12 01:38 PM
? So you're addicted to things like oxygen, and that's destructive? An addiction is more of an uncontrolled/unmanaged impulse/urge. yep and if you have a need for someone then it is an addiction to that someone you can always find a loophole if you look hard enough and if you have to go where there is no oxygen then your addiction to it causes you to take it with you thus you o2 tank can become caught on something or run m t then that need for o2 has lead to your demise and yes that is destructive I think you're over thinking this. Everyone needs oxygen. By your logic, that would be saying everyone is an addict. yes they are so i guess addictions are not always a negative it is ones preconceived ideas and prejudices that are the true bad things

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Mon 02/27/12 01:50 PM
need is an addiction addiction is destructive behavior so it is better to be wanted than needed I agree that its better to be wanted than needed. When someone says they need me; it also screams desperation.

LookinRound Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 7894	Mon 02/27/12 01:51 PM
...When true love happens, our wants and needs become satisfied..... Yeah, that ^

kale68 Joined Sat 07/30/11 Posts: 125	Tue 02/28/12 06:06 PM
If you need him,find another...If you want him,go for broke...Needing him makes you vulnerable and weak to him at most...Wanting him keeps you at least on equal emotional grounds...I've been there and in that "Need" relationship(my first and only love since) I lost it all...As I moved on emotionally she seen I was done and tried to come back and I walked away...

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Tue 02/28/12 06:18 PM
If you need him,find another...If you want him,go for broke...Needing him makes you vulnerable and weak to him at most...Wanting him keeps you at least on equal emotional grounds...I've been there and in that "Need" relationship(my first and only love since) I lost it all...As I moved on emotionally she seen I was done and tried to come back and I walked away... Sounds like one big FAT game playin to me.

Chloe23Irish Joined Sun 01/01/12 Posts: 717	Wed 02/29/12 12:35 AM
I don't need him, but I wouldn't mind having him either.

stefy Joined Sat 11/20/10 Posts: 2946	Wed 02/29/12 11:53 AM
Do you need him, or do you just want him? Are you satisfied? Yes, Yes and Yes!

winterblue56 Joined Sun 12/12/10 Posts: 2465	Thu 03/01/12 05:59 PM
What am I bidding on?

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Thu 03/01/12 06:57 PM
Is it better to be needed or wanted at this point in life, I have had enough people needing me and am responsible for the needs of enough that being 'needed' is not something I particularly look for in a relationship ID prefer someone be there because it was their desire to be , not their NEED to be,,,its a big responsibility to be someones need,,,,

pyxxie13 Joined Wed 09/28/11 Posts: 3835	Thu 03/01/12 10:57 PM
I don't need anyone. I am capable of living my life without needing him. I am sure he would not want to be around just because he is needed either.

machug Joined Sun 09/04/11 Posts: 6601	Thu 03/01/12 11:26 PM
Need him? NO! Want him? oh yeah!!

carold Joined Sun 03/23/08 Posts: 26747	Thu 03/01/12 11:50 PM
Need NO Want Yes Satisfied NO Pretty soon all three will be NO....