i guess i wont be posting anything anymore , people just delete me , delete this who cares

yeah you tell em coco!!!
hehehe

Hugs coco.I care...... I know its tough to be facing surgery
alone......
anything I can do to help you thru this?

big sexy

sorry you got deleted Coco

Coco, this place has changed, and ppl now can throw any of us out of posts so its not just you that it happens to,,just be you.
And maybe try to give a post a question in your sentence so they will find it ok to add there remarks to,,sorry that they got ya...Just don't take it to heart,,just think of it as a color no one liked?? ITS not YOU!!!

Don't pay attention coco, be strong and continue in writing,
iam4u is right over the subject.

who could've done such a thing

Just give them the flying donkey kick like Coco Beware.

Coco,

Iam4u is completely correct - it is NOT YOU. Clearly you are taking things personally, to your own emotional detriment which were not intended personally.

It might, however, be -the choices that you make-. If you choose to post in the wrong forum, other people will choose to delete the post. I missed out on those deletions, but I'm very happy that at least 7 out of 10 people have enough respect for the community as a whole to want posts in the right category.

There are many people here that love you, and who would love hearing you say "Hello" and "Goodbye" every time you log in and out, so why don't you start your own Coffee House?

You would be a fantastic Coffee House host. You don't have to call it a Coffee House - get creative with it. There is a place for just about everything here at JSH.

what an impressive answer, massagetrade...every day i'm more impressed with your sensitivity and intelligence.

Thank you Lulu - apparently different people have different ideas of what it means to be 'sensitive', and I know some would disagree with you strongly ... I am trying my best to see other's points of view, and I especially appreciate Iam4u's posts.

i just got an email from Coco telling me she is living.
she says that she is getting hurt over and over.
I just told her please read the posts in this thread, and she will see how much people here love her.
I also told u not get upset or leave just for a couple of mean people.
I hope she listens to us.

maybe...objective is a better word. you look at everything without the...emotional coloring.

*shrugs* i like that.

BTW I know most people don't like me
But i swear she sent me that email
I'm not being sarcastic at all.

never doubted that, miguel...and i love you. bunches, little bro.

TLW, I like you! Why do you say people don't like you?

This is, however, starting to remind me of a hostage situation.

i said that just for the record.
why i said it.
just because i know that most of the time i'm sarcastic when i see those pity seeking threads.
but coco is a good friend, and a very sensitive soul.
i put my hands on fire for her.

TLW,

Coco is clearly a good friend to many people! Which is why I think *her* coffee house will be *so* successful.

Maybe her good friends can help her to not to take things personally? Help her get her coffee house started?

We don't have to discuss it here, now, but I still don't understand why you think people don't like you, Miguel.

i appreciate ur words massagetrade
it's just a feeling
another feeling is that people like and dislike other people for several reasons.
i actually don't pay much attention to that.
i made that statement for the sole purpose to let all know that i was not being sarcastic.
people who like me are few, and they are really close to my heart.
each one of them know who they are.