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Topic: TO ALL MEN
Sin_and_Sorrow's photo
Thu 02/09/12 07:34 PM


I though we all were, well most of us anyway.

I was saying if you were with someone, if you did not
feel they worth worth that "special treatment" why
stay with them.


..I know what your point is/was, but you seemed to aim it at me.

That's why I said it that way.

Gotcha now. Misunderstood, my bad.

Sin_and_Sorrow's photo
Thu 02/09/12 07:36 PM

Unless you live in northeastern Oklahoma,


Never even been there.


or unless you read a webpage/post about my daughter's adoption


..that's a good one.
You are a funny guy.


you have entered the Twilight Zone.


Yeah, I was just thinking you look like a lot like my old professor. She resembles a chick who sat next to me in H.S.

That's all.

no photo
Thu 02/09/12 07:44 PM


I WOULD LIKE ALL THE MEN TO ANSWER A FEW QUESTIONS


Um, ok, shoot.


IF U DONT MIND!


Naw, it's cool. If you don't mind me grubbing at the same time.
This bagel sandwich thing is flippin' amazing!


WHAT HAPPEN TO MEN TREATING WOMEN LIKE LADIES?


What happened...?
Easy, you happened.

You all proclaimed 'we want equal rights'.
So, you got them.
Now you wanna bish that we treat you like the guys?

Interesting.

So, tell me.

1. What is a 'lady'? They seem far rarer than finding a 'gentleman' these days.

2. What is the 'proper' way to treat a 'lady'?

I ask the second, because, the interpretation of 'how to treat a lady' differentiates between each woman, each culture, and each race.

Some exactly what terms are we to answer said question?


WHAT MAKES A MAN USE A WOMAN AS THEIR PUNCHING BAG


Hey, it could be any number of things.
However, one thing is solidified.

A man's hatred for a woman usually began at a young age and was forged BY a woman.

Whether mother, or otherwise. It's usually some sort of trauma, like PTSD or some chit.


DO U KNOW WHAT LOVE REALLY MEANS?


Yes, I do.

There. Hope that helps.


no

a man's behavior is his own responsibility. victims of violence are not at fault. ever.

boys learn how to treat women from their fathers as behavior models primarily

so much so that I'd advise (and have advised) any woman to watch VERY closely how her man treats his mom- as that is how he will treat her (his girl freind) in a year or two

if their father blames the world's problems on his wife or their mother & their relationship is rocky - they (sons) will do the same.

mothers (women) often get the blame for family problems because they are the most responsible OR will assume the responsibility for trying to keep it together when it's falling apart - so when it does fall apart - she will get blamed even tho the responsibilty lays equally with the man

women and mothers are not responsible for your happiness as a man

if a man beats a woman he belongs in jail.

insangel's photo
Thu 02/09/12 07:52 PM

I WOULD LIKE ALL THE MEN TO ANSWER A FEW QUESTIONS , IF U DONT MIND!
WHAT HAPPEN TO MEN TREATING WOMEN LIKE LADIES?

WHAT MAKES A MAN USE A WOMAN AS THEIR PUNCHING BAG

DO U KNOW WHAT LOVE REALLY MEANS?
plenty of men treat women properly.
and the level of abuse people take from others ....is equal to the level of SELF abuse they impose on themselves...
break the chain and love yourself..the rest will fall in place

Dodo_David's photo
Thu 02/09/12 07:52 PM



or unless you read a webpage/post about my daughter's adoption


..that's a good one.
You are a funny guy.


I did post at Mingle2 an announcement about my daughter's adoption, and I announced it on another website.

Anyway, back to the main topic of this thread . . .

If a woman deliberately dates a bad boy instead of a nice guy, then she shouldn't expect to be treated like a lady.

The only time that an ogre turned out to be better than a prince is when Fiona met Shrek.

[Personal Note: I'm glad that I found an excuse to talk about my daughter. She is my joy.]

Sin_and_Sorrow's photo
Thu 02/09/12 07:53 PM

no

a man's behavior is his own responsibility. victims of violence are not at fault. ever.


..when the H did I say that? o.O



boys learn how to treat women from their fathers as behavior models primarily

so much so that I'd advise (and have advised) any woman to watch VERY closely how her man treats his mom- as that is how he will treat her (his girl freind) in a year or two


Again not true.

I know 23 guy friends, including myself, who grew up fatherless. I have a rocky, at best relationship with my mom; however, I've never hit a woman.


if their father blames the world's problems on his wife or their mother & their relationship is rocky - they (sons) will do the same.


Again, not always true. You are generalizing.
This WILL occur IF the son idolizes the father. Then yeah, it will and could be the cause.


mothers (women) often get the blame for family problems because they are the most responsible OR will assume the responsibility for trying to keep it together when it's falling apart - so when it does fall apart - she will get blamed even tho the responsibilty lays equally with the man


Sexist much?


women and mothers are not responsible for your happiness as a man


..who said that? o.o


if a man beats a woman he belongs in jail.


Agreed.

no photo
Thu 02/09/12 08:31 PM
yes - the area where I generalized is just an example - not meant sexist - just an example of how modeling can go awry

we are all genrally equally capable of being idiots or not.....ohwell

Sin_and_Sorrow's photo
Thu 02/09/12 08:32 PM

yes - the area where I generalized is just an example - not meant sexist - just an example of how modeling can go awry

we are all genrally equally capable of being idiots or not.....ohwell



Mmm...

I wanna beat you..

...in a sexual kinda way.

:X

Dodo_David's photo
Thu 02/09/12 09:23 PM


yes - the area where I generalized is just an example - not meant sexist - just an example of how modeling can go awry

we are all genrally equally capable of being idiots or not.....ohwell



Mmm...

I wanna beat you..

...in a sexual kinda way.

:X

Watch out. Sweetest prefers being the one holding the whip . . . or so I have heard.

Goofball73's photo
Thu 02/09/12 09:28 PM


Why does a man use his woman as a punching bag? Easy. Dude isn't a man. If he was a man, then he'd "man up" and not take out his frustrations or shortcomings on his woman. Only reason a man should ever raise his hand to a woman is if (A) a woman abuses him and he needs to protect himself (rare but it does happen) or (B)she is threatening his life. I know people may not agree with those, but if a woman is holding a gun to my head for no damn reason, chick is going down. Just saying.

Do I know what love really means? I sure do. And that's all I need to say about that.



In extreme situations of course.


Absolutely. I lost a good friend of mine when I found out he was beating his wife (now ex wife). Told him if he hit her ever again I would beat him down (and I don't like fighting).

oldhippie1952's photo
Fri 02/10/12 04:50 AM

I WOULD LIKE ALL THE MEN TO ANSWER A FEW QUESTIONS , IF U DONT MIND!
WHAT HAPPEN TO MEN TREATING WOMEN LIKE LADIES?

WHAT MAKES A MAN USE A WOMAN AS THEIR PUNCHING BAG

DO U KNOW WHAT LOVE REALLY MEANS?


A real man NEVER abuses a woman/child in any way whatsoever. It sounds like you've been with little boys, not men.

I always treat a woman with preference (manners), and I know what love means, just haven't had any. Such is life.

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