Topic: TO ALL MEN
Sin_and_Sorrow's photo
Thu 02/09/12 05:42 PM

WHAT HAPPEN TO MEN TREATING WOMEN LIKE LADIES? I blame the media
and the overall acceptance of immoral behavior and stereotypes.
Rappers call women b!tches and hos, terms like bro before ho's.
people laugh haha if funny but little things like that change are mindset. the sexes are portray as stereotypes everywhere you
look and like anything else we become numb to it and accept it as the norm.


Blah. Blame the media. Such a scapegoat cop-out.
The media doesn't 'force' you to do anything. Each individual is in charge of themselves. If they choose to be influenced, they will be.

Blame the kid who just leaped from his rooftop through a set of burning tables? Or the wrestler who just attempted it on live TV?

Neither. The parents, obviously, lacked any influence, so you could blame them.

Not even that would be correct; it was still the kids choice.

The media doesn't hold a gun to your head.
Most let he media corrupt their very existence, and thus, ultimately become pawns.

...always passing the blame to the next guy.

It's the biggest 'norm' action around.


I was reading a post on a social networks forum the other day,
and argued with the 18 to 20 year olds that hitting a women is
never ok, even the girls ganged up on me and argued that it's ok if she is acting like a b!tch or hits him 1st.


..so if a woman charges at you and starts whooping you culo, it's fine to just stand there and.. take it?

If that's your principle, good luck if you ever face a woman with a knife. Bobbitt anyone?


TV shows, music, society in general projects an overall
acceptance of this behavior.


..because it sells.
Whether news, fictional shows, or even comedies, violence, sex, and drug abuse are all that makes them famous these days.

You blame the media for it?

Last I checked, the media doesn't force anyone to watch it, nor buy a TV for every room, nor force you to get that whip that will attract her eyes, nor get the cologne spray that will make women ravage you like an animal.

No, media is not to blame. Society itself is to blame.

We are ALL to blame.

You can't blame the media for flooding our TV's with ideas that make them billions upon billions.

If society gave a da** bout pink unicorns and monochrome rainbows I can almost guarantee that's all you'd see on TV and all rappers would well.. rap about.

But seriously.. if it made you rich, would you give it up?

Doubtful.

MariahsFantasy's photo
Thu 02/09/12 05:49 PM

Why does a man use his woman as a punching bag? Easy. Dude isn't a man. If he was a man, then he'd "man up" and not take out his frustrations or shortcomings on his woman. Only reason a man should ever raise his hand to a woman is if (A) a woman abuses him and he needs to protect himself (rare but it does happen) or (B)she is threatening his life. I know people may not agree with those, but if a woman is holding a gun to my head for no damn reason, chick is going down. Just saying.

Do I know what love really means? I sure do. And that's all I need to say about that.



In extreme situations of course.

no photo
Thu 02/09/12 06:39 PM
men dont treat women great in my opinion these days because alot of girls are tricksters and liars.

men who beat women are cowards

and they do know what love is but its hard to find a girl that doesnt cheat in alot of cases so its hard to give trust sometimes.

DaddyTime's photo
Thu 02/09/12 06:41 PM

men dont treat women great in my opinion these days because alot of girls are tricksters and liars.

men who beat women are cowards

and they do know what love is but its hard to find a girl that doesnt cheat in alot of cases so its hard to give trust sometimes.


:thumbsup:

they do love to cheat.

Sin_and_Sorrow's photo
Thu 02/09/12 06:43 PM

men dont treat women great in my opinion these days because alot of girls are tricksters and liars.


Agreed.


men who beat women are cowards


A coward flees from any and all fights, or has someone else do the fighting for him. Like, say, a politician.

How is he a coward?

Pathetic. Sad. Lowlife. Piece of dirt; ok.
Coward though?


and they do know what love is but its hard to find a girl that doesnt cheat in alot of cases so its hard to give trust sometimes.


Aiight.
I agree.

no photo
Thu 02/09/12 06:46 PM
could be a coward if the couple is in a verbal fight but resorts to physical dominance?

DaddyTime's photo
Thu 02/09/12 06:48 PM

could be a coward if the couple is in a verbal fight but resorts to physical dominance?


physical dominance sounds kinda kinky,
I think that would be a good way to
make up after. smooched

Sin_and_Sorrow's photo
Thu 02/09/12 06:48 PM

could be a coward if the couple is in a verbal fight but resorts to physical dominance?


Meh.

That works. >.>

lol

no photo
Thu 02/09/12 06:50 PM
Haha agree to disagree!

at least we both feel its wrong lol

Dodo_David's photo
Thu 02/09/12 06:55 PM
Edited by Dodo_David on Thu 02/09/12 06:56 PM
WHAT HAPPEN TO MEN TREATING WOMEN LIKE LADIES?

How about understanding what a "lady" is?

From Wikipedia:
Formally "lady" is the female counterpart to higher ranks in society, from gentlemen, through knights, to lords, and so on. During the Middle Ages, princesses or daughters of the blood royal were usually known by their first names with "The Lady" prefixed, e.g. The Lady Elizabeth; since Old English and Middle English did not have a female equivalent to princes or earls or other royals or nobles, aside from the queen, women of royal and noble status simply carried the title of "Lady".

As a title of nobility, the uses of "lady" in Britain are parallel to those of "lord". It is thus a less formal alternative to the full title giving the specific rank, of marchioness, countess, viscountess or baroness, whether as the title of the husband's rank by right or courtesy, or as the lady's title in her own right. A peeress's title is used with the definite article: Lord Morris's wife is "The Lady Morris". A widow's title derived from her husband becomes the dowager, e.g. The Dowager Lady Smith. The title "Lady" is also used for a woman who is the wife of a Scottish feudal baron, the title "Lady" preceding the name of the barony.

In the case of younger sons of a duke or marquess, who by courtesy have "Lord" prefixed to their given and family name, the wife is known by the husband's given and family name with "The Lady" prefixed, e.g. The Lady John Smith. The daughters of dukes, marquesses and earls are by courtesy ladies; here that title is prefixed to the given and family name of the lady, e.g. The Lady Jane Smith, and this is preserved if the lady marries a commoner, e.g. Mr John and The Lady Jane Smith. The article 'The' should be used prior to "Lady" or "Lord" in all cases, except after a divorce for women who do not hold the courtesy title of "Lady" in their own right, e.g. or Jane, Lady Smith (the ex-wife of Lord John Smith).

"Lady" is also the customary title of the wife of a baronet or knight, but in this case with neither the article nor Christian name: "Lady" with the surname of the husband only, Sir John and Lady Smith. When a woman divorces a knight and he marries again, the new wife will be Lady Smith while the ex-wife becomes Jane, Lady Smith.

Female recipients of the Order of the Garter and Order of the Thistle also receive the prefix of Lady; here that title is prefixed to the given and family name of the lady, e.g. The Lady Marion Fraser LT, with the post nominal LG or LT respectively, and this is preserved if the lady marries.


Why shoud I treat a woman like she were an aristocrat?

Sin_and_Sorrow's photo
Thu 02/09/12 06:59 PM
..I asked that too Alf.

Never got a response, so, meh.

Seems like a lot of chicks proclaim they are a princess awaiting their prince charming..

..and then can't figure out why they can't find him.

DaddyTime's photo
Thu 02/09/12 07:00 PM

..I asked that too Alf.

Never got a response, so, meh.

Seems like a lot of chicks proclaim they are a princess awaiting their prince charming..

..and then can't figure out why they can't find him.


Whats wrong with prince charming though? I would say
he is a good role model compared to say Homer Simpson.

Sin_and_Sorrow's photo
Thu 02/09/12 07:08 PM


..I asked that too Alf.

Never got a response, so, meh.

Seems like a lot of chicks proclaim they are a princess awaiting their prince charming..

..and then can't figure out why they can't find him.


Whats wrong with prince charming though? I would say
he is a good role model compared to say Homer Simpson.


Nothing is wrong with him.

However a prince needs a princess.

Both are rare these days, let alone the two finding each other.

DaddyTime's photo
Thu 02/09/12 07:15 PM
Edited by DaddyTime on Thu 02/09/12 07:16 PM



..I asked that too Alf.

Never got a response, so, meh.

Seems like a lot of chicks proclaim they are a princess awaiting their prince charming..

..and then can't figure out why they can't find him.


Whats wrong with prince charming though? I would say
he is a good role model compared to say Homer Simpson.


Nothing is wrong with him.

However a prince needs a princess.

Both are rare these days, let alone the two finding each other.


Both should carry themselves in a appropriate manner,
if she acts like a lady then she deserves to be treated
as a princess. If she does not why are you continuing to
date?

Dodo_David's photo
Thu 02/09/12 07:20 PM
Edited by Dodo_David on Thu 02/09/12 07:21 PM

However a prince needs a princess.

Both are rare these days, let alone the two finding each other.


I'm no prince, but I have my princess:

My daughter will always be my princess.

[The above photo was taken last year.]

Sin_and_Sorrow's photo
Thu 02/09/12 07:24 PM




..I asked that too Alf.

Never got a response, so, meh.

Seems like a lot of chicks proclaim they are a princess awaiting their prince charming..

..and then can't figure out why they can't find him.


Whats wrong with prince charming though? I would say
he is a good role model compared to say Homer Simpson.


Nothing is wrong with him.

However a prince needs a princess.

Both are rare these days, let alone the two finding each other.


Both should carry themselves in a appropriate manner,
if she acts like a lady then she deserves to be treated
as a princess. If she does not why are you continuing to
date?


..dude what are you talking about?

I'm single.

Sin_and_Sorrow's photo
Thu 02/09/12 07:25 PM


However a prince needs a princess.

Both are rare these days, let alone the two finding each other.


I'm no prince, but I have my princess:

My daughter will always be my princess.

[The above photo was taken last year.]


..holy heII..

You both look amazingly familiar.

>.>

DaddyTime's photo
Thu 02/09/12 07:26 PM





..I asked that too Alf.

Never got a response, so, meh.

Seems like a lot of chicks proclaim they are a princess awaiting their prince charming..

..and then can't figure out why they can't find him.


Whats wrong with prince charming though? I would say
he is a good role model compared to say Homer Simpson.


Nothing is wrong with him.

However a prince needs a princess.

Both are rare these days, let alone the two finding each other.


Both should carry themselves in a appropriate manner,
if she acts like a lady then she deserves to be treated
as a princess. If she does not why are you continuing to
date?


..dude what are you talking about?

I'm single.


I though we all were, well most of us anyway.

I was saying if you were with someone, if you did not
feel they worth worth that "special treatment" why
stay with them.

Dodo_David's photo
Thu 02/09/12 07:30 PM



However a prince needs a princess.
Both are rare these days, let alone the two finding each other.


I'm no prince, but I have my princess:

My daughter will always be my princess.

[The above photo was taken last year.]


..holy heII..

You both look amazingly familiar.

>.>

Unless you live in northeastern Oklahoma, or unless you read a webpage/post about my daughter's adoption, you have entered the Twilight Zone.

DaddyTime's photo
Thu 02/09/12 07:33 PM




However a prince needs a princess.

Both are rare these days, let alone the two finding each other.


I'm no prince, but I have my princess:

My daughter will always be my princess.

[The above photo was taken last year.]


..holy heII..

You both look amazingly familiar.

>.>

Unless you live in northeastern Oklahoma, or unless you read a webpage/post about my daughter's adoption, you have entered the Twilight Zone.



How old is you're daughter looks older, does she mingle?