Women hit on me all the time when I am out with the kids, at the
playground and the pool. Especially at the pool for some reason.
It doesn't embarrass me though.



I think it helps that the kids are cute and Mom is not around.

Wrong. Not cute. Definitely sexy. It's the biology at work. Biologically, men are providers. If they show they can provide and care for their young, then females will be attracted to them to create more babies! It's the way of the world.

i have respect for any good parent.however cant say it hasexual atraction. Being within a relatiönship there should be a balance, some guys are so devoted to their kids thathey use their girlfriend as a free babysitter and have no time for her otherwise since his kids are more importanthan his girlfriend. I love children and wont mary a guy that wont make a good father.

I dunno. My ex, Bri, would talk about his love of his children and beam and beam and it was VERY attractive.

Yeah, I agree. Very sexy.

Yeah, that is very cool.

Women tend to smile more when a man is holding a baby... It's as much appreciating the difference from what has become the disgusting norm of abandonment in this community. Girls get dolls, guys get military toys or are thought of as gay. Parenting is a couple's job. Why not give both sexes dolls? Having wanted to be a parent for a quarter century I'm generally more active with our baby in public and that tends to be a conversation starter for both Sarah and I. I our family.

had my x ask why i wont take my son and she gets my daughter. duh time to brag on myself, ive been sending money for her since may ,11 while mom lives with her mom and cleans homes to make just enough to get by. Ive heard how a good dad would send more money than i do {75 per week) which is not court ordered or required. My son is with me 24/7 while there mom has my daughter. its what you do to make sure your childern; living with you or not, are taken care of. they didnt ask to be here and if you as a parent dont put them first; man or woman, dont deserve thier love or respect. anyone who finds a reason or excuse you shouldnt take care of your kids: with money or your time, i think you are a self centered piece of garbage. If they are better off with someone else because you hsve problems, fix your problems and give them what they deserve: A great parent who wants them to be better that they are. Put all the excuses, problems with your x, and sob stories second and put them first. dont grade yourself on im better than lots of deadbeat parents because im doing more than they do; be the parent you would want to raise you even if they may not live in your home. Just 1 mans opinion. No child is better off without both parents in thier lives. If youre such a jerk your kids are better off without you: change yourself and make thier lives better with a great dad/mom

Does the sick on my shoulder make it more sexy or less sexy?

Thank G-d he takes after his mom

Raising my son and daughter by myself and getting them stable is why I have not been with a woman since 1984. I put their needs ahead of mine and they are great kids/adults.

Now it is finally time for my needs.

Alas, yet again, another decent and wonderful not interested in me. : (

I wouldn't say that, I'm just not in a financial condition to "have" anyone right now. Besides, you said you dated 30s and 40s only.


My financials will sux this next year and a half until I finish my kidney surgery.

I came around on that one. NO 30s. I am only dating my age and up. And it's okay, I plan on being an emotional wreck for the next year and half so just about the time you are financially sound, I should be mentally sound. LOL

Hopefully he has got my brains though!

I will meet you then!

Yep for sure, Part of the reason that I love my man is because he is a devoted dad. He is raising his son by himself and I love him for it..