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Women hit on me all the time when I am out with the kids, at the
playground and the pool. Especially at the pool for some reason. It doesn't embarrass me though.  I think it helps that the kids are cute and Mom is not around. |
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I am a new dad. I was feeding my son out in public the other day and noticed a fair few women looking over and smiling. I imagined they found it cute rather than sexy though. Wrong. Not cute. Definitely sexy. It's the biology at work. Biologically, men are providers. If they show they can provide and care for their young, then females will be attracted to them to create more babies! It's the way of the world. 
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I do not have children. My ex of 20 years did not want them. When we divorced, I almost immediately had to have an emergency hysterectomy. I cried and cried in the ER when I had to be taken in to be checked for internal bleeding. If a child walked in, I just lost it crying. I think it is THE sexiest thing when men are really really really devoted to their children. When they just beam with pride and joy, does anyone else feel that way? |
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I dunno. My ex, Bri, would talk about his love of his children and beam and beam and it was VERY attractive.
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I dunno. My ex, Bri, would talk about his love of his children and beam and beam and it was VERY attractive. Yeah, I agree. Very sexy. |
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I dunno. My ex, Bri, would talk about his love of his children and beam and beam and it was VERY attractive. Yeah, that is very cool. |
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I am a new dad. I was feeding my son out in public the other day and noticed a fair few women looking over and smiling. I imagined they found it cute rather than sexy though. Women tend to smile more when a man is holding a baby... It's as much appreciating the difference from what has become the disgusting norm of abandonment in this community. Girls get dolls, guys get military toys or are thought of as gay. Parenting is a couple's job. Why not give both sexes dolls? Having wanted to be a parent for a quarter century I'm generally more active with our baby in public and that tends to be a conversation starter for both Sarah and I. I  our family.
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had my x ask why i wont take my son and she gets my daughter. duh time to brag on myself, ive been sending money for her since may ,11 while mom lives with her mom and cleans homes to make just enough to get by. Ive heard how a good dad would send more money than i do {75 per week) which is not court ordered or required. My son is with me 24/7 while there mom has my daughter. its what you do to make sure your childern; living with you or not, are taken care of. they didnt ask to be here and if you as a parent dont put them first; man or woman, dont deserve thier love or respect. anyone who finds a reason or excuse you shouldnt take care of your kids: with money or your time, i think you are a self centered piece of garbage. If they are better off with someone else because you hsve problems, fix your problems and give them what they deserve: A great parent who wants them to be better that they are. Put all the excuses, problems with your x, and sob stories second and put them first. dont grade yourself on im better than lots of deadbeat parents because im doing more than they do; be the parent you would want to raise you even if they may not live in your home. Just 1 mans opinion. No child is better off without both parents in thier lives. If youre such a jerk your kids are better off without you: change yourself and make thier lives better with a great dad/mom
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Does the sick on my shoulder make it more sexy or less sexy?
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Thank G-d he takes after his mom
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Raising my son and daughter by myself and getting them stable is why I have not been with a woman since 1984. I put their needs ahead of mine and they are great kids/adults.
Now it is finally time for my needs. |
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Raising my son and daughter by myself and getting them stable is why I have not been with a woman since 1984. I put their needs ahead of mine and they are great kids/adults. Now it is finally time for my needs. Alas, yet again, another decent and wonderful not interested in me. : ( |
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Edited by
oldhippie1952
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Mon 02/13/12 07:47 PM
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Raising my son and daughter by myself and getting them stable is why I have not been with a woman since 1984. I put their needs ahead of mine and they are great kids/adults. Now it is finally time for my needs. Alas, yet again, another decent and wonderful not interested in me. : ( I wouldn't say that, I'm just not in a financial condition to "have" anyone right now. Besides, you said you dated 30s and 40s only.  My financials will sux this next year and a half until I finish my kidney surgery. |
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Raising my son and daughter by myself and getting them stable is why I have not been with a woman since 1984. I put their needs ahead of mine and they are great kids/adults. Now it is finally time for my needs. Alas, yet again, another decent and wonderful not interested in me. : ( I wouldn't say that, I'm just not in a financial condition to "have" anyone right now. Besides, you said you dated 30s and 40s only. My financials will sux this next year and a half until I finish my kidney surgery. I came around on that one. NO 30s. I am only dating my age and up. And it's okay, I plan on being an emotional wreck for the next year and half so just about the time you are financially sound, I should be mentally sound. LOL |
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Thank G-d he takes after his mom Hopefully he has got my brains though! |
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Not sure about sexy...I find myself running, not walking away from deadbeat dads so it certainly is an attractive attribute. I guess I kinda expect all dads (and moms) to feel that way so it's nothing extraordinary, is what we're supposed to do. I quote because there is no thumbs up or like option. So like/Thumbs up lol  (thumbs up option)  lol I only like 2 smileys :) and the winky one ;), i don't know any others lol                                                  |
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Raising my son and daughter by myself and getting them stable is why I have not been with a woman since 1984. I put their needs ahead of mine and they are great kids/adults. Now it is finally time for my needs. Alas, yet again, another decent and wonderful not interested in me. : ( I wouldn't say that, I'm just not in a financial condition to "have" anyone right now. Besides, you said you dated 30s and 40s only. My financials will sux this next year and a half until I finish my kidney surgery. I came around on that one. NO 30s. I am only dating my age and up. And it's okay, I plan on being an emotional wreck for the next year and half so just about the time you are financially sound, I should be mentally sound. LOL I will meet you then! |
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Yep for sure, Part of the reason that I love my man is because he is a devoted dad. He is raising his son by himself and I love him for it..
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