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Topic: If you're interested in someone...
Leigh2154 Joined Sun 10/02/11 Posts: 16479	Tue 01/31/12 12:25 PM
do you do anything about it? It can be here or in real life. How many of you would actually ask someone out that you are interested in? Or even at least let the person know you're interested? Or, do you wait around and hope they figure it out and do something about it? Me...I would...absolutely...you know how dense men can be Sacrilege! Truth!!

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Tue 01/31/12 12:32 PM
I respond to interest if I'm interested in a person. I rarely make the first move though. I don't know why..it's just who I am. lol I will be flirty if I like someone, but it's more super friendly than flirty, so its not extremely obvious that I'm into them, I guess. lol I get that some people don't make the first move, but I don't get the "I don't know why" part. If you don't know why, who does?! And if you won't make the first move, why not make it obvious you're into them, rather than them having to figure it out? Well, lots of people don't understand themselves completely. Some not at all. I don't find that surprising. Personally, I definitely let them know if I'm interested, but I no longer will make the first date. I've had too many experiences where the man just goes along with it even though he's not really interested in me. At this point in my life, if he's not interested enough to make some effort, it's not going to happen. Practically everyone is younger and prettier than me, so I need some indication that he actually does find me worth his while. Yep, I see we have shared the same experiences about letting a guy know when we are interesested. I always hated the mind games. I fully understand where you are coming from with girls being younger and prettier. Thats why I don't even bother to put myself out there anymore.

trivium2884 Joined Mon 01/30/12 Posts: 55	Tue 01/31/12 12:38 PM
Maybe not all guys but some of us like a woman who knows what she wats and will aim to get it.Young tends to come with imaturity and games.

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Tue 01/31/12 12:45 PM
Maybe not all guys but some of us like a woman who knows what she wats and will aim to get it.Young tends to come with imaturity and games. What you say makes sense; but I seem to meet the insecure guys that feel intimidated by a woman that knows what she wants.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Tue 01/31/12 12:46 PM
Maybe not all guys but some of us like a woman who knows what she wats and will aim to get it.Young tends to come with imaturity and games. Many older people can also be immature and play games. I don't think it's an age related thing. But, good to know that someone does like when a woman knows what she wants, instead of waits around hoping for something to happen.

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Tue 01/31/12 12:48 PM
Maybe not all guys but some of us like a woman who knows what she wats and will aim to get it.Young tends to come with imaturity and games. True. Though being young doesn't mess with the chance for anyone at any age to play games.

trivium2884 Joined Mon 01/30/12 Posts: 55	Tue 01/31/12 12:50 PM
You cant tell me you haven't gained maturity as you have grown up?

trivium2884 Joined Mon 01/30/12 Posts: 55	Tue 01/31/12 12:51 PM
i totally agree young or old if they play games im not interested

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Tue 01/31/12 12:52 PM
You cant tell me you haven't gained maturity as you have grown up? Some do. Some obviously do not.

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Tue 01/31/12 12:53 PM
Totally. I believe Im one of them too. But I was mostly referring to people who play games well into the golden years.

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Tue 01/31/12 12:54 PM
You cant tell me you haven't gained maturity as you have grown up? Well gaining maturity and using it are two different things.

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Tue 01/31/12 12:55 PM
i totally agree young or old if they play games im not interested I avoid those people like herpes.

trivium2884 Joined Mon 01/30/12 Posts: 55	Tue 01/31/12 12:56 PM
Hehe true i like that

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Tue 01/31/12 02:19 PM
Man I miss the days of yor. I mean, back in dem dare days, all a guy had to do was write a simple note...just a note, and then fold it into the shape of an airplane, throw it at the girl he liked, she would then take said plane, break it down to a full sheet of paper, and then see.... "DO YOU LIKE ME? Check YES or NO" It was so simple. Too many blonde men come to mind...Would ya still go for it in todays world? Oh yeah they call it texting. You send a text to him/her and they: Text back=yes No text=baaaaack to the drawing board Actually, doing it the old way took creativity. With texting, there is no creativity. Texting is comparable to the way the Cavemen did it. They would take their club, whack a girl on the head with it, and then go "UGH! Me likey you. If you likey me, hit my nuts once. If no, hit nuts twice. UGH!". Or so the History channel says this is how it happened.

Torgo70 Joined Fri 06/27/08 Posts: 27387	Tue 01/31/12 02:24 PM
Man I miss the days of yor. I mean, back in dem dare days, all a guy had to do was write a simple note...just a note, and then fold it into the shape of an airplane, throw it at the girl he liked, she would then take said plane, break it down to a full sheet of paper, and then see.... "DO YOU LIKE ME? Check YES or NO" It was so simple. Too many blonde men come to mind...Would ya still go for it in todays world? Oh yeah they call it texting. You send a text to him/her and they: Text back=yes No text=baaaaack to the drawing board Actually, doing it the old way took creativity. With texting, there is no creativity. Texting is comparable to the way the Cavemen did it. They would take their club, whack a girl on the head with it, and then go "UGH! Me likey you. If you likey me, hit my nuts once. If no, hit nuts twice. UGH!". Or so the History channel says this is how it happened. It worked for Ringo Starr-

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Tue 01/31/12 02:28 PM
Man I miss the days of yor. I mean, back in dem dare days, all a guy had to do was write a simple note...just a note, and then fold it into the shape of an airplane, throw it at the girl he liked, she would then take said plane, break it down to a full sheet of paper, and then see.... "DO YOU LIKE ME? Check YES or NO" It was so simple. Too many blonde men come to mind...Would ya still go for it in todays world? Oh yeah they call it texting. You send a text to him/her and they: Text back=yes No text=baaaaack to the drawing board Actually, doing it the old way took creativity. With texting, there is no creativity. Texting is comparable to the way the Cavemen did it. They would take their club, whack a girl on the head with it, and then go "UGH! Me likey you. If you likey me, hit my nuts once. If no, hit nuts twice. UGH!". Or so the History channel says this is how it happened. It worked for Ringo Starr- That's cause he's Ringo Starr...all he had to do was whack her head and serenade, "I wanna hold your hand". Her rag cloth would just drop.

krupa Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 18651	Tue 01/31/12 05:43 PM
do you do anything about it? It can be here or in real life. How many of you would actually ask someone out that you are interested in? Or even at least let the person know you're interested? Or, do you wait around and hope they figure it out and do something about it? Me...I would...absolutely...you know how dense men can be Truer words have never been spoken. But, once my woman let me now that she had horrible taste in men and was willing to besmirch herself with my stuff.....I was all over it! :)

Ghostrider2u Joined Thu 05/17/07 Posts: 6953	Tue 01/31/12 05:52 PM
If I am interested in someone....I let her know. Rejection is not an issue. It is a part of.....Life.... If it happens....it happens. Ya Never know.....till ya try!!!!!

TBRich Joined Fri 11/07/08 Posts: 8232	Tue 01/31/12 06:41 PM
do you do anything about it? It can be here or in real life. How many of you would actually ask someone out that you are interested in? Or even at least let the person know you're interested? Or, do you wait around and hope they figure it out and do something about it? Not to be mean or anything, but that is just stupid. Love is a verb, that means doing something. Well I guess standing around and doing nothing is something. Ask him out, even if it is a no-go, is the world really gonna end?

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Tue 01/31/12 06:45 PM
do you do anything about it? It can be here or in real life. How many of you would actually ask someone out that you are interested in? Or even at least let the person know you're interested? Or, do you wait around and hope they figure it out and do something about it? Not to be mean or anything, but that is just stupid. Love is a verb, that means doing something. Well I guess standing around and doing nothing is something. Ask him out, even if it is a no-go, is the world really gonna end? What is stupid? Asking what people do?