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Topic: does marriage makes a man responsible?
whobedat Joined Sat 01/07/12 Posts: 141	Mon 01/30/12 04:30 PM
does marriage makes a man responsible and matured?

machug Joined Sun 09/04/11 Posts: 6601	Mon 01/30/12 04:31 PM
OMG!!! Uhhhhh, NO!!!!

whobedat Joined Sat 01/07/12 Posts: 141	Mon 01/30/12 04:34 PM
OMG!!! Uhhhhh, NO!!!! NO just like that?

Godiva Joined Tue 12/09/08 Posts: 5330	Mon 01/30/12 04:43 PM
Once upon a time it did maybe. Not anymore.

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Mon 01/30/12 04:49 PM
there is no yes or no it may sometimes, but often it doesnt if you just observe all the broken homes, affairs, and domestic abuse in America,,,,

whobedat Joined Sat 01/07/12 Posts: 141	Mon 01/30/12 04:52 PM
there is no yes or no it may sometimes, but often it doesnt if you just observe all the broken homes, affairs, and domestic abuse in America,,,, does that mean men are the cause??

LookinRound Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 7894	Mon 01/30/12 04:56 PM
WHERE is that popcorn eating emoticon?? Sitting back...waiting...

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Mon 01/30/12 05:01 PM
there is no yes or no it may sometimes, but often it doesnt if you just observe all the broken homes, affairs, and domestic abuse in America,,,, does that mean men are the cause?? no, it means that marriage often doesnt make the men who HAVE caused those situations grow up,,,, it doesnt mean that men always cause those situation,,,

Leigh2154 Joined Sun 10/02/11 Posts: 16479	Mon 01/30/12 05:02 PM
there is no yes or no it may sometimes, but often it doesnt if you just observe all the broken homes, affairs, and domestic abuse in America,,,, does that mean men are the cause?? No, it takes two to tango.....thank you, thank you very much...

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Mon 01/30/12 05:04 PM
there is no yes or no it may sometimes, but often it doesnt if you just observe all the broken homes, affairs, and domestic abuse in America,,,, does that mean men are the cause?? No, it takes two to tango.....thank you, thank you very much... yeah, it does take two to tango, but only one to beat another one down,,,lol,,, or go outside a marriage or leave their family,,,,,, you get my drift

whobedat Joined Sat 01/07/12 Posts: 141	Mon 01/30/12 05:08 PM
there is no yes or no it may sometimes, but often it doesnt if you just observe all the broken homes, affairs, and domestic abuse in America,,,, does that mean men are the cause?? no, it means that marriage often doesnt make the men who HAVE caused those situations grow up,,,, it doesnt mean that men always cause those situation,,, thanks for the elucidiation...

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Mon 01/30/12 05:09 PM
there is no yes or no it may sometimes, but often it doesnt if you just observe all the broken homes, affairs, and domestic abuse in America,,,, does that mean men are the cause?? no, it means that marriage often doesnt make the men who HAVE caused those situations grow up,,,, it doesnt mean that men always cause those situation,,, thanks for the elucidiation... you are welcome, it often doesnt make women grow up either,,,,

paul1217 Joined Fri 01/29/10 Posts: 904	Mon 01/30/12 05:12 PM
there is no yes or no it may sometimes, but often it doesnt if you just observe all the broken homes, affairs, and domestic abuse in America,,,, does that mean men are the cause?? No, it takes two to tango.....thank you, thank you very much... yeah, it does take two to tango, but only one to beat another one down,,,lol,,, or go outside a marriage or leave their family,,,,,, you get my drift Perhaps I come from a unique part of the world, but I have definitely seen more females in my area going outside of the marriage than men. Just my personal observation.

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Mon 01/30/12 05:15 PM
there is no yes or no it may sometimes, but often it doesnt if you just observe all the broken homes, affairs, and domestic abuse in America,,,, does that mean men are the cause?? No, it takes two to tango.....thank you, thank you very much... yeah, it does take two to tango, but only one to beat another one down,,,lol,,, or go outside a marriage or leave their family,,,,,, you get my drift Perhaps I come from a unique part of the world, but I have definitely seen more females in my area going outside of the marriage than men. Just my personal observation. well, different places have different situations but I Tend to believe that generally men are more likely to step outside a marriage than women,, particularly where children are involved,,,

Teditis Joined Sun 03/07/10 Posts: 3597	Mon 01/30/12 05:19 PM
does marriage makes a man responsible and matured? Huh?

Leigh2154 Joined Sun 10/02/11 Posts: 16479	Mon 01/30/12 05:20 PM
there is no yes or no it may sometimes, but often it doesnt if you just observe all the broken homes, affairs, and domestic abuse in America,,,, does that mean men are the cause?? no, it means that marriage often doesnt make the men who HAVE caused those situations grow up,,,, it doesnt mean that men always cause those situation,,, thanks for the elucidiation... you are welcome, it often doesnt make women grow up either,,,, If there are children involved, more women than men step up to the plate....this is a fact...So although marriage is not a specific to maturity, it does compel some, who otherwise might not, to grow up and it does compel more women than men to grow up.....

machug Joined Sun 09/04/11 Posts: 6601	Mon 01/30/12 05:23 PM
OMG!!! Uhhhhh, NO!!!! NO just like that? Let me explain. Now this is not ALL men and can petain to women also. But I will say a man, because! Some men think marriage is all about being taken care of and all the sex they want and the only thing they need to do is go to work. Then when children come along...whoooo too much responsibility. They go outside the marriage for fun because the wife is very tired...you know stuff like working, taking care of the house, the kids, all the other things. He doesn't want to help or all that responsibility so...goodbye. Sorry to sound so emphatic but I know.

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Mon 01/30/12 05:23 PM Edited by msharmony on Mon 01/30/12 05:24 PM
there is no yes or no it may sometimes, but often it doesnt if you just observe all the broken homes, affairs, and domestic abuse in America,,,, does that mean men are the cause?? no, it means that marriage often doesnt make the men who HAVE caused those situations grow up,,,, it doesnt mean that men always cause those situation,,, thanks for the elucidiation... you are welcome, it often doesnt make women grow up either,,,, If there are children involved, more women than men step up to the plate....this is a fact...So although marriage is not a specific to maturity, it does compel some, who otherwise might not, to grow up and it does compel more women than men to grow up..... I agree, I think it is because there is more of a cultural promotion of women to be 'mothers' to children than there is of men to be 'fathers',,, as opposed to being merely 'providers' and so women are probably a bit more likely to feel an obligation to work on keeping their childrens family together than men are,,, this is no absolute,, just a general comparison,,,and why I think it happens that way

whobedat Joined Sat 01/07/12 Posts: 141	Mon 01/30/12 05:28 PM
there is no yes or no it may sometimes, but often it doesnt if you just observe all the broken homes, affairs, and domestic abuse in America,,,, does that mean men are the cause?? No, it takes two to tango.....thank you, thank you very much... yeah, it does take two to tango, but only one to beat another one down,,,lol,,, or go outside a marriage or leave their family,,,,,, you get my drift Perhaps I come from a unique part of the world, but I have definitely seen more females in my area going outside of the marriage than men. Just my personal observation. well, different places have different situations but I Tend to believe that generally men are more likely to step outside a marriage than women,, particularly where children are involved,,, may be the women may have forced them who knows,, just my opinion.

Leigh2154 Joined Sun 10/02/11 Posts: 16479	Mon 01/30/12 05:35 PM
there is no yes or no it may sometimes, but often it doesnt if you just observe all the broken homes, affairs, and domestic abuse in America,,,, does that mean men are the cause?? no, it means that marriage often doesnt make the men who HAVE caused those situations grow up,,,, it doesnt mean that men always cause those situation,,, thanks for the elucidiation... you are welcome, it often doesnt make women grow up either,,,, If there are children involved, more women than men step up to the plate....this is a fact...So although marriage is not a specific to maturity, it does compel some, who otherwise might not, to grow up and it does compel more women than men to grow up..... I agree, I think it is because there is more of a cultural promotion of women to be 'mothers' to children than there is of men to be 'fathers',,, as opposed to being merely 'providers' and so women are probably a bit more likely to feel an obligation to work on keeping their childrens family together than men are,,, this is no absolute,, just a general comparison,,,and why I think it happens that way Yes, very true Harmony, but also I believe there is a deeper bond, a more natural instinct to nurture and protect children due to the fact that it is the woman who bears the child...This is not to say men are not strong nurturers, I just think it is more pronounced in women....Harder to sidestep or abandon...If that makes sense...cause it does to me...