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Topic: Are any of these statements true?
Sin_and_Sorrow Joined Sun 01/01/12 Posts: 5757	Mon 01/23/12 05:23 PM
I seem to have made myself completely misunderstood here. I understood you. Thus, why I didn't argue with you. You just made one statement and generalized all men into it. That's where I did come in. :) and a for you. :)

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Mon 01/23/12 08:39 PM
I believe that there are plenty of men who would be faithful to their wives, even if they could get away with it. Women who are worried about what their husband might do, should instead focus on what they can control: How much sex he has with her . If she is keeping him busy, his eye will be much less likely to wander. It's funny you say that...I was reading another article about a man wanting to draw up a sex contract with his intended because his other relationships had ended due the woman not wanting to have sex anymore. The contract stated that his wife would have sex with him at least twice a week. It's unfortunate that some wives don't care for their husband's needs. It's unfortunate that some people don't see to their partner's needs..it can go both ways! in truth it can be a lack of ability or willingness to please that drives a woman to lose interest ...really true that a woman - even one who loves you deeply will lose interest in sex if you DO NOT RECIPROCATE and please her been there - I did date a guy like that and even tried to talk to him about it - but eh - I lost interest after a time and not so much because he did not know how to please (he didn't) but he showed no caring to learn it was def all about him yup that;s the quick path to the quiet bedroom

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Mon 01/23/12 08:49 PM Edited by singmesweet on Mon 01/23/12 08:52 PM
I think the old feelings that women don't need sex and or enjoy it as much as men tends to come through while these men are having sex. If she is only doing her wifely duties then he really hasn't much reason to put much energy or creativity into it. If he's a selfish lousy lay because he doesn't believe she needs it like him....she will move on. I'll bet a dollar the men who really believe sex is not as wanted or as needed by women as much as him.....goes through a lot of relationships. The guys who are lazy or selfish during sex aren't going to be able to keep women around. If the sex is good for both people, a contract won't have to be written up so the man gets sex at least twice a week. That is just not true. Can't say I know anyone who have had contracts written up to guarantee sex. The best way to do that is for both people to be into it and make each other happy. Not to expect a woman to have sex just because it's her "duty" to keep a man happy.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Mon 01/23/12 08:56 PM Edited by singmesweet on Mon 01/23/12 08:56 PM
I believe that there are plenty of men who would be faithful to their wives, even if they could get away with it. Women who are worried about what their husband might do, should instead focus on what they can control: How much sex he has with her . If she is keeping him busy, his eye will be much less likely to wander. It's funny you say that...I was reading another article about a man wanting to draw up a sex contract with his intended because his other relationships had ended due the woman not wanting to have sex anymore. The contract stated that his wife would have sex with him at least twice a week. It's unfortunate that some wives don't care for their husband's needs. It's unfortunate that some people don't see to their partner's needs..it can go both ways! in truth it can be a lack of ability or willingness to please that drives a woman to lose interest ...really true that a woman - even one who loves you deeply will lose interest in sex if you DO NOT RECIPROCATE and please her been there - I did date a guy like that and even tried to talk to him about it - but eh - I lost interest after a time and not so much because he did not know how to please (he didn't) but he showed no caring to learn it was def all about him yup that;s the quick path to the quiet bedroom We agree! Yes, if a man is all about himself in bed and doesn't make sure I am happy too, I will lose interest.

Mended1 Joined Thu 02/12/09 Posts: 270	Thu 01/26/12 07:15 AM
sadly i feel most men and even women want or do this.. But not all.. Still got a lot who wont..

irisheyes79 Joined Sat 11/10/07 Posts: 16745	Thu 01/26/12 07:17 AM
i just want a girl that can phuck good

Mended1 Joined Thu 02/12/09 Posts: 270	Thu 01/26/12 10:12 AM
lol.. You very naughty.

irisheyes79 Joined Sat 11/10/07 Posts: 16745	Thu 01/26/12 10:14 AM


42BlackBBW Joined Mon 09/12/11 Posts: 3243	Thu 01/26/12 12:46 PM
i just want a girl that can phuck good Typical man...wanting the woman to do all the work!

andrewzooms Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 2842	Thu 01/26/12 02:02 PM
i just want a girl that can phuck good Maybe he meant pluck lol.

42BlackBBW Joined Mon 09/12/11 Posts: 3243	Thu 01/26/12 02:12 PM
i just want a girl that can phuck good Maybe he meant pluck lol.