so what do you as a women have to do ,to get someone to like them?i am on the heavy side and its not fair to be judged by my weight.ALSO I AM TIRED OF PEOPLE VIEWING ME WITH OUT LEAVING A MESSAGE!IF YOU VIEWED ME APPARENTLY YOU WAS INTERESTED EVEN IF YOU WANT TO TELL ME DROP DEAD YOU TO UGLY! PLEASE ANSWER THAT ONE FOR ME!ANGELINA

I don't what your talking about your cute ^_^

im also on the heavy side as where most men dont think that beauty is the eye of the beholder and they tend to judge instead of looking at the spiritual person from within. thats there own freaken loss..

Did the dog go to jail?

i am not sure about that one probbally since they hate pitts!!!!!!!!!!!!them jerks!!!!! i own two and they are cool!

That dog is hilarious!

And I agree, its not fair.

i love it i got it off of my space i think!or someone on here had it i still keep laughing about what u asked!!!!!!!1lol lol lol!damn thats funny!

cool pic, tho--

Chaulk it up to their loss if they can't get to know you for the beauty in your soul.

Love the pic....especially the dog, too darn funny

I know what you mean, I am alittle overweight too, I had one guy that we even talked on the phone & he was all set to hang out, said I was the only person he felt he could talk too...then we met--never heard from him again!! so what does that say. I am a good person, my heart is as big as me, so why am i still alone after 9 years, are my expectations too high, or am i not worth it.

i feel ya because we aint what they are looking for we aint good enough so they can kiss my big toe!especially were the sun dont shine!also dont lower your standards if you want a man that dont smoke and drink you should ask for that and not accept less!!i am tired of accepting less!they dont want a fat chick so they say no well i dont want no drinkers or smokers!my perogative!!!!

I hear ya diesel. I don't want a chimney in my house messin up the air I am breathing. heavy people are the best huggers and no bones about it!

I hear ya too.....I'm over wieght too, and have many of the same problems. I get sick of guys looking at me profile over and over again, but never write. I mean come on! Is the pick the only thing they see and they just click cuz they don't remenber the id name? Or just plain forget they have already looked at your profile altogether? What gives? I refuse to settle too! I've jumped out of too many frying pans. The soles of my feet are turnng to ash, lol.......Hey just recently here a guy I really liked was chatting with me on yahoo. Every night. We did see eachother on cam and even talked on the phone once, I think he was shy on the phone.....anywhatsit, screw them. I ain't tryin to hide anything. I recently lost 60 lbs, and I'm still happy with myself. I'm by no means thin and if a guy is that intersted in looks, then I don't want nothin to do with him. There are plenty of guys out there that like heavy ladies. have talked to a few of them. And just because it didn't pan out, ( it was me that ditched them, but at least I had the manners to tell them why)......so keep on keepin on, and keep you head high and your eyes open.

Smiles,

Karen

Sorry for the unfinished answers: Ummmmm

Hey just recently here a guy I really liked was chatting with me on yahoo. Every night. We did see eachother on cam and even talked on the phone once, I think he was shy on the phone....and now nothing. He wrote one time after that saying he wanted to chat some more, called me sexy and everything. Pfftt! Meh, oh well!

There are plenty of guys out there that like heavy ladies. have talked to a few of them. And just because it didn't pan out, ( it was me that ditched them, but at least I had the manners to tell them why)......means get back up so keep on keeping on, and keep your head high and you eyes open.

If you ladies write to everyperson's profile you look at; your among the few. I look at lots of profiles & don't write. Reason doesn't matter, most of the time when I do write, noreply. Their loss. Just a thought.

man, if i messaged every single person i looked at...i'd never have time to sleep.

sometimes, my four-year-old tells me which she wants to look at...and we just run through pics for several minutes.

welcome and i dont think its because i am heavy mn dont like me,i think it's cause i'm a biatch.

Well biatch all you want, it is your right.

You are missing my point. I said they look over and over again. I don't ezspect and email from everyone that looks at my profile, but if you are going to look at 5 or 10 times, just write or go the f**k away.........

Yeah! What lildevil said!