Topic: absurdities
whobedat's photo
Sat 01/14/12 07:21 AM
why is it that good girls date bad guys?

whobedat's photo
Sat 01/14/12 07:29 AM
i have been observing with dismay, why bad guys have good times with good girls, is it ttheir swag. Or ignoraance on the part of the ladies, or does it means they love lies and deceit? After they would be complaining he has broken my heart???? Or is it a crime to be transparent and take u for granted?

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Sat 01/14/12 07:40 AM
Edited by Jeanniebean on Sat 01/14/12 07:44 AM
Good and bad are in the eyes of the beholder. But this question has been asked here many times before. It also has been answered.

Women are attracted to men who are or appear to be confident. Confident means brave. Often brazen men are mistaken for being confident.

Men need to realize this and not be so afraid of women. Yet they still complain because it appears to them, that women like "bad" men and they consider themselves to be "nice guys."

If you are confident, and also a nice guy, you will attract the women.


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Sat 01/14/12 07:42 AM
Because most of the guys that refer themselves as so called "Good Guys" end up to be mommy's boys and wimp's....

Myself I want a man that acts like a man but has a heart and knows how to show it....bigsmile

RKISIT's photo
Sat 01/14/12 07:45 AM
To the OP...it's a myth dude.A generalization of falsified rewritten information that was once a rumor that has became a false untruthful fact.

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Sat 01/14/12 07:51 AM

To the OP...it's a myth dude.A generalization of falsified rewritten information that was once a rumor that has became a false untruthful fact.



It could also be that some men who think they are nice guys, are really not. laugh laugh

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Sat 01/14/12 07:52 AM
<--------HOW ABOUT A NICE SMILE. bigsmile You look a little angry here.

msharmony's photo
Sat 01/14/12 09:11 AM

Because most of the guys that refer themselves as so called "Good Guys" end up to be mommy's boys and wimp's....

Myself I want a man that acts like a man but has a heart and knows how to show it....bigsmile



THERE YOU GO GIRLdrinker drinker drinker


self defined 'good' guys are often the mommys boys and wimps

there are also good guys who can stand on their own and handle adversity or , like my co mingler stated above

ACTS like a man but has a heart and knows how to show it,,,

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Sat 01/14/12 09:18 AM
Dude!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

There is Good in everyone!!!!

Ok...some go Really bad........

But an average person has both good and bad qualities.

Find a woman with a balance...

and she will appreciate the balance in you as well.

No one is truly good.....or bad.



Well, Except me.........

I am Bad.....

But I'm Good at it!!!!
smokin devil smokin

MariahsFantasy's photo
Sat 01/14/12 09:49 AM
Edited by MariahsFantasy on Sat 01/14/12 09:50 AM

why is it that good girls date bad guys?


the thrill of getting used and hurt, its a turn on to them. certain girls don't wanna be with a saint. they're boring. i haven't understood women going there either. thank god i got out of it.

MariahsFantasy's photo
Sat 01/14/12 09:50 AM

Because most of the guys that refer themselves as so called "Good Guys" end up to be mommy's boys and wimp's....

Myself I want a man that acts like a man but has a heart and knows how to show it....bigsmile


:thumbsup: Definitely.

navygirl's photo
Sun 01/15/12 02:31 PM

why is it that good girls date bad guys?


Why is it that men make these generalizations? grumble