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So in this answer of you're here,,Your saying that you don't think, ANY TWO PEOPLE,,,could SHARE some inner nucleus of RAW ATOMS never to be internally heated, when they came within ten feet of that other who also felt that hidden unknown energy released?,,,lol Well, I think it's possible for two people to just happen to come into contact with each other and feel some sort of inexplicable instantaneous attraction. I've had that happen. I don't see it as destiny or fate or "meant to be." All of those would require some kind of external controller. I think it's just "right place right time" -- with no steering involved. Sometimes it's just a bunch of stuff that happens a particular way. sounds like my son;s go kart not a smooth ride, lex.... 
Life is not a smooth ride.... life is a go kart with loose steering and a wheel that pops off and rolls around the yard? (at a pretty good velocity) For some. Others never get in the go kart in the first place. my guys built the go kart - outta whatever scrap crap they could find I gotta love 'em 
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I believe in soulmates, but I don't believe there is just "one" on this planet for everyone. A soulmate is someone you connect with on a very deep level and it usually happens very quickly. You just "know" each other. But, you will meet more than one of these people in your life and they don't always result in a romantic relationship. All true :-)
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So let me ask.. Do you feel that everyone has, someone just for them to find? Do you feel that many people, will never WANT another to find? Do you feel that YOU will find someone on here? Do you feel that You will NEVER find your other? Do you feel that MANY can live alone the rest of their life and be happy w/o another in their life? So tell me,,,Whats your answers here??  
Yeah, what the hell are we here for then, ourselves? lol I'd like to believe this is true. Well, its all in how YOU want it. What they want could be anything tied into how they are feeling. Usually by their actions its pretty clear in what they want. I hope not all feel this way. Everybody deserves someone. Yeah lol I always say it keeps getting better when you want it too. Wither I find someone on here or in life, that doesn't matter. Finding it is the reward. Having them find you can be magic. There's that possibility too. But I prefer to be a little more optimistic. I think they can, anything is possible but I think it'd be hard and terrible lonely. I always wonder what makes people think just because you are single; that you are lonely. Are we really to believe one has to have a relationship in order not to be lonely? I am not in a relationship and I don't feel lonely one bit. This baffles me personally. |
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Edited by
MariahsFantasy
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Wed 01/11/12 10:31 AM
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So let me ask.. Do you feel that everyone has, someone just for them to find? Do you feel that many people, will never WANT another to find? Do you feel that YOU will find someone on here? Do you feel that You will NEVER find your other? Do you feel that MANY can live alone the rest of their life and be happy w/o another in their life? So tell me,,,Whats your answers here??
Yeah, what the hell are we here for then, ourselves? lol I'd like to believe this is true. Well, its all in how YOU want it. What they want could be anything tied into how they are feeling. Usually by their actions its pretty clear in what they want. I hope not all feel this way. Everybody deserves someone. Yeah lol I always say it keeps getting better when you want it too. Wither I find someone on here or in life, that doesn't matter. Finding it is the reward. Having them find you can be magic. There's that possibility too. But I prefer to be a little more optimistic. I think they can, anything is possible but I think it'd be hard and terrible lonely. I always wonder what makes people think just because you are single; that you are lonely. Are we really to believe one has to have a relationship in order not to be lonely? I am not in a relationship and I don't feel lonely one bit. This baffles me personally. Maybe not but for me, long periods of it will make me change my mind. Sometimes I'll feel lonely around a crowd of people. I wouldn't know how to handle that. Living alone, I could, I'd love it actually. But later in my life, I'd like to come outta my shell more. Surround myself with positive light and great friends. For myself not for popularity. |
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I always wonder what makes people think just because you are single; that you are lonely. The loneliest times of my life were when I was in a relationship.... |
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Edited by
Bravalady
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Wed 01/11/12 10:57 AM
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Bravalady. It depends on what you mean by happy. Many women, especially, are put in this position when they outlive their husbands, or just get to old age without a partner and then find themselves up against the gender disparity. I think most of us can and do have satisfying and fulfilling lives even so. But if you can have a heart-to-heart with these people (we older single women) I think you'd find that the vast majority of them do feel a great hole. You fill it up as best you can with the other people and activities in your life, and you try to ignore the rest of it. I'm a bundle of laughs about this, I know I have talked to many ladies forty five and up,,who have told me they love being single and free to just be.. I have wondered if maybe they might have just been saying THAT,,as to presume from our eyes,,that they were good in life on their own. as that was told to me here,,in posts many times.. I think,,I will and would,,ALWAYS feel that void you mentioned as well...And as I have spent MORE of my life with a mate,,MAYBE THATS WHY? And maybe those who never experienced a long term togetherness with one person,,maybe they can't feel,,a real MISS? So you're saying people like me who have never had a long-term relationship (talking more than a couple years, here) just don't know what they're missing? No, I don't agree. Some people feel the need for partnership more than others. Some have a strong desire for partnership but can't figure out how to make it work. The women you're talking about, I believe them. They've had long lives with a partner and now they're getting a chance to experience a different kind of life. Also don't forget that for some of them, it may be that you spoke to them at one period when they felt it was a good thing, but then at another time they'd prefer partnership again. People are complicated. But please don't assume how people feel based on how long they've been partnered. It's quality not quantity that counts. The greatest love of my life I was with for less than a year. Over 25 years later, I still am not sure if anybody could equal him. And no, that doesn't mean I'm still pining for him in a way that would interfere with forming a new relationship. It doesn't even mean that we should have gotten married. Too many variables. You have to take things are they are and just keep doing your best. Are you a Buddhist? |
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So let me ask.. Do you feel that everyone has, someone just for them to find? Do you feel that many people, will never WANT another to find? Do you feel that YOU will find someone on here? Do you feel that You will NEVER find your other? Do you feel that MANY can live alone the rest of their life and be happy w/o another in their life? So tell me,,,Whats your answers here??
Yeah, what the hell are we here for then, ourselves? lol I'd like to believe this is true. Well, its all in how YOU want it. What they want could be anything tied into how they are feeling. Usually by their actions its pretty clear in what they want. I hope not all feel this way. Everybody deserves someone. Yeah lol I always say it keeps getting better when you want it too. Wither I find someone on here or in life, that doesn't matter. Finding it is the reward. Having them find you can be magic. There's that possibility too. But I prefer to be a little more optimistic. I think they can, anything is possible but I think it'd be hard and terrible lonely. I always wonder what makes people think just because you are single; that you are lonely. Are we really to believe one has to have a relationship in order not to be lonely? I am not in a relationship and I don't feel lonely one bit. This baffles me personally. Maybe not but for me, long periods of it will make me change my mind. Sometimes I'll feel lonely around a crowd of people. I wouldn't know how to handle that. Living alone, I could, I'd love it actually. But later in my life, I'd like to come outta my shell more. Surround myself with positive light and great friends. For myself not for popularity. Well, that is where I am at. My friends and family are always around; sometimes a bit too much for my liking but I love them just the same. Me, I have never been lonely in a crowd as I am the type to walk up to a complete stranger and chat with them. Yeah, I never listened to my parents when they said don't talk to strangers. 
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I always wonder what makes people think just because you are single; that you are lonely. The loneliest times of my life were when I was in a relationship.... This is so true. I know many of my friends that feel very alone in a their relationship which I think is why most are comtemplating ending them. |
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Edited by
Godiva
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Wed 01/11/12 02:35 PM
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{quote]Do you feel that everyone has, someone just for them to find?{/quote]
Yes. I have mentioned this before. Do you feel that many people, will never WANT another to find?
Yes as well. Some people like being alone, and others have issues as well that make them feel this way. Do you feel that YOU will find someone on here?
I don't know. If I do, I do. It is nice to think so though. Do you feel that You will NEVER find your other?
When I am alone at night sometimes I dwell on it. But in the end, that does not make it so. Do you feel that MANY can live alone the rest of their life and be happy w/o another in their life?
Of course, people do it everyday. I am not one of them however. But I will not jump off any nearby bridges if I don't find someone either. I have to play the hand dealt to me. The loneliest times of my life were when I was in a relationship....
I can sympathize with this. As I have been in that kind of relationship. Being alone in that case would have been a blessing. |
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Do you feel that everyone has, someone just for them to find? The optimist in me says yes. The pessimist says no. 
Do you feel that many people, will never WANT another to find? Using myself as an example, I do. I also know that there will come a point in my life that I’ll stop actively dating. Do you feel that YOU will find someone on here? Again, the optimist in me says yes. The pessimist says no.
Do you feel that You will NEVER find your other? Yes. Sometimes. Do you feel that MANY can live alone the rest of their life and be happy w/o another in their life? I don’t think I need a significant other in order to be happy. Will I get lonely?...yes probably but you can be lonely with someone as well. |
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Thoughts?????? We are supposed to have .....Thoughts????
No Yes No No Yes 
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Thoughts?????? We are supposed to have .....Thoughts???? No Yes No No Yes
*claps*  Best answers, reminds me of Joe Pesci's Oscar speech
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no no no no no
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