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Lex,, This is something MANY PEOPLE have said,,that THEY ALSO EXPERIENCED? Well, I think it's possible for two people to just happen to come into contact with each other and feel some sort of inexplicable instantaneous attraction. I've had that happen. OK,,so,,being of common sense,,logic, and fact based principals. HOW CAN THIS BE? IF,,there is NO NUCLEUS CENTER BRAIN WHICH LOCKED THEM CODES TOGETHER TO FEEL THIS ACTION? I'll give you a few,,,,life-times,,to complete you answers,,,,LOL Kidding,,What do you think? I can't really explain the mechanism. If you look at it scientifically, there are all kinds of things that play into it -- pheromones, hormones, biological cycles, states of mind at the moment, etc. I think there's more to it than that; and, whatever it is, we don't have a word for it. We don't have a script. It happens -- because it happens. I'm not a big fan of tautologies, but I don't have a better explanation. Sometimes it clicks. Sometimes a tornado picks up a cow and moves it five miles down the road. It doesn't happen a lot, but it does happen. |
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So let me ask.. Do you feel that everyone has, someone just for them to find? Actually I think every one has several someone's that if they were actually looking or open to being found they could find a match. As much as we like to think we are so unique and must have this perfected human we can have A good relationship with many people . Do you feel that many people, will never WANT another to find? I don't know about "many" but I definitely think there are a percentange and no matter how wonderful you are they are not going to buy into a relationship on amy level to keep it going. Do you feel that YOU will find someone on here? I think it is possible. Been pleasantly surprised by several people that I have gotten to know. Do you feel that You will NEVER find your other? Nah I think when I am ready they will be ready, Do you feel that MANY can live alone the rest of their life and be happy w/o another in their life? No I know a lot of people who live alone well but I think the fair only ok and if they had their real wish they would want a mate, So tell me,,,Whats your answers here??  
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Lex,, This is something MANY PEOPLE have said,,that THEY ALSO EXPERIENCED? Well, I think it's possible for two people to just happen to come into contact with each other and feel some sort of inexplicable instantaneous attraction. I've had that happen. OK,,so,,being of common sense,,logic, and fact based principals. HOW CAN THIS BE? IF,,there is NO NUCLEUS CENTER BRAIN WHICH LOCKED THEM CODES TOGETHER TO FEEL THIS ACTION? I'll give you a few,,,,life-times,,to complete you answers,,,,LOL Kidding,,What do you think? I can't really explain the mechanism. If you look at it scientifically, there are all kinds of things that play into it -- pheromones, hormones, biological cycles, states of mind at the moment, etc. I think there's more to it than that; and, whatever it is, we don't have a word for it. We don't have a script. It happens -- because it happens. I'm not a big fan of tautologies, but I don't have a better explanation. Sometimes it clicks. Sometimes a tornado picks up a cow and moves it five miles down the road. It doesn't happen a lot, but it does happen. One of past living,,centuries old who's wondered into another one they once lived a life with? Mmmmmm,,now theres a odd possibility,,,,,, 
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So let me ask.. Do you feel that everyone has, someone just for them to find? Actually I think every one has several someone's that if they were actually looking or open to being found they could find a match. As much as we like to think we are so unique and must have this perfected human we can have A good relationship with many people . Do you feel that many people, will never WANT another to find? I don't know about "many" but I definitely think there are a percentange and no matter how wonderful you are they are not going to buy into a relationship on amy level to keep it going. Do you feel that YOU will find someone on here? I think it is possible. Been pleasantly surprised by several people that I have gotten to know. Do you feel that You will NEVER find your other? Nah I think when I am ready they will be ready, Do you feel that MANY can live alone the rest of their life and be happy w/o another in their life? No I know a lot of people who live alone well but I think the fair only ok and if they had their real wish they would want a mate, So tell me,,,Whats your answers here??
And I think some people dis-like others so much,,that their only,,happiness to find,,is in their minds,,themselves.. I use to think,,I would find a mine,,into me, only one before,,but,,not convinced now as I first was,, I think there are as many answers to SOME questions,,as their our personalities,,,,lol,,,LIFE WAS MADE TO BE OPEN,,and AWARE,,and IF that other,,does that magic,,then we shall see.... 
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So let me ask.. Do you feel that everyone has, someone just for them to find? Sounds romantic, but I'd have to say no. Not everyone will have that fairytale, til death do us part ending. I'm sure many on here have had a few relationships, even good ones that ended for whatever reason. It's not that cut and dry. There may not be only one for us. Do you feel that many people, will never WANT another to find? Not many people, but I'm sure there's a few, mostly jaded individuals or psychopaths. I think for the most part, humanity desires connecting Do you feel that YOU will find someone on here? No. I think I gave that up the first day here when I did a local search Do you feel that You will NEVER find your other? I'm not completely pessimistic on the topic. I've been surprised in the past but ultimately they weren't my "other" I guess Do you feel that MANY can live alone the rest of their life and be happy w/o another in their life? So tell me,,,Whats your answers here??
Many can live alone the rest of their life just fine and be happy. Probably not what they prefer though. |
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There is a liking for everything/everyone in my own opinion. Finding that person is the challenge. I do not openly seek any of it. If it comes along great!
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So let me ask.. Do you feel that everyone has, someone just for them to find? Do you feel that many people, will never WANT another to find? Do you feel that YOU will find someone on here? Do you feel that You will NEVER find your other? Do you feel that MANY can live alone the rest of their life and be happy w/o another in their life? So tell me,,,Whats your answers here??
It depends on each person and how they feel...If they think there is someone special out there for them then there is and they will find that special person...If not, they probably won't...Yes I believe everyone has a special Mate, a special connect...But I also believe there are many people we connect with along the way that teach us who we are...It is not beyond my realm of thinking to believe that some of us find that special connect in living life single too.....The key for me is to keep learning about me...I believe when people run "toward" life the learning never stops and, if we choose to, we can continue to evolve into better, more self aware, people right up to the end..... |
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So let me ask.. Do you feel that everyone has, someone just for them to find? Do you feel that many people, will never WANT another to find? Do you feel that YOU will find someone on here? Do you feel that You will NEVER find your other? Do you feel that MANY can live alone the rest of their life and be happy w/o another in their life? So tell me,,,Whats your answers here??
Think one's answers to these change over time and depending on their experiences. I think we all experience these thoughts at one time or another and each one of these are true at some point for many. |
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So let me ask..
Do you feel that everyone has, someone just for them to find? OR MAYBE THAT SOMEONE WILL FIND THEM... Do you feel that many people, will never WANT another to find? YES.. Do you feel that YOU will find someone on here? MAYBE
Do you feel that You will NEVER find your other? MAYBE
Do you feel that MANY can live alone the rest of their life and be happy w/o another in their life? YES... |
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So let me ask.. Do you feel that everyone has, someone just for them to find? Do you feel that many people, will never WANT another to find? Do you feel that YOU will find someone on here? Do you feel that You will NEVER find your other? Do you feel that MANY can live alone the rest of their life and be happy w/o another in their life? So tell me,,,Whats your answers here??
I believe everyone has a particular personality to find. It is vague but will resonate with them when they do. That is why it is hard to quantify what you are looking for. Many people never find this "one" and settle for less/more. No. No. Yes but it is difficult. I think you at least need a gf/bf. JMO |
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Lex,, This is something MANY PEOPLE have said,,that THEY ALSO EXPERIENCED? Well, I think it's possible for two people to just happen to come into contact with each other and feel some sort of inexplicable instantaneous attraction. I've had that happen. OK,,so,,being of common sense,,logic, and fact based principals. HOW CAN THIS BE? IF,,there is NO NUCLEUS CENTER BRAIN WHICH LOCKED THEM CODES TOGETHER TO FEEL THIS ACTION? I'll give you a few,,,,life-times,,to complete you answers,,,,LOL Kidding,,What do you think? I can't really explain the mechanism. If you look at it scientifically, there are all kinds of things that play into it -- pheromones, hormones, biological cycles, states of mind at the moment, etc. I think there's more to it than that; and, whatever it is, we don't have a word for it. We don't have a script. It happens -- because it happens. I'm not a big fan of tautologies, but I don't have a better explanation. Sometimes it clicks. Sometimes a tornado picks up a cow and moves it five miles down the road. It doesn't happen a lot, but it does happen. One of past living,,centuries old who's wondered into another one they once lived a life with? Mmmmmm,,now theres a odd possibility,,,,,,
There's a difference between admittedly not understanding how something works and resorting to superstition. I see a lot of people who seem to be living with the philosophy of "It would be nice if the world operated such-and-such a way, so I'm going to pretend it does." |
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Is their some one for everyone? I sure hope so. :) are their people who dont want to find another? Sadly yes . . Many people get hurt so badly by previous relationships thats they close themselves off to finding love again. Is their someone for me on this sight? Its possible:) Do I think I will find someone? I hope so . . . And untill I do I plan to enjoy the search. Can people be happy alone? Yes true happiness comes from within. But Id be happier with someone to share my adventure through life with. :)
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Oh shoot. That's too many questions before my coffee. I'll be back later.
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So let me ask.. Do you feel that everyone has, someone just for them to find? Do you feel that many people, will never WANT another to find? Do you feel that YOU will find someone on here? Do you feel that You will NEVER find your other? Do you feel that MANY can live alone the rest of their life and be happy w/o another in their life? So tell me,,,Whats your answers here??
For myself, no. I don't believe in soulmates. Don't know. Who knows. No. I can only speak for myself here, but I don't think I'll be alone for the rest of my life. |
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So let me ask.. Do you feel that everyone has, someone just for them to find? Do you feel that many people, will never WANT another to find? Do you feel that YOU will find someone on here? Do you feel that You will NEVER find your other? Do you feel that MANY can live alone the rest of their life and be happy w/o another in their life? So tell me,,,Whats your answers here??
No. Yes. Yes. No. Yes. |
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For myself, no. I don't believe in soulmates. I believe in soulmates, but I don't believe there is just "one" on this planet for everyone. A soulmate is someone you connect with on a very deep level and it usually happens very quickly. You just "know" each other. But, you will meet more than one of these people in your life and they don't always result in a romantic relationship. |
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So in this answer of you're here,,Your saying that you don't think, ANY TWO PEOPLE,,,could SHARE some inner nucleus of RAW ATOMS never to be internally heated, when they came within ten feet of that other who also felt that hidden unknown energy released?,,,lol Well, I think it's possible for two people to just happen to come into contact with each other and feel some sort of inexplicable instantaneous attraction. I've had that happen. I don't see it as destiny or fate or "meant to be." All of those would require some kind of external controller. I think it's just "right place right time" -- with no steering involved. Sometimes it's just a bunch of stuff that happens a particular way. sounds like my son;s go kart not a smooth ride, lex.... 
Life is not a smooth ride.... life is a go kart with loose steering and a wheel that pops off and rolls around the yard? (at a pretty good velocity) |
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Oh shoot. That's too many questions before my coffee. I'll be back later. ya - nobody liked my answers  so I left for coffee and am doing do again ATM
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So in this answer of you're here,,Your saying that you don't think, ANY TWO PEOPLE,,,could SHARE some inner nucleus of RAW ATOMS never to be internally heated, when they came within ten feet of that other who also felt that hidden unknown energy released?,,,lol Well, I think it's possible for two people to just happen to come into contact with each other and feel some sort of inexplicable instantaneous attraction. I've had that happen. I don't see it as destiny or fate or "meant to be." All of those would require some kind of external controller. I think it's just "right place right time" -- with no steering involved. Sometimes it's just a bunch of stuff that happens a particular way. sounds like my son;s go kart not a smooth ride, lex....
Life is not a smooth ride.... life is a go kart with loose steering and a wheel that pops off and rolls around the yard? (at a pretty good velocity) For some. Others never get in the go kart in the first place. |
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I believe in soulmates, but I don't believe there is just "one" on this planet for everyone. A soulmate is someone you connect with on a very deep level and it usually happens very quickly. You just "know" each other. But, you will meet more than one of these people in your life and they don't always result in a romantic relationship. All true :-) |
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