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Topic: What do you enjoy talking about?
singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Sun 01/08/12 10:03 PM
I like to carry on as if we have been friends for a while. The real you comes out this way. Yeah, I tend to talk about whatever happens to come up. There isn't anything I must talk about, or anything I hold back if the conversation is going well.

jemare Joined Fri 04/24/09 Posts: 2105	Sun 01/08/12 10:15 PM Edited by jemare on Sun 01/08/12 10:16 PM
I probably talk way too much about way too many things But I like to tell alot about my past because I think my family & past has made me the person I am today (and I like who I am today). But I don't like to ask alot of questions of someone new. You never know how private they are or uncomfortable about talking about it until they REALLY get to know you. Oh yea, and Singmesweet....I probably talk with the same accent you do as I'm a former Baltimore County girl

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Sun 01/08/12 10:43 PM
Well, in my experience (and this is just me), I find a good ice breaker is talking bout butt sex. And then, as is natural, discussing quantum physics. But...that's just me.

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Sun 01/08/12 11:04 PM
Kurt Cobain and why music has declined since then. Everything else is fair game far as Im concerned.

ichchhedana Joined Tue 07/12/11 Posts: 11	Mon 01/09/12 12:34 AM
about what's happening in front of our eyes; or nothing, I'm not a talkative!! :P

XXXForUandMe Joined Sun 01/08/12 Posts: 81	Mon 01/09/12 02:59 AM
Sex

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Mon 01/09/12 01:38 PM
I probably talk way too much about way too many things But I like to tell alot about my past because I think my family & past has made me the person I am today (and I like who I am today). But I don't like to ask alot of questions of someone new. You never know how private they are or uncomfortable about talking about it until they REALLY get to know you. Oh yea, and Singmesweet....I probably talk with the same accent you do as I'm a former Baltimore County girl As far as I know, I have no accent!

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Mon 01/09/12 01:39 PM
about what's happening in front of our eyes; or nothing, I'm not a talkative!! :P How do you get to know someone if you're not talkative?

rara777 Joined Thu 10/18/07 Posts: 61408	Mon 01/09/12 01:46 PM
Get me talking about Classic Rock from the mid 60`s to the early 80`s,we will have a great conversation.

Bravalady Joined Sun 01/01/12 Posts: 1034	Mon 01/09/12 07:09 PM
Anything that shows me he can think without stereotypes. I'm a little weird myself, so if I can get the message that he's nonjudgmental, I'm going to be much more comfortable with him. I do want to know about his life and feel free to tell him about mine, but not much of that will happen on the first date or two, unless we get lucky. I enjoy philosphy and literature, so those are good places to start for me, but I want the guy to show that he doesn't just live in his head. Lots of different subjects turn me on. Really the best vibes come when you find that you and he share two or three interests, as well as an attitude toward life. So you tend to hold back who you really are, or at least what you are willing to tell him until after the second date to see where it's going? Some of it, you bet sister.

ichchhedana Joined Tue 07/12/11 Posts: 11	Thu 01/12/12 08:36 AM
about what's happening in front of our eyes; or nothing, I'm not a talkative!! :P How do you get to know someone if you're not talkative? sometimes silence speaks more than words, and I'm a good listener!

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Thu 01/12/12 08:43 AM
I was happy to talk about anything, whatever helps me understand who a person is.. This. ^^

Optomistic69 Joined Mon 10/10/11 Posts: 5173	Thu 01/12/12 09:03 AM
I talk too much......

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Thu 01/12/12 10:05 AM
Get me talking about Classic Rock from the mid 60`s to the early 80`s,we will have a great conversation. Sorta the topic that never dies ain't it?

Shy_Emo_chick Joined Fri 04/01/11 Posts: 4393	Thu 01/12/12 10:35 AM
Most things. Just throw any topic at me. lol

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Thu 01/12/12 10:40 AM Edited by RKISIT on Thu 01/12/12 10:43 AM
Most subjects are fine with me.If she does happen to have a love for all types of music and knowledge of it,that would be a special bonus.

XXXForUandMe Joined Sun 01/08/12 Posts: 81	Sun 01/15/12 11:04 AM
Cyber-sex

soufiehere Joined Sat 10/24/09 Posts: 45399	Sun 01/15/12 11:14 AM
I can talk about anything. So I do not find silence uncomfortable. I am a listener. I don't have to fake this, I enjoy hearing a person's story. Everyone has one. Or I can chat their fool head off :-)

XXXForUandMe Joined Sun 01/08/12 Posts: 81	Sun 01/15/12 11:17 AM
Cyber-sex Thats more like 'role play' to me, rather than what you talk 'about'.

justme659 Joined Wed 10/03/07 Posts: 6144	Sun 01/15/12 11:24 AM
I want to know if they like the color puce, do they own a persimmon feather boa, Or I really throw them for a loop and ask if they wear suspenders on their socks when they mow the lawn. If a guy can come back to that they are worth talking to more. Other than that, just getting to know them, whats their story, history, hobies, favorites likes in food, music and movies. Oh and I always mention zombies at least once.