i really don't know what to think anymore

What's your life good for, you ask?

The short answer: This is generally subjective, but most people would agree to the following. The good that your life is is a combination of what good you've done, and what good you could do; your capabilities.

With this in mind - and I acknowledge this sounds like something out of a Disney movie - nearly anything you see anyone else doing, you are also capable of. Assuming you aren't severely handicapped, of course.

Biologically speaking, you should be physically capable of almost anything a human would need to be capable of in order to lead a happy life.

Psychologically speaking, as of right now, you sound limited.
However, psychology is much more malleable. What you're good for depends entirely on what you want, and how you can do that in a productive way that will improve the net gain of your community, your species, and arguably, conscious life in general.

I would give a more detailed answer, but I don't know many details about you, besides some physical attributes, your age, and an implied belief system based on your environment (American, from Iowa). I can only give an answer that would be valid for any other vague person.

I couldn't agree with you more on this Noctilucine.
Life isn't what happens to us, it is what we make of it.
If you are not happy you need to make an effort to change it.
You always have to believe that life can be better and then you have to decide how to make it happen.
I am saying this as someone who has been through some very rough times. Times where it would have been easier to give up than fight. But that wasn't good enough for me, I always believed that no matter what things could always get better and they have and they will for you too. It is hard work but its the effort you put in that makes life worth living. And always remember to smile :O)

reminds me of the old creed song - what's this life for - geez I need to put on some music


it is what it is and what u make of it - as much as u can 'sept for the haters

try to stay away from them

Hey, only my pimp is allowed to call me chumlie.

But seriously, thanks.

What's your life good for? To bless someone in this world with what ever talents and gifts God gave you. You're an asset to those around you, be it your family, friends or the community. You have something to give of value to someone else that they might not have, and in return you will receive the same.


Don't know what else to think, let's try thinking in the opposite way you might have been thinking. Believe in yourself!

It good for whatever you wish it to be good for.....you are you.

thank you

to everyone its hard to be happy with you hate being single where i have been for 8 yrs and when girls call you ugly but thank you trying to make me smile

Wow ..so negative. Sounds like you need some help. Good luck with that.

Hmmmmmmm.....sounds like my life!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

You know whats funny, many that have learned to ejoy their own company and being single with confidence in themselves (good looking or not) seem to find partners, but then find out they were happy all along being single. Good luck to you though. It really sounds like you need help with self-esteem, confidence, and a general image of yourself though.

am not needing help is just that all that girls are looking for is looks and yea i may not be the best looking guy on the ****ing would but at lest i can say i have never cheated in my life and that's being honest to myself am just tired of being called ugly and being reject me because of my looks and looks are not everything_they say you can't judge a book by its cover but i get judge by my cover

You aren't the best looking guy and arent the worst either.....have you ever thought changing your style a bit and chasing a different type of girl......you are being rejected why?? Because your cover isnt good enough you are called ugly?? Maybe the ugliness is what you see in yourself and pirtray to others.....I still say its self confidence as you are looking at yourself as ugly....

a smile would do wonders!

one i have pics that am smiling in and to am being rejected by all types of girls i even get rejected be the girls that don't have the best of looks to

What do you say to them

and talking about self confidence i had a lot of self confidence 8 yrs again but being called ugly every day for 8 yrs by girls can have its effect one ill upload a pic of me 8 yrs ago its a pic of me and my Nephew and you'll see !!! what i looked like 8 yrs ago

all i say is hello how are you then they say stop talking me your ****ing ugly