Just because someone says something doesn't make it so. Just because 100 people say something doesn't make it so.

If you tell people something that someone said hurts your feelings; especially on line your reputation will proceed you. If you think people on these sites only talk on line you are kidding yourself.

When you say gals have been busting your chops for ten years, or so I don't remember how many, I say and so what you are 29 years old that just goes with the territory. Would not matter if you were God's gift to the world in the looks department. As twenty something you are compeating with 20-somethings and thirty somethings and even forty somethings. Even more if the guy has money and other things going on in his favor.

Young women know their time to dictatie the world is limited and they. at times I am not saying everyone , pass out the greif they know they are going to take for years if they make a bad choice.

I got to say you come off as weak guy.

If you can't hand in a world with no responsibilities, take somthing as mild as being told you are "ugly" how are you going to hang supporting a wife and maybe several kids and tolerateing a bos telling you you are his slave to abuse pretty much as they please. You get discouraged that easy you are not going to make it as a spouse and father provider. And lets face it that is the real world for most females. And if a female already has a child she is going to be a lot pickier.

I don't know anything about you but if what you don't bother to put in your profile is any indication of what you have going on then you are as boreing as watching paint dry. You have no pictures of any hobbies, no party or vacation shots, no car to get anywhere, no mention of a job. No mention that you own any toys much less anything like a place of your own. With no explanation in your profile about the kid it looks like you already are paying child support or are the designated babysitter because you probably live with family.

The gals know a whiner and a crybaby is going to be worse than a long term toothache.

Wux was joking. Seriously.

I think youre just trying to get attention. Otherwise you would value each and every comment, which you seem to discount instead.

What do you say to them

In all honesty, I don't think I'm that great looking myself. However, I have confidence, which took time to build up. I soon realised that any school bully likes to stir crap. They can't face whatever they're REALLY going through, hence they need someone to take it out on. They pick whoever seems weakest, and it goes on from there. You can choose how confident you become. If you don't allow yourself, then this may cause more problems. Are you gonna let their "You're ugly" comments eat you alive? Not sure i could do that to my state of mind.