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| Topic: what's my life good for ? | |
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to learn to share,experience,love,give unselfishly.
i find the more unself centered i am the more my life repairs |
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you say you dont have confidence (and other) issues, but you clearly do... i have gotten called fat, ugly, etc... but you know what? I dont care! I think i'm beautiful, i know there are guys who think i'm beautiful, and if others dont, then screw what they think! I also dont understand why you seem so deffensive when the people here were trying to help you... its not your appearance thats ugly, its the depressing outlook you seem to have about life and people... JMO...  BRAVO,,, Silents.... That was well said and further more,,I THINK your beautiful to...  so there,,,,SEE HOW THAT WORKS DUDE..Positive MAKES YOU! I'm sorry for all the jerks in your life Silent who were mean and ugly to you....BUT,,I Proud of who you are inside and outside YOU NOW!!!   why thank you! 
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Just because someone says something doesn't make it so. Just because 100 people say something doesn't make it so.
If you tell people something that someone said hurts your feelings; especially on line your reputation will proceed you. If you think people on these sites only talk on line you are kidding yourself. When you say gals have been busting your chops for ten years, or so I don't remember how many, I say and so what you are 29 years old that just goes with the territory. Would not matter if you were God's gift to the world in the looks department. As twenty something you are compeating with 20-somethings and thirty somethings and even forty somethings. Even more if the guy has money and other things going on in his favor. Young women know their time to dictatie the world is limited and they. at times I am not saying everyone , pass out the greif they know they are going to take for years if they make a bad choice. I got to say you come off as weak guy. If you can't hand in a world with no responsibilities, take somthing as mild as being told you are "ugly" how are you going to hang supporting a wife and maybe several kids and tolerateing a bos telling you you are his slave to abuse pretty much as they please. You get discouraged that easy you are not going to make it as a spouse and father provider. And lets face it that is the real world for most females. And if a female already has a child she is going to be a lot pickier. I don't know anything about you but if what you don't bother to put in your profile is any indication of what you have going on then you are as boreing as watching paint dry. You have no pictures of any hobbies, no party or vacation shots, no car to get anywhere, no mention of a job. No mention that you own any toys much less anything like a place of your own. With no explanation in your profile about the kid it looks like you already are paying child support or are the designated babysitter because you probably live with family. The gals know a whiner and a crybaby is going to be worse than a long term toothache. |
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Just because someone says something doesn't make it so. Just because 100 people say something doesn't make it so. If you tell people something that someone said hurts your feelings; especially on line your reputation will proceed you. If you think people on these sites only talk on line you are kidding yourself. When you say gals have been busting your chops for ten years, or so I don't remember how many, I say and so what you are 29 years old that just goes with the territory. Would not matter if you were God's gift to the world in the looks department. As twenty something you are compeating with 20-somethings and thirty somethings and even forty somethings. Even more if the guy has money and other things going on in his favor. Young women know their time to dictatie the world is limited and they. at times I am not saying everyone , pass out the greif they know they are going to take for years if they make a bad choice. I got to say you come off as weak guy. If you can't hand in a world with no responsibilities, take somthing as mild as being told you are "ugly" how are you going to hang supporting a wife and maybe several kids and tolerateing a bos telling you you are his slave to abuse pretty much as they please. You get discouraged that easy you are not going to make it as a spouse and father provider. And lets face it that is the real world for most females. And if a female already has a child she is going to be a lot pickier. I don't know anything about you but if what you don't bother to put in your profile is any indication of what you have going on then you are as boreing as watching paint dry. You have no pictures of any hobbies, no party or vacation shots, no car to get anywhere, no mention of a job. No mention that you own any toys much less anything like a place of your own. With no explanation in your profile about the kid it looks like you already are paying child support or are the designated babysitter because you probably live with family. The gals know a whiner and a crybaby is going to be worse than a long term toothache. damn Straight if you have money and other things going on in the favor of them |
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ok am going to say this again i don't feel ugly i don't think am ugly all am trying find out why girls only look for looks in a guy and if they don't have looks they call us ugly but they don't look that what I'm am faithful/honest/funny/caring/out going/loving/open minded and more not ones have i ever cheated on my girlfriends they cheated on me yea i know that i don't have the looks as brad Pitt or hes money or hes cars but i know one damn !!! think is that i don't beat on women i respect women i don't do drugs i don't drink and smoke
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ok am going to say this again i don't feel ugly i don't think am ugly all am trying find out why girls only look for looks in a guy and if they don't have looks they call us ugly but they don't look that what I'm am faithful/honest/funny/caring/out going/loving/open minded and more not ones have i ever cheated on my girlfriends they cheated on me yea i know that i don't have the looks as brad Pitt or hes money or hes cars but i know one damn !!! think is that i don't beat on women i respect women i don't do drugs i don't drink and smoke I would suppose girls look for looks for the same reason guys look for looks. You can do one of two things; you can sit and feel sorry for yourself, or you can pick yourself up and listen to the wisdom the good people on mingles are sharing with you. The choice is yours. Good luck. |
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OMG its a nice guy thread!      
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am not needing help is just that all that girls are looking for is looks and yea i may not be the best looking guy on the ****ing would but at lest i can say i have never cheated in my life and that's being honest to myself am just tired of being called ugly and being reject me because of my looks and looks are not everything_they say you can't judge a book by its cover but i get judge by my cover Don't let that define who you are. Overcome it and be happy with what you have and make the best of it. |
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