Topic: Interracial Relationships Yay or Nay??
Okami04's photo
Thu 12/22/11 12:19 PM
Super Huge YAY to this one

gimme some oatmeal raisin asians, hazelnut brazilians, macadamia Caucasians

I like my cookies of any flavor hahaha what is life if you dont mix it up lol hahahaha

kissablekiss's photo
Sun 12/25/11 09:45 PM
Greedy !!!
Miss you also Will

Hugs

nicci8's photo
Sun 12/25/11 11:34 PM
seeing as I'm bi-racial(black/white) I'm totally for it (^_^)

nicci8's photo
Sun 12/25/11 11:34 PM

Super Huge YAY to this one

gimme some oatmeal raisin asians, hazelnut brazilians, macadamia Caucasians

I like my cookies of any flavor hahaha what is life if you dont mix it up lol hahahaha


that was cute

Tulareman's photo
Mon 12/26/11 12:25 AM
Yes. I would have a relationship with a different race. To me, its whats in the heart. Not the skin color.

kissablekiss's photo
Tue 12/27/11 03:57 AM
Well the color of one skin doesn't depict the type of person you are .......

Ash36's photo
Tue 12/27/11 08:30 AM
If you ask of sex, then i bet every single men wanna phuck each n every women in this world. Caucasians, African(Nice booties), Itallian(Hotties), soviet(Ahem... No comments plz), Asians(cute as hell), Hispanics(Badasses).

Realationship is complicated. So.... I cant say anythin bout interracial relationships right now. But I've known a black dude who's really in a relationship with a white blonde. Ummm they dont have a kid yet.

no photo
Tue 12/27/11 08:38 AM
Yay


And since people were talking Trek earlier, I'll take an order of T'Pol to go please.

Okami04's photo
Tue 12/27/11 10:11 AM

Greedy !!!
Miss you also Will

Hugs


Long time no see Kiss, hahaha and you know me how many relationships did I go through on my facebook hahaha earlier this year lol

1 was Chammorro 4 were asian lol one Taiwanese 2 Thai hahaha

I definitely have Yellow Cancer and Jungle Fever hahaha

irisheyes79's photo
Tue 12/27/11 10:15 AM
think

kissablekiss's photo
Tue 12/27/11 11:17 AM


Greedy !!!
Miss you also Will

Hugs


Long time no see Kiss, hahaha and you know me how many relationships did I go through on my facebook hahaha earlier this year lol

1 was Chammorro 4 were asian lol one Taiwanese 2 Thai hahaha

I definitely have Yellow Cancer and Jungle Fever hahaha

Yes sir ........lol how's the little one doing

no photo
Tue 12/27/11 11:24 AM
has anyone said nay?

no photo
Tue 12/27/11 11:31 AM

has anyone said nay?


The only nay I saw was towards Klingons.

John8659's photo
Tue 12/27/11 11:38 AM
Edited by John8659 on Tue 12/27/11 11:52 AM
To be honest, I really don't know what "race" is.

I agree with many professionals who view it correctly, that is of sociopathic origins and has no validity. Under the principles of reasoning, man = man. People use many terms to place themselves as being different, better, or even worse than their neighbor, but this is not functional behavior.


no photo
Tue 12/27/11 12:12 PM

To be honest, I really don't know what "race" is.

I agree with many professionals who view it correctly, that is of sociopathic origins and has no validity. Under the principles of reasoning, man = man. People use many terms to place themselves as being different, better, or even worse than their neighbor, but this is not functional behavior.




Two word 'race' is often used without clarity or precision or thought, to reference poorly examined pre-conceived ideas.

There are two uses that have some degree of merit in my view - a cultural one and a physical one.

In the physical sense, 'race' is not a useless concept. You can say that all human beings belong to one 'family' in the sense that we are all genetic relatives of each other. Yet, just as my immediate family has greater genetic similar within the group than there is similarity with a member of another family (parents+offspring) - so do large groups of people who've historically bred largely within their group have measurable tendencies towards genetic similarities within the group that exceeds similarities with members of another group. In this sense, 'race' is 'real', though it does not recognize distinct boundaries.

John8659's photo
Tue 12/27/11 12:43 PM
I suppose that is as good a way of saying "is not is" as any I have heard.

PacificStar48's photo
Tue 12/27/11 01:32 PM
Dating and living in inter-racial relationships have many pluses and minuses. Love is rare and if you find it in an interracial relationship you have tough choices to face. It is easy to be all PC when just converseing but it is a whole another story when you live it day in day out. Watching a mate suffer just becasue they are not your race and there are people int he world that have no better then to do than make and issue of it is no fun.

People who decide to cross racial lines are wise to look into their own skill sets to see if they have what it takes to live in a counter cultural relationship. It is not impossible but it is tough. It will not be an easy relationship. And it is not something you do an just say oops it it doesn't work out. People get hurt on all sides of the equation and memories can be really long. If you don't have some serious courage, self confidence, independence, and absoute committment I don't recommend it.

Love does not thrive in a vacume of just two people and if you don't have some serious friends and family to support it it can wear you out even if you don't want it to and do every thing you can to make it work..

Those who think "love overcomes all" fail to realize that racism is pervasive and sometimes so subtle that it is hard to identify and overcome. The constancy of it can wear out or severly rough up even good relationhips on a regular basis. People who think freinds and family will be enough or even step up are often dissappointed.

And while it is hard to endure when it is personal it is excruciateing when it is directed at your children which it will, with out a doubt, be.

In my experience for a biracial child, even an adult, the feeling of being without real acceptance anywhere is not a really great experience. Saying you can know how it feels because it is your child is deludeing yourself.

John8659's photo
Tue 12/27/11 02:10 PM
Edited by John8659 on Tue 12/27/11 02:11 PM
There is no end to being able to place blame for human conflict and confusion--where it does not belong.

We, each and every one of us, are a mind in a body, we are not the body in which we are the mind of.

As such, mind has one and only one definition. We are, by definition, one. That definition does not change due to the resources a particular mind has to construct a life with. The first line of resources is one's body.


Prince_charlez's photo
Wed 12/28/11 04:16 AM
no matter what it is.. as long there is love on it.. i go for yay! :heart:

msharmony's photo
Wed 12/28/11 05:20 AM

I suppose that is as good a way of saying "is not is" as any I have heard.


but its not true

just about any book one reads on the subject will tell us there are actually more physical DIFFERENCES within 'any' race than there is between them,,,