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Topic: Love & relationship
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Fri 12/02/11 11:33 AM
Does love realy exist? people don't usualy know the difference between love,like,lust,infatuation and affection

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Sat 12/03/11 04:32 AM

Does love realy exist? people don't usualy know the difference between love,like,lust,infatuation and affection

It doesn't really matter. What matters is what you want and mean when you say it.

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Tue 12/06/11 08:30 PM
I have love this man for 15 years but he doesnt love me anymore.... So love is a douBle sided knife... I would rather Go for lust and like..

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Tue 12/06/11 08:30 PM
I have love this man for 15 years but he doesnt love me anymore.... So love is a douBle sided knife... I would rather Go for lust and like..

pyxxie13's photo
Wed 12/07/11 08:34 PM
Love is rare. But it is out there.

MariahsFantasy's photo
Wed 12/07/11 08:35 PM

Love is rare. But it is out there.


blushing yeah it is...

Fireviolin's photo
Wed 12/07/11 08:36 PM
When you really find it, you'll know.

Bingarma's photo
Wed 12/07/11 11:18 PM
I've found it and I know :)

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Thu 12/08/11 01:03 AM

Does love realy exist? people don't usualy know the difference between love,like,lust,infatuation and affection
Yes. True love does exist.You're heart will let you know when you find it.

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Thu 12/08/11 01:49 AM

I have love this man for 15 years but he doesnt love me anymore.... So love is a douBle sided knife... I would rather Go for lust and like..


U are right love is double sided knife, however, loving someone like a blind person and that too for 15yr is crazy... you can judge a person with in 1 or 2 yr of relationship or marriage then why to give 15 years of ur life...

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Thu 12/08/11 02:31 AM
You can still love someone even if you're not with them... It's starts out with infatuation then it becomes love and each time you're around Him your heart starts to beat and all you can do is think about him.

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Thu 12/08/11 03:02 AM
Does true love really exist?
Yes and No
Yes, b'cos you get carried away.
No, b'cos it dies. shades

Fireviolin's photo
Thu 12/08/11 05:46 AM

I've found it and I know :)


That's great :)

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Thu 12/08/11 12:21 PM

Does love realy exist? people don't usualy know the difference between love,like,lust,infatuation and affection


I think love does exist but depends on who you love I guess. I found you can love a person with all your heart but in the end when they leave you; it means nothing. Now; the love I have for family and close friends is wonderful. They were there to pick the pieces up when again another partner let me down and they always will be there. Fact is you can't ever expect a partner to be there for you until the day you die but you can with family and close friends.

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Thu 12/08/11 12:30 PM

Does love realy exist? people don't usualy know the difference between love,like,lust,infatuation and affection


All those things are included in the "falling in love process". Where the process ends and real love begins is hard to measure and probably different for everyone.

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Thu 12/08/11 12:47 PM

Does love realy exist?


Chemical interactions and delusion exist; I think it basically amounts to the same thing.

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Thu 12/08/11 01:09 PM
Edited by 2KidsMom on Thu 12/08/11 01:10 PM





laugh smooched

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Thu 12/08/11 02:28 PM


Does love realy exist?


Chemical interactions and delusion exist; I think it basically amounts to the same thing.


I think sometimes; it is much like believing in Santa Claus or the Easter bunny. laugh

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Sun 12/11/11 01:53 AM

Does love realy exist? people don't usualy know the difference between love,like,lust,infatuation and affection

Yes, love exists. First is attraction, but when it comes down feelings get deeper or stop. Just it`s always hard work for both to keep love.

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Sun 12/11/11 10:20 AM
It's easy to say that most people do not know what love is. Divorce rates are high. Tons of relationships nowadays end in infidelity. Some relationships end because circumstances dictate a choice to end it. Now, that last remark would bring up the question of "If you truly love someone, why would circumstances cause one to end a relationship"? And, to answer this, most would possible say that their wasn't true love involved. But you cannot really say that that is the case. We will come back to this in a moment.

A lot of people rush into relationships, and to be honest it shouldn't surprise anyone that this is so. Look at our society. We see something we want, and we go for it (and most of the time we do so on impulse). Now, this isn't neccessarily a bad thing. But when it involves "love", it can be. True, we have to date to find that person we want to be with. But we don't have to drop "I Love You" to someone so quickly. Thing is, I have come to believe that most of us do it because it just feels right to do. Hell, we may say those three words because we "think" we are in love. But I still feel we say it initially because we truly want to believe we have found it. Thus, it feels so right to say.

Now, I mentioned earlier that sometimes circumstances dictate ending a relationship. You can love someone (and know you do) but at that moment in your life you realize that you need to break away. My Grandparents had this happen. My Grandma divorced my Papa for a year because, while she loved him so, she knew that leaving him was best (at the time). My Papa had some growing up to do back then, but the thing is he discovered how much he truly loved my Granny and he worked his butt off to prove it. He needed time away from her to realize what he was missing. Now, the risk is that my Granny could have fallen for another man. But it was a risk she knew had to be done. She will tell you to this day that she believes she made the right call. And 57 years of marriage later, I'd say she was right. Now, I realize that doing something like this doesn't always end up happy. Sometimes circumstances cause you to see that maybe the relationship you have isn't really good for you. My point is that you can be in love with someone and still decide that you need to end a relationship.

You asked if love exists. It does. But love comes with a ton of emotions. It can be so great one moment, and then turn around and hurt like hell. You don't find love and then everything is just ***** dory. Love encompasses so much that you simply have to accept the goood/great/wonderful things about it with the bad/terrible/awful things too.

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