Why do most women avoid men that truly love them and show greater love to men that even beat them on regular bases.

oh generalizations.

The same way men run after ladies that don't love them, and throw away the one's that truely love them...(i guess that is just the way it is)

Why do men disrespect their wives and take them for granted, and mess around with other women?

Questions like the above, and like the O.P. are what is called "loaded questions." It assumes a fact not in evidence.

Here is my question for the O.P.:

When did you start beating your wife?

Yes I expected that. When it comes to such questions as this, women are so gender sensitive. But it is really disheartening to me that most women I've loved so much and done anything to show my love for them never regarded me. Then I ask again, what do women want? Hope this doesn't offend women. Sorry, but that's true.

Well not all women want the same thing.

I would have been happy with a grown up responsible man.

But many men are immature and irresponsible.

ah, yet another grossly overgeneralized whining of that age old question, "why do women seek out the bad boys and we nice guys never get laid?" scuze me, breakfast is commin' back up.

Maybe nobody knows what they want until it finds them and even that can be temporary....

Maybe what they want is a hot roll in the hay and a stiff....

well you know what I mean.

... a man.

Stop generalizing about women based on a couple experiences you've had.

Human beings can be very fickle creatures. Often we do not know ourselves what it is that attracts us to a person.

One of the first steps to wisdom: Know thyself. Its also a step you never stop taking along life's journey.

I may have the answere some women want a man for the companionship nothing more some rather want the sex some cheat on there partners do to lack of feelings such as they feel that there not getting enough attention from there partner so they find some one to fill the part.

In all my years of just sitting back and study thease sites i see a lot of men or women want and want and want they want but dont give wtf is that?

Then always the same crap all men are pigs all men think with there pricks well i hate to break it to the ladys whas with taking pic of there brest and tight dress etc ?Is that a signe for attention or what?

Granted some men are players but women are to my uncle told me as a child not to affend any women but he once said 1 way a woman can control a man heart whats between there legs but see it works bouth ways.Life is what it is we all chooose are own path ."Why do women want love" Let me ask this "why do men want love"?Theres a differce between wanting love and finding love to find love is easy it comes from the heart.To want love is when want to have it by having sex etc

So there for true love out there people are way to blind to find it all they have in there mind is money,sex,cars,crap like that they find them selfs never happy and why because love iwas never there to begin with.

Maybe nobody knows what they want until it finds them and even that can be temporary....

That depends on the person if a person finds that 1 special person it could be the most wonderful thing on this earth but like any relationship it should be built from the ground up not half azz.

Oh what a crock of crap that is.