I'm 65, I know I'm in a younger group, but I wanted to get your opinions on this question. What does it take for a younger woman to love an older man. To be honest, I haven't found one lady that I'd want to have a relationship with even close to my age. Most have just let themselves go and have lost the desire to be pretty and even to control their weight. Let alone their attitude.

First of all, I don't look 65 and second, I don't feel 65. And I really want someone younger than myself because older women just don't have the spark or desires of a younger women.

So how do I attract a younger woman who is pretty, slim/petite, under 50 who wants stability, gentleness, exploring all over the US in my mobile RV motorhome office, and someone who treats them like a lady.

Is it still just about "Money". Surely there some younger pretty, slim/petite, under 50 girls who want stability, gentleness, exploring and wants to be treated like a lady..... who doesn't care about a mans net worth.

Or am I just stupid for thinking of such a thing today.

First, decide how old you are.
Your profile says 55, here you say 65.

If you were good-looking, tall and under
50 there would be no problem getting the same.
You can figure this out.

Well I am not sure where you are looking, but I am over 50, I am petite, my atittude is full of life, and I am not where near letting myself go and neither do my friends over 50 and 50 +....maybe you should go to the gym where we hang out..

Second, women that may not be petite, don't focus on the glam and have an atittude that may be rough have probably spent most of their life making everyone else look good, and feeling good (that can be tiring)..SO,

If, you are into younger women come to terms with that.

Next, if you are will to get past appearance you may be surprised how, someone that does not look so good shines up well polished.

Lastly, yes...(most) younger women see older men as "bank accounts" so if you go there get out your Credit Card

Best of luck to you!!

It's going to depend on the individual woman. First, you'll have to find the women who are into older men.

Well I do hope you find what you are looking for, however, sounds like you have a pretty strict guideline there.

Did you ever think that maybe, just maybe a vast majority of women do not want to travel the U.S.A. in a camper? Younger or older? And the word is swoon, as in: to faint or have the vapors. Sorry for the harsh words but, my feet hurt and I am crabby.

I agree.....

Hiya Webwizard,

As a woman under 50, I would not date someone 20 years older than myself and it wouldn’t have anything to do with you bank balance.. more to do with your ability to keep up with me, your stamina, your health (your future health, not immediate) and I would be concerned that you would have more in common with my dad than with me..

All the best in finding the person you are looking for and welcome to the site.

DITTO THAT

Most women 50 and under that I know still work and would not be able to travel all over the country...I'm 69 and looking for someone to do that with but not with someone that lies about their age...

Oh... Sophie.. I beg to differ.
Not about trying to find someone younger,
But about finding someone with the same commitment-wise attitude.
There may be plenty out there, but, we live in a fast-food, high speed Internet world
Where most want instant gratification with no conscience of the consequences.
Therefore, here we are.....