Topic: New to the site. Not having much luck...
blumorning2424's photo
Wed 11/09/11 03:10 AM
Hello, I just joined last week and realize that not alot of time. Im not having a lot of luck on my matches. I dont find most of them attractive, and dont get alot of replys. I posted another picture and that has helped a little. I guess i just expected more.

blumorning2424's photo
Wed 11/09/11 03:19 AM
thank you..happy

ujGearhead's photo
Wed 11/09/11 03:23 AM

Hello, I just joined last week and realize that not alot of time. Im not having a lot of luck on my matches. I dont find most of them attractive, and dont get alot of replys. I posted another picture and that has helped a little. I guess i just expected more.


I'm not sure what you expected, but few days isn't much time at all to find somebody here. Even though this is possibly the best dating site out there, it's still a bit different than going into a Burger King and instantly getting it your way.... You'd likely also have more luck if you hang out in the forums more and let people get to know you.

blumorning2424's photo
Wed 11/09/11 03:30 AM
Thanks i will do that...

RainbowTrout's photo
Wed 11/09/11 03:47 AM
I just hate wet matches.smokin

ujGearhead's photo
Wed 11/09/11 04:16 AM

I just hate wet matches.smokin


Even wet t-shirt contests?

RainbowTrout's photo
Wed 11/09/11 04:49 AM
Are we not men? We are DEVO.laugh

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Wed 11/09/11 05:21 AM

Hello, I just joined last week and realize that not alot of time. Im not having a lot of luck on my matches. I dont find most of them attractive, and dont get alot of replys. I posted another picture and that has helped a little. I guess i just expected more.


You've only been here a week. A site like this will only work if you putt the effort into it. It's not going to be instant gratification.

If you're not getting responses, look at what you're writing and change it a bit. Read profiles send emails based on what you've read. Give them something to respond to.

As for not being attracted to most of your matches, that's not anything anyone is going to be able to help with. Just move on from those who you do not find attractive to those you're more interested in.

Also, check out the forums more. It's a good way to meet people.