Why cant i find love i mean
Hell i have written hundreds of poems about it
I look kinda good not brad pitt good more like funny looking like beavis good
And me naked is good from a distance
Well with sex im not porn star great more like a little kid playing with legos give me time and u will see something amazing

Maybe you will be lucky and love will find you. Hey, it could happen.

Well, I am sure most people on this site will tell you that it will take time. I think you need to get yourself out there. A dating site is a fine start but join some groups. Myself not looking for anyone but I am in some fitness clubs, over 45 clubs, ladies clubs, astronomy, etc. I think that is the best way to get out to meet people. Good luck in your search and please don't get discouraged too quickly.

Don't have to try so hard. Enjoy yourself and be friendly.

It depends on what you are looking for. If you are looking beyond superficial, it's very very very hard to find anyone that fulfills your needs and then to find them in your location, almost impossible. I mean, getting dates, no problem. But actually finding L.O.V.E. very difficult.

people who try to reenact porn in the bedroom are lousy lovers

u seem like a nice guy - just be yourself

I wonder if finding love really does have anything to do with luck?

I think it can - timing- being in the right place at the right time

but after that I feel it requires nurturing.

Sigh. I guess you're probably right. I hate leaving anything so important up to chance.

well just hope that chance works in your favor

I look at luck like something that happens partly because of chance and partly because we are putting the pieces in place - and WHAM one day it happens

I always keep my teeth brushed & my panties clean, for example

Now THAT is good advice.

This thread makes me think of the success formula that is something like when preparation meets opportunity.

Relationships don't bloom in a void.

If a person is unable to carry on a conversation about any mutual interest subjects, enjoy any kind of generic entry level but pleaseing activities with the opposite sex, or manage their resources and time for dates they are not going to the next level.

Focusing on "love" before you get the foundation of "like" is pretty close to building a cardboard house in a lake.

you think i could find love i written close to 800 poems about it but cant catch the porn thing was only a joke what im after is not her mind or her body

I dunno...it found me....he literally walked through my front door 6 months ago, and we have spent a grand total of 16 days apart..

I honestly and totally accepted that I had already been fortunate to have that one great love in my life, and that the rest was as a single, contented entity...besides, I am an opinionated, cantankerous, set in my ways, lone wolf kind of a person....so couldn't imagine anyone being remotely silly enough to even notice me.

I used to joke with my girlfriends, and say ' if there was someone out there in the ether for me, he best be me, in the male form'...and he is.

I didn't find love, I met a gentle, kind, calm, peaceful soul, who sees me....the inner me....and fell in love with me....(it's even strange typing it! )...and I him.

I would say the problem is not with you, the problem is with theses girls that you are tryin to hook up with. Theses girls don't seem to want to settle, for a decent, nice, caring, loving man. They seem to like the ones who leave them asking themselves why do they keep goin back to them.They are only goin back to theses men, because they don't believe they deserve a wonderful man like yourself.

hope you find the girl that deserves you for who you r n hope she can make your heart whole...

her money?

that's the only thing left

Writing poetry (most times) only takes one person, falling in love takes two people. If you are looking to find someone on here, you have to interact more on the threads without negativity (not meaning this personally) and filling out more in your profile and maybe explaining things in your pics... i.e. you say you have no children but you are holding a little beauty in your main pic.

In "real" life, when looking to meet someone you have to look for someone with similar interests, likes and dis-likes, because as TheCaptain says, after the sex....you still have to TALK to your partner. No talking = no relationship.