I do a lot of things on my own. I also enjoy doing things with friends. I have a group of co-workers from a previous job and we make it a point together and have dinner and we end laughing all evening long. It is soo much fun when we all get together.

I don't know why, but I like to go with someone/a friend when I got to a concert. I really love music.

I don't know about you, but I can't find a helluva lot to do these days in CT - especially with the kinds of music I dig. But when I do, I normally go out alone these days.

well then ur in the wrong part of NEW ENGLAND LOL KIDDING

sure...Mingle2...and...

and this...

http://youtu.be/mgEixhE3Oms

i do alot alone gotten used to the peacefullness of it but sometimes would be good to chat with a women freind or lover

Ive gone to dinner alone and several movies, and also a concert. I dont really have a problem with it. I of course would prefer company, like a friend or BF, but i would and have gone alone.

At first it was weird for me....but i think actually a lot of people do it.

Oh I enjoy going out by myself so much. Everything seems easier alone. I do like company here and there but I could go without it easy.

I am one of those that goes and does stuff alone all the time. Can't say I enjoy it, but I tend to drag unwanted lies, deceit and BS along if I try the other route.

I have done things alone before but even then I have either met friends in passing or got the chance to make a new one. A lot of times I have found out that being alone is a choice.

I'm pretty easy also....feel comfortable doing alone things and it's great to have people around to do whatever. When you have a motorcycle you get used to just taking off and wandering alone. There's a time and place for everything I say.

As I read these responses, I realize that my own life has been one where I am constantly seeking a balance. Unfortunately, my life has typically been so unbalanced that I often shift fully in one direction.

For instance, I used to do most things alone. Now I want to do most things with someone else. Yet when all my friends lived in the same area, I was out and about 7 nights a week. I found it too much, and wanted some alone time. So I adjusted my schedule. Just when I was approaching nice balance, everyone moved, so I was back to doing everything alone.

Maybe if I could find just a few people who aren't so entrenched in their own routines, I could find a nice balance, like 2 nights out each week and a day out during the weekend. Then the rest would be "me" time. I might find myself more willing to do stuff on my own again if that happened.

Very true...it's all about balance

They are here brother.

Keep hanging out and being you. I think you got good odds. These women dig good men. You don't strike me as the "douche bag" type.

Getting out and doing things on your own that you enjoy might help you meet people to do things with the other nights that you want company. Get involved in groups in your area that do things you're interested in.