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Hello Member,
Weighing heavily on my heart is an ex-husband I decided to part ways. Without going into details, I got tired of understanding, caring, and loving him again and again. I’ve been on quite emotional ride recently. Feel guilt, painful, but I need to move on from a man who doesnt want to change at all. Going off from a longtime marriage is tremendously painful. We will remain good friends. 
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Good for you. You should be very proud of yourself. It takes a ton of courage to do what you have done.
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Edited by
42BlackBBW
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Sat 10/08/11 05:36 PM
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A common mistake that we humans tend to make is thinking ‘love’ can make a person change and unfortunately it doesn’t. People can only change when and if they want to.
When part of a relationship, people may make small compromises but fundamental changes very rarely happen if the request doesn't come from within. I hope things continue to work out for you and that you remain strong. I wish you all the best. |
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Losing your husband is very difficult. Especially when you've been committed for so long.
Why is it that women want to change their man all the time? Why not just respect him for who he is? Isn't that what love is really about? I think most men leave a relationship because they do not feel valued and appreciated. |
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