Topic: COUGAR Dating
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Wed 10/05/11 10:05 AM



Guess I'm still the old Lion on here?


You and me both Dave...

Didn't even get on the *short list* grumble

where's the *beer thread* drinker

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Tue 10/11/11 12:08 AM
Well sheesh, a woman in her 50's isn't some shriveled up old hag. And what if the younger guys keep hitting on her?? Does that make her a Cougar? Or is it only when she does the pursuing? Apparently some people think it's a big joke and hella funny if an older woman flirts with a younger man. I wonder how you'll feel when you reach that age? Getting older should not mean that you give up on love, or desires, flirting or plain old hot sex. Just saying...


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Tue 10/11/11 05:13 AM

Well sheesh, a woman in her 50's isn't some shriveled up old hag. And what if the younger guys keep hitting on her?? Does that make her a Cougar? Or is it only when she does the pursuing? Apparently some people think it's a big joke and hella funny if an older woman flirts with a younger man. I wonder how you'll feel when you reach that age? Getting older should not mean that you give up on love, or desires, flirting or plain old hot sex. Just saying...




Why worry about what others think? If you'd like to flirt with/date/whatever younger men, go for it.

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Tue 10/11/11 06:01 AM


Well sheesh, a woman in her 50's isn't some shriveled up old hag. And what if the younger guys keep hitting on her?? Does that make her a Cougar? Or is it only when she does the pursuing? Apparently some people think it's a big joke and hella funny if an older woman flirts with a younger man. I wonder how you'll feel when you reach that age? Getting older should not mean that you give up on love, or desires, flirting or plain old hot sex. Just saying...




Why worry about what others think? If you'd like to flirt with/date/whatever younger men, go for it.


Oh, I am not worried and I will, thanks. I was merely responding to this, "There's a bar around here where lots of "cougars" hang out. It's a bunch of older ladies, probably 50s or so, and several younger men as well as older men. It was actually pretty funny to watch." indifferent

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Tue 10/11/11 06:17 AM



Well sheesh, a woman in her 50's isn't some shriveled up old hag. And what if the younger guys keep hitting on her?? Does that make her a Cougar? Or is it only when she does the pursuing? Apparently some people think it's a big joke and hella funny if an older woman flirts with a younger man. I wonder how you'll feel when you reach that age? Getting older should not mean that you give up on love, or desires, flirting or plain old hot sex. Just saying...




Why worry about what others think? If you'd like to flirt with/date/whatever younger men, go for it.


Oh, I am not worried and I will, thanks. I was merely responding to this, "There's a bar around here where lots of "cougars" hang out. It's a bunch of older ladies, probably 50s or so, and several younger men as well as older men. It was actually pretty funny to watch." indifferent


Have you ever gone out to a bar and just watched people? It can be funny anywhere. But yes, it was amusing to watch some of the ladies in their leopard print dresses and stilettos hitting on much younger men. Sorry you took offense to that.

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Tue 10/18/11 05:10 PM

Well sheesh, a woman in her 50's isn't some shriveled up old hag. And what if the younger guys keep hitting on her?? Does that make her a Cougar? Or is it only when she does the pursuing? Apparently some people think it's a big joke and hella funny if an older woman flirts with a younger man. I wonder how you'll feel when you reach that age? Getting older should not mean that you give up on love, or desires, flirting or plain old hot sex. Just saying...



You're damn right

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Tue 10/18/11 05:31 PM
Edited by ArtGurl on Tue 10/18/11 05:31 PM

in my 47...........l assume no ..........am not l a cub????



You could be ... plenty of 65 year old sexy mamas would pounce on a cub of 47


You just wouldn't be a cub to me ... of course, I am not a cougar in the market for a cub either.

It's all relative...

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Tue 10/18/11 11:38 PM
eat me up 4 dinner am waitin hahhahahhhahahahhaha, bt i tink am a cub check out bt am jst a fresh meat waaooooow sooo afriad

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Tue 10/18/11 11:58 PM
Hahaha! I like that...sabre tooth! Good one
laugh

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Wed 10/19/11 01:43 PM
No Cougar on Mingle.

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Wed 10/19/11 08:02 PM

I want to point out that this question is relative. Everyone's answer would/ willbe different. I know some "cougars" go out looking for cubbies. But I think most cougars just end up finding that a younger man can be just as compatible with them as an older man.

Exactly right. drinker Life is short, but immaturity can last a lifetime. laugh :wink:

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Sun 11/13/11 01:03 AM


I want to point out that this question is relative. Everyone's answer would/ willbe different. I know some "cougars" go out looking for cubbies. But I think most cougars just end up finding that a younger man can be just as compatible with them as an older man.

Exactly right. drinker Life is short, but immaturity can last a lifetime. laugh :wink:

To be a male is by virtue of birth but to be a man is by choice. Not by physique

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Sun 11/13/11 01:04 AM

No Cougar on Mingle.

How true is this?

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Sun 11/13/11 01:05 AM


in my 47...........l assume no ..........am not l a cub????



You could be ... plenty of 65 year old sexy mamas would pounce on a cub of 47


You just wouldn't be a cub to me ... of course, I am not a cougar in the market for a cub either.

It's all relative...

But how young of a man can you date?

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Sun 11/13/11 01:07 AM


nu uh.......I'm only 20. Check my profile.


OMG J you are too much. Is this the game you and E play. Like cops and robbers? Or plumber and lonely housewife?
surprised what noone else played that game?
slaphead OOPS!


well, I prefer patient and naughty nurse

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Sun 11/13/11 01:11 AM

Thanks, it's relative but is it about maturity or age differences?

neither

it's about compatability

most "cougars" or whatever who I know do nor pounce. younger men genrally seek them and the age difference can vary. I prefer not to be referred to as a cougar. I think a man who is a gentleman at any age will do the pursuing - at least it is my preference so I do NOT pounce - until the pouncability has been made known:wink:

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Sun 11/13/11 12:08 PM


Thanks, it's relative but is it about maturity or age differences?

neither

it's about compatability

most "cougars" or whatever who I know do nor pounce. younger men genrally seek them and the age difference can vary. I prefer not to be referred to as a cougar. I think a man who is a gentleman at any age will do the pursuing - at least it is my preference so I do NOT pounce - until the pouncability has been made known:wink:


I think in some cases it is about compatibility and in other’s it’s a way of life.

Although I am relatively certain that I don't have any cougar tendencies, I can admit to almost being tempted by someone 10 yrs my junior..

Sweetestgirl (whose profile I keep clicking on by mistake flowerforyou) is right. I think it starts with the person and the age gap becomes irrelevant.

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Sun 11/13/11 01:02 PM
I always feel like cougars are older than me. But, I guess anyone can be considered one if they go for men 10+ years younger. That's too young for me, though.

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Sun 11/13/11 02:01 PM
In my case, he was someone that I met in my everyday life and he pursued me like a man pursues a woman. There was no insincere flattery, no sleazy chat up lines, no idolisation... Just a guy expressing an interest in a girl BUT he was 10 years younger.

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Mon 11/14/11 06:33 AM
Edited by Unknow on Mon 11/14/11 06:39 AM


Thanks, it's relative but is it about maturity or age differences?

neither

it's about compatability

most "cougars" or whatever who I know do nor pounce. younger men genrally seek them and the age difference can vary. I prefer not to be referred to as a cougar. I think a man who is a gentleman at any age will do the pursuing - at least it is my preference so I do NOT pounce - until the pouncability has been made known:wink:

Wow, so age becomes irrelevant to you, 'cause not all women could date younger men. Some would say it's not their thing. Isn't an older lady dating a younger man a cougar?