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Topic: serious question
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Thu 09/29/11 09:18 AM
Edited by jackie_star on Thu 09/29/11 09:19 AM
I need to ask a serious question, I'm very comfortable with my sexuality and so, I tend to forget that it can be offensive to others. So my question is, when I come in a room and play, do you find it offensive ? and if so, I VERY!!! humbly apologize.

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Thu 09/29/11 09:23 AM
Not at all, just be yourself. drinker

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Thu 09/29/11 09:29 AM
why apologize?
that seems like you're apologizing for being a lesbian.
if people are offended by it,
oh ****ing well.

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Thu 09/29/11 09:38 AM
Pfffft.
Has no effect whatsoever.
We are all people first, minglers second.
Preferences are like, 72nd.

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Thu 09/29/11 09:38 AM
I know it may not seem like it from some of the things I post and my profile but I am a VERY!!! shy,humble,polite person and I don't like to offend others.

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Thu 09/29/11 09:52 AM
If your sexual orientation offends anyone,
I think it is their issue, not yours.
They can work it out with those in the
Religion or Political forums.
So everyone knows exactly how they feel
about anyone who is not them.
And we don't have to watch intolerance.
Enjoy yourself :-)

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Thu 09/29/11 10:21 AM
I thank you all for your comments, especially!!! the Lady's. So, keep the comments coming because I do not wish to make you feel uncomfortable with me.

This is what I was going to post ( as a joke )

Back OFF!!! guys, the girls are mine.



but then I thought it might offend someone so I did not post it

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Thu 09/29/11 10:21 AM

I need to ask a serious question, I'm very comfortable with my sexuality and so, I tend to forget that it can be offensive to others. So my question is, when I come in a room and play, do you find it offensive ? and if so, I VERY!!! humbly apologize.


NOT AT ALL!! And I think the general consensus around here is your fabulous. So be who you are Girl!! If they don't like then they can leave.

Its the way you were made
(And before anyone starts up with GOD does not make gay people--think before you open your mouth PLEASE NOONE would pick a lifestyle with THAT much stigma) I am proud to call my gay and bi friends FRIEND>

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Thu 09/29/11 10:31 AM
Edited by jackie_star on Thu 09/29/11 10:32 AM

"NOT AT ALL!! And I think the general consensus around here is your fabulous".


THANK YOU!!!!
That was VERY!!! kind of you. That brought a tear to my eye. Yes, I'm very!!! sensitive.

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Thu 09/29/11 10:34 AM
And if anyone does start into you about your "wrong" lifestyle. You let me know-- I'll play body guard an back you up.
And I'll bring my pepper spray and cuffs.- Just in case. laugh

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Thu 09/29/11 10:45 AM

I need to ask a serious question, I'm very comfortable with my sexuality and so, I tend to forget that it can be offensive to others. So my question is, when I come in a room and play, do you find it offensive ? and if so, I VERY!!! humbly apologize.


I'm not offended. Unless you try to get at me lady. laugh But serious I have a sister who is gay. I love her with all my heart. She respects my views and I respect her. No one has a heaven or hell for anyone. We only have to answer to one person I believe. You seem like a nice person, no need to apologize.

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Thu 09/29/11 10:49 AM
COOL!!! Sister in blue. Be SAFE!!!! out there girl and remember

The Untouchables

first rule of law enforcement.
"Make sure when your shift is over you go home alive".


This photo was taken just after I retired.





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Thu 09/29/11 10:49 AM
I'm not offended by... well... much of anything... from what i understand, tho, people dont get offended with you playing the games in some of the forums... they get offended by you skipping over people and not following how the games are supposed to be played...

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Thu 09/29/11 10:50 AM
I have no idea what you're even apologizing for, as I haven't seen you say anything offensive.

Keep in mind that some people here can be very sensitive and will get offended by things that shouldn't matter. They may get mad at you, but it happens to all of us. Don't change the way you post just because someone may have taken something the wrong way.

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Thu 09/29/11 10:54 AM

I have no idea what you're even apologizing for, as I haven't seen you say anything offensive.

Keep in mind that some people here can be very sensitive and will get offended by things that shouldn't matter. They may get mad at you, but it happens to all of us. Don't change the way you post just because someone may have taken something the wrong way.


:thumbsup: :thumbsup:

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Thu 09/29/11 11:00 AM

COOL!!! Sister in blue. Be SAFE!!!! out there girl and remember

The Untouchables

first rule of law enforcement.
"Make sure when your shift is over you go home alive".


This photo was taken just after I retired.







So cool NYPD. very respectable.
I'm a corporal in the county jail (so far 16 years). And I still got ya back if you need it. Although knowing that now, I really don;t think you'd need it

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Thu 09/29/11 11:27 AM


COOL!!! Sister in blue. Be SAFE!!!! out there girl and remember

The Untouchables

first rule of law enforcement.
"Make sure when your shift is over you go home alive".


This photo was taken just after I retired.







So cool NYPD. very respectable.
I'm a corporal in the county jail (so far 16 years). And I still got ya back if you need it. Although knowing that now, I really don;t think you'd need it



Before I switched over I work as a Correction Officer on Rikers Island. I worked in C-74 ( adolescents ) C-73 ( adult males ) and RMSC ( females ) I worked with the M.O, P.C and in the bing.

Anyway!!! you would think I would have a thick skin by now but I don't.

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Thu 09/29/11 11:32 AM

I need to ask a serious question, I'm very comfortable with my sexuality and so, I tend to forget that it can be offensive to others. So my question is, when I come in a room and play, do you find it offensive ? and if so, I VERY!!! humbly apologize.
Jackie Jackie Jackie! I told you in intimacy forum. Why would anyone be offended? If they are offended, then just say, what the **** are you lookin at, a$$holes!

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Thu 09/29/11 11:35 AM
Jackie, just get the old corrections attitude back, like you get at shower time. Don;t sweat them and their small minded ideas.
And Rikers? scared WOW, you would laugh at my little county lockup (well not little count is around 1450)

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Thu 09/29/11 11:42 AM
You are totally awesome. If I were a lesbian I would totally hit on you. tongue2 :thumbsup:

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