Topic: Is It Just Me?
pkh's photo
Sun 07/15/07 09:41 AM
I feel like the last few weeks,there seems to be alot of drama,and anger in the forums.Not as friendly as it was.I find myself not responding as much as I used too.Maybe it's me,but seems to be more drama then before.:smile:

Native_Grl39's photo
Sun 07/15/07 09:42 AM
No it's not just you...There has been more drama...BUT it seems to be settling down now...Just like any site it seems to go in cycles!!!!!!!!!!!


flowerforyou drinker

midnightspcl's photo
Sun 07/15/07 09:44 AM
im fairly new to jhs but ive seen some pretty bad stuff recently and i thought this board was diferent and fun but i seeing it isnt much different then others..such a shame

no photo
Sun 07/15/07 09:46 AM
There's an ebb and flow to it, some normal fluctuations -- but it's way better than it was even as recently as a few months ago....

pkh's photo
Sun 07/15/07 09:53 AM
Midnightspc, it is a good site.The people are great.I just guess like everything else,you take the good with the bad.:smile:

Marie55's photo
Sun 07/15/07 09:56 AM
Things seem to have quieted down for awhile, there was some drama for awhile, but seems more peaceful again. Like Lex said, some fluctuations, but things have been quieter lately.

I know Mike and Van have been working on keeping things more calm too.

SheNerd's photo
Sun 07/15/07 09:57 AM
It's just PMS (pre mucosal spasms). I prescribe a dozen polkas and a healthy dose of Monkeylax...

summerlady's photo
Sun 07/15/07 09:58 AM
Midnight, It is a good board. Just give it some time to settle down again. :smile:

verbatimeb's photo
Sun 07/15/07 10:01 AM
I don't stop in nearly as much as I used too.

It was fun for a while and a nice diversion from working online.

I have seen some pretty nasty stuff lately and that does not help my attitude for wanting to come in and say hi to anyone.

Verb

summerlady's photo
Sun 07/15/07 10:04 AM
Verb!

You were on when I first came on and then you left! It's good to see you! I used to enjoy your posts. Please stay for a while.

thedoctor's photo
Sun 07/15/07 10:07 AM
yeah, been kinda ugly here lately....nerd, we need to rock this house!!!!!

only4me_13's photo
Sun 07/15/07 10:15 AM
I am new to the whole forum thing, but how do you have drama on a dating site?maybe I'm just confused but what's the purpose?

creationsfire's photo
Sun 07/15/07 10:28 AM
This site is just going through some growing pains

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Sun 07/15/07 10:42 AM
thinkin' I agree with "only" the drama is by those who keep it going. If I don't like the topic I don't comment..I don't even read it.

CATBW56's photo
Sun 07/15/07 10:59 AM
This is by far the best site around....like most it has it's ups and downs.....and drama does exist from time to time....like Lex said, it's much better around here these days then it was a few months ago. There are still a lot of great ppl around.

only4me_13's photo
Sun 07/15/07 11:00 AM
exactly dawn, i haven't even seen it but that's how i look at it too:smile:

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Sun 07/15/07 11:34 AM
only4me you're so funny but I agree there is no purpose for drama at an online site

Wildone4lyfe's photo
Sun 07/15/07 11:38 AM
It comes and goes like Lex said

LAMom's photo
Sun 07/15/07 11:52 AM
Nawwwwwwww its not you,,, Sometimes its like a rollercoaster around here,, I just sit back and wait for the ride to stop,, sooner or later it does,,, Good Morning to you flowerforyou

Snugglesbyfire's photo
Sun 07/15/07 11:54 AM
This site is much nicer than the rest.......less drama here than others........and just ignore the threads that bother you that is what I do.:smile: