Just keep telling them the truth, any witnesses you can come up with will help. If your boyfriend has any balls he will tell them the truth about you too. Do what you need to do, and follow whatever steps they tell you to, cooperate with them. Ask for a DNA test even, you would not have any DNA at any crime scene, etc. You should be fine, I understand your fear, anyone would be scared in a situation like that. Talk to an attorney too, get some advice. Doesn't hurt to get some legal counsel just in case.

Hang in there girl, I understand how scary that must have been and is. But take care of yourself, and things will work out. You have friends out here and we will be glad to talk to you anytime you want someone to talk to. Take care.

OHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH No you're NOTTTTTTTTTTTTT...If you think this is the answer it isn't HEY...I have been alone for 6 years steady and off and on for 13 years and I refuse to settle...And you're not gonna either g/f!!!!!!!!!!!

Not if I have anything to do with it!!!!!!!!!!

dont marry the gay friend.you will lose the friendship.the police thing will clear itself up.wait for love ,i never did and now i have no man to hold me...

Exactly Jax...reasons other than love...never turn out to be fulfilling do they!!!!!!!!!

well ill update u all,i wasnt allowed a phone call,they had me in custody for six hours before gettin me a solicester...i know im innocent,omg i knew he was an ass but i never thought he was involved with all this...anyway well i was in handcuffs all these men searched the house,i saw one of his shirts covered in blood and a knife...they found fire arms....they have sezed my passport til im cleared and my phone and all i did was go round to get my things....im hopin they gonna clear me soon,work has suspended me til this charges are cleared!!!i cant sleep properley ive tried,i cant get that blood stained thirt or knife out my head and the very thought i was involved with someone like that xxx

well stacy thank god you werent the victim.hugs jax

((((((((((Stacey))))))))))

Hang in there hun ... with all you've been through - all the more reason not to jump into something with your friend. The legal stuff will sort itself out. Hugs.

Stacey!!! breathhhhhhhhhhhhhe.........breathe again and breathe some more.

Marrying a gay man will not only complicate your life more, let alone the non-sex part....believe me you don't want to go through the divorce process.

getting married to someone you are not in love with does not solve your problems or make anything better. think hard about it!!! you can get through this! if anything just live together to see how things go.

update.....still havent been cleared of anythin...damm they takin their time,i want my passport and phone back!!!!

I am about to turn 45 and have never been married. I thank God now that I never did. I always wanted to get married....

I met the love of my life 6 months ago and I am glad now that I didn't go through the trauma of marrying just anyone and go through an unnecessary divorce.

I am looking forward to one day marrying my soulmate!