omg!!!!i think ive stepped to desperation!!!!my gay guy friend and i have decided we are gettin married to each other!!!!!this is not a joke!!well we both said if we arent married before we are twenty nine wed marry each other lol...so thats what we doing i guess!!!!we have talked about kids and we are going to adopt.....i know its not normall but we both love each other as people and we are best friends,so there u have it!!!!xxxxx

awwwwwwwwwww thats sweet , love comes in many forms ...
I have a friend who says that we should get married if we are still unmarried by 40 ....... almost there ,,I wonder......

can I be the flower guy?...

uuuummmmmm yeah?
uuummmm ok whooohooo?
im happy for ya?
is this real?
am i just imagineing it?
im in a comma anyway
thanks doc

So what is the desperation to be married by 29???? There is no law to be married by 29. You might meet the perfect guy at 30 or 31. And if you love the gay guy enough, it could be a perfect marriage in many ways too, but you would be giving up the physical part, unless he choses to "convert".

Women are having babies later in life, no need to rush into a marriage just because you are 29, but your choice. Just my thoughts.

Big , go back to the other thread ....shenerd's preparing a polka, just for you!

You know, I wasn't going to reply to this...but I just can't let my thoughts go! My first thought is...how lonely would that be? I couldn't imagine being with someone forever and not being IN love with that person. I mean it is hard enough to make a marriage work when you are truly IN love with that person...but to have it arranged like this.
All I can say is really think about it. If he is a gay man, do you honestly think he is going to stop being gay? UMM NO...he is going to have desires....and with all the diseases out there, all I can say is, NO GLOVE, NO LOVE

youd feel like me
just laying here in a comma!!!

i hear u marie lol....if u all knew wat ive been thru in the last days ull all understand everythin!!!!!!!x

I think a comma would be good!! I couldn't imagine living that way for the rest of my life!!

bigs in a comma , or he is in a coma lol

Stacey...the question is this....don't you wait to wait for true love? I guess my question is this...can you spend 50 years looking at your gay friends face and not questioning if you did the right thing?? Atleast thats what I always ask myself....if I think about marrying someone, can I look at him for 50 years??

don't you want to wait is what I meant...sorry

29 not married what i would give to go back to that !

Sassy, we all go through hard times, but they get better, don't settle for second best just because it is convenient and may be comfortable and okay for now. It isn't what you really want, hold out for true happiness and go for what you really want. I understand loneliness all too well, most of us on here do or we wouldn't be on here, but think long and hard about your decision.

You are still really young and beautiful, don't give up on finding your life's partner. It just takes time, give yourself that time to find your happiness and have some faith in yourself. Take care.

well here goes i just spent the last 36 hours in custody cos i went to my boyfriends house to pick somethin up!!!!as it turns out he had to people livin with him who were murder suspects!!!the police knocked the door down,came in with guns,and cuffed me and thses two other people and his involved..his been arrested now..i swear i never thought he was into this....ive never been so scared in all my life........................the more i was tellin the police i don5t know the harder they were on me....i promise to god i ddnt know...

((hugs stacy!)) Been there done that! lol

I am sure that everything will work out for you. Sooner or later the police will find out that you were not involved...so you have nothing to worry about