Topic: Getting checked out
Sandelwood4's photo
Mon 09/05/11 01:09 PM


You’re walking on the street or you’re somewhere public and you get checked out. The guy keeps looking at you and won’t stop looking even though you’re not smiling. How do you feel?


This happens a lot, but I don't stress over it. It's out of my control. So they can look all they want.









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krupa's photo
Mon 09/05/11 01:11 PM



I took this picture after getting ready for my big date with ManO. He still hasn't picked me up. :angry:


I've f**ked uglier. That is a Polish compliment.

:)

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Mon 09/05/11 01:11 PM
I just take it as a compliment.....and it's a pretty good ego boost, if you nO what I mean :wink:

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Mon 09/05/11 01:12 PM



I took this picture after getting ready for my big date with ManO. He still hasn't picked me up. :angry:
my truck is STILL broke down, honest it is whoa

soufiehere's photo
Mon 09/05/11 01:13 PM


I took this picture after getting ready
for my big date with ManO. He still
hasn't picked me up. :angry:

Has he tried?

Sandelwood4's photo
Mon 09/05/11 01:13 PM

I never get checked out and I don't check out. Man! What a boring life.


yes, like krupa said. you should dress like Ruth34611. when I want to be noticed no one sees me.

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Mon 09/05/11 01:14 PM

To me some stares are totally flattering, especially if it's followed by a smile (by me or/and him), greeting, or conversation.

Some stares that go on for too long is not pleasant at all. In one of many instances I was leaving my house to get in to my car and the guy who was painting my downstairs neighbors window stopped his work and just stared at me. I said hi and he didn't respond back. I said hi again and nothing. I went in my car and saw he was still staring. I got out of my car and asked him if he needed something and he said no and went inside my neighbors house and shut the door.

I guess my point is that stares can be flattering but also intimidating when it is done so bluntly. It can make people feel as if something is being done to them when in fact it could be a positive experience.



he was just awe struck :wink:

Sandelwood4's photo
Mon 09/05/11 01:15 PM

I just take it as a compliment.....and it's a pretty good ego boost, if you nO what I mean :wink:


i can't when it bothers me. but that doesn't mean i don't enjoy ego boosts now and then. :)

krupa's photo
Mon 09/05/11 01:21 PM


I just take it as a compliment.....and it's a pretty good ego boost, if you nO what I mean :wink:


i can't when it bothers me. but that doesn't mean i don't enjoy ego boosts now and then. :)


Great...turn around and stick it out..even white boys gots ta shout "Baby got back"!

Sandelwood4's photo
Mon 09/05/11 01:23 PM


To me some stares are totally flattering, especially if it's followed by a smile (by me or/and him), greeting, or conversation.

Some stares that go on for too long is not pleasant at all. In one of many instances I was leaving my house to get in to my car and the guy who was painting my downstairs neighbors window stopped his work and just stared at me. I said hi and he didn't respond back. I said hi again and nothing. I went in my car and saw he was still staring. I got out of my car and asked him if he needed something and he said no and went inside my neighbors house and shut the door.

I guess my point is that stares can be flattering but also intimidating when it is done so bluntly. It can make people feel as if something is being done to them when in fact it could be a positive experience.



he was just awe struck :wink:

Thanks. I can laugh about it now because I'm around you nice people who talk to me and treat me like a person.

Ruth34611's photo
Mon 09/05/11 01:25 PM

my truck is STILL broke down, honest it is whoa


Sure it is. tears

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Mon 09/05/11 01:27 PM


my truck is STILL broke down, honest it is whoa


Sure it is. tears
wood I lye to you ? :angel:

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Mon 09/05/11 01:28 PM



You’re walking on the street or you’re somewhere public and you get checked out. The guy keeps looking at you and won’t stop looking even though you’re not smiling. How do you feel?


This happens a lot, but I don't stress over it. It's out of my control. So they can look all they want.









Lex? You are a street walker? hummmm...I had no clue. I will probably forever picture you in daisy dukes with a tube top and the chrome shades and ball cap.

I would be looking twice....then feel dirty about it.

hehehehehehe


Well, you never know what might catch the right person's attention....!!

krupa's photo
Mon 09/05/11 01:30 PM

Thanks. I can laugh about it now because I'm around you nice people who talk to me and treat me like a person.


Perhaps you misinterpetted me...

I wanna look at your butt. Put that double bubble in my face Mamacita!!!


hehehe (ducking and running)

illumastorm's photo
Mon 09/05/11 01:31 PM
Edited by illumastorm on Mon 09/05/11 01:32 PM

To me some stares are totally flattering, especially if it's followed by a smile (by me or/and him), greeting, or conversation.

Some stares that go on for too long is not pleasant at all. In one of many instances I was leaving my house to get in to my car and the guy who was painting my downstairs neighbors window stopped his work and just stared at me. I said hi and he didn't respond back. I said hi again and nothing. I went in my car and saw he was still staring. I got out of my car and asked him if he needed something and he said no and went inside my neighbors house and shut the door.

I guess my point is that stares can be flattering but also intimidating when it is done so bluntly. It can make people feel as if something is being done to them when in fact it could be a positive experience.





that guy sounds like a pervert or someone that has a major social disfuntion, i would at least say hi back, not just run inside and hide. be aware of idiots like that! you might end up in his basement tied up and used for perverted ways

Ruth34611's photo
Mon 09/05/11 01:31 PM



my truck is STILL broke down, honest it is whoa


Sure it is. tears
wood I lye to you ? :angel:


No. love flowerforyou

Ladylid2012's photo
Mon 09/05/11 01:33 PM
I love being checked out,
unless he has a stalker look in his eyes...
and some do.
I check men out all the time. It's one of the beautiful things
about being single and unattached.
Checking out the beauty of the opposite sex is one of the fun
things, it's free and harmless.
We all need a boost now and then and beauty IS in the eye of
the beholder.

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Mon 09/05/11 01:33 PM




my truck is STILL broke down, honest it is whoa


Sure it is. tears
wood I lye to you ? :angel:


No. love flowerforyou
of course not :wink:




































pitchfork

Sandelwood4's photo
Mon 09/05/11 01:34 PM


Thanks. I can laugh about it now because I'm around you nice people who talk to me and treat me like a person.


Perhaps you misinterpetted me...

I wanna look at your butt. Put that double bubble in my face Mamacita!!!


hehehe (ducking and running)

Lex, are you going to let him talk that way about me? Krupa, you better run fast. :laughing:

Ruth34611's photo
Mon 09/05/11 01:36 PM





my truck is STILL broke down, honest it is whoa


Sure it is. tears
wood I lye to you ? :angel:


No. love flowerforyou
of course not :wink:

pitchfork


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