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To everyone who responded I want to thank you for your honest replies, yes even Mr.Biscuit.  When it comes to matters of the heart and you're looking from the outside looking in it is easy to give advice because you're looking at how you would deal with the situation. But when you're the one on the inside it can be a challenge.
After meeting with him I don't know why I came here first to the forum to vent. I guess I've read enough positive responses to others that I felt comfortable posting what happened. At my age one would think I'd be pass stupid relationship problems like this but I am human. I make mistakes, I fall but I get right back up until I get it right. And that's what I intend on doing. And you're right krupa, I met him here on Mingle2 but I shouldn't look at the site or any other men on the site in a negative way. I'm feeling good now, I'm not sad or upset. Thank you all for letting me vent, and I hope this thread will help someone else stand up and take control. I want you guys to know, I think you are awesome!!! At least you didn't marry the same person twice like I did. You were smart enough to quit while you were ahead. 
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I suppose you have to get to the stage where you get so fed up of his behaviour, that you just won't want to be around him anymore. I only finally walked away from an ex, when i realised he'd only keep on doing the same things to me, over and over. I partly blame his upbringing. He always reflects his mothers behaviour, which hmmm, isn't good in many ways. I can see why his dad wanted to divorce her. Jmo. Hopefully you're ALREADY sick of the game, and have reached "No Return" ;)
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Edited by
Shy_Emo_chick
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Mon 08/29/11 03:05 AM
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Ok, the last time I wrote about this subject I receive some very good advice, but being stupid I didn't follow it guys. I met my ex today and it didn't go so well. I ended up leaving fighting back tears so I wouldn't look so stupid in front of people at Starbucks. Honestly I know it won't work, and I've accepted that as much as I still care for him. And as to not keep putting the both of us through any more drama I ended the almost 3 year relationship explaining why and that we both need to look for someone who is truly right for us. I stopped calling and,emailing him. For awhile I ignored his contacts all together. Today I broke down and agreed to meet him for coffee. He feel like I'm calling all the shots, and he feels used. Used he says. What is freakin wrong with this man? How long will it really take me to just stop going thur this? Is there something wrong with me? Has anyone ever gone thur this before? I'm almost afraid to meet anyone online again, or at least on Mingles. |
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Okay...u really do need to come down to Florida...I'll take you party all night long at South Beach areas...or we can just stay bar hopping closer to my place...till they close at 6am...yay!!!
   ; thought I cheer u up....just let go..let go..let go..let go....and let go.......let go...unless you wanna be your own worst enemy....
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