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Topic: Is love at first sight possible?
winterblue56's photo
Mon 08/29/11 10:20 AM



Is it possible to love somebody at first sight?


Absolutely!




How? Have you experienced it before?


Once in my lifetime :smile:

ojofolorunso's photo
Wed 08/31/11 09:27 AM



Hummm each can believe what they want to until it happens to them then they want believe...

Been there done that and had it happen more then once....so yeah I'm a believer..

Was it lust well if that is all it was we were married less then 3 months later and it lasted 11 years...

Just because it does not last a life time does not mean it was not love!!!!bigsmile

But I think anytime we talk about true love,marital love should be one of such. And it has been said that true love endures and is sacrificial. Therefore I reason that whatever might be the disagreement between married couples,it shouldn't lead to their separation if it's actually true love in the first place. True love in marriage should be forever despite all odds,it doesnt't wear out,it's not a business contract. It should only take determination of either parties to make it work,though may not be easy but it must be able to overcome the challenges that could cause separation or divorce if it is indeed true love. Real love doesn't fade but always magnetic!


Hummm well by your opinion then there is only maybe one in a million that finds true love or the odds may be even higher.. Or maybe it does not exist at all...noway noway Very few stay together a life time..

There is some things that even true love can not endure....



There were and are millions around the world who stayed and are staying together a lifetime. It's rather unfortunate that divorce and separation have become commonplace in US and some european countries. But the truth of the matter is that true marital love that has brought the partners together under the same roof does not fade. It doesn't get old and it is very possible to achieve(as being done by many around the world) without it unnecessarily enslaving the partners.

I can't imagine myself getting married to someone now and envisaging divorce or separation at any point of the marriage. God forbid! And of course as a christian,I must have prayed very well about it. Tha settles it!

misswright's photo
Wed 08/31/11 10:56 AM

Is it possible to love somebody at first sight?


Apparently it is after you have eight shots of Goldschlager...I told complete strangers I loved 'em. :tongue:

On a serious note...yes, I believe it can happen. I think when two people instantly connect, it can be considered love. That love deepens and grows over time as you explore each other, or maybe it eventually fades away into the night, but just because it changes doesn't mean it never existed. Just my two cents...




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